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Women Don't Lie - Men Don't Listen
"You need to build your social skills so you feel comfortable and
confident meeting women face to face. Perhaps a bit of counseling and a
self esteem seminar or two would get you going in the right direction."
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Hi Doc,
I've been watching this beautiful girl on campus. I phoned her two weeks
ago, not using my real name. I told that I was from another campus and
that I happened to see her when I visited her campus. The first thing
she wanted to know is how I had got her phone number, so I told that one
of my friends took it off someone’s phone. Anyway, she wanted to know
what I wanted, so I told her that I wanted to get to know her.
She asked me why would I want to get to know her. I told her that I
liked what I saw on the outside and I wanted to see if the inside does
the outside justice. She gave me a giggle. She then said that I
shouldn’t call her again. I told that if she gave me a good reason why I
shouldn’t call, that I wouldn’t call her again.
Then she tells me that she doesn’t know me. I told her I could change
that. Then she tells me that wouldn’t change anything. She's just not
interested. Then I told her that she was jumping to conclusions. All I
want is to get to know her, be her friend and see what happens from
there.
Then she asks me where I was from and what I was studying. I asked her
where she was from and what she was studying and it was going pretty
well. I asked whether I could call her again, she tells me no. So anyway
I told her that I would call her in two weeks time. She didn’t say yes
or no.
I phoned her tonight and we started all over again. I asked if she
remembered who I was. She said no, so I refreshed her memory. She then
tells me that I shouldn’t call her again. She told me that she has no
interest in guys because her studies were her first priority and that I
should save my phone bill for that one special person.
So I told her that special person might be her. She told me it's not
her. She then started cross examining me again, trying to get more
information about me. Anyway she told me that she had to go and has a
test on Tuesday to study for, and I shouldn’t call her again.
So Doc, what do I do now?
Terry - who just wants to be loved
Hi Terry,
Did you know that you’re a Feminsta’s fantasy come true? Guys like you
give the male bashers more ammo to use to justify their “all men are
creeps” propaganda. Plus, you’re part of the reason that there’s a “War
of the Sexes” in America today.
You’d better wake up Dude. What you’re doing with this girl is
dangerous. And the saddest thing about your question is that you don’t
have a clue that you’re doing anything wrong.
I teach men to be a Challenge and to be positively mysterious, but not
creepily mysterious like you’re being in this situation. Haven’t you
ever seen a film where the woman is being stalked by an obsessive guy
who doesn’t have the self-confidence to approach her properly? You’re
that guy, Terry.
A surprise call from a complete stranger is guaranteed to attack a
woman’s comfort level, make her feel quite concerned and possibly
frightened. So, you should never, ever call any woman for a date when
she hasn’t directly given you her phone number herself. Are you getting
the drift Terry?
You said that you saw her on campus. So why didn’t you just walk up to
her and say something like: “Hi. My intuition tells me that you’re a
Psychology major. Am I right?” Something positive and non-threatening,
like a normal guy might do. Then you might have had a shot at getting
her number and actually getting her out on a date. But your courtship
technique is straight out of the Troubled Loser’s Handbook.
But the girl you’ve been harassing is not without blame in this
situation either. She must be some kind of Bimbo because any clinically
sane gal would have cut you off immediately. Instead, she foolishly
encouraged you by engaging you in further conversation. I think that
she’s just too stupid to realize that she was being terrorized by you.
Lucky for you she doesn’t have more brains or else you might have wound
up having a little visit from the Sheriff.
Terry, you need to build your social skills so you feel comfortable and
confident meeting women face to face. Perhaps a bit of counseling and a
self esteem seminar or two would get you going in the right direction.
In the meantime, stay off the telephone. If you don’t, you may soon find
yourself being handcuffed and taken to a confined space with a new 300
pound roommate named Bubba.
Remember, guys, never attack a woman’s comfort level.
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Doc Love is a talk show host and entertainment speaker who coaches men in his seminars. For the past 30 years he has asked thousands of women, "Why do you stay with one man versus another?"
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