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Have you ever wondered why a lot of
single women are attracted to jerks who treat them like shit? Well I'm
just as confused as you are. Even though I don't agree with being a jerk
towards women, I ran across an article posted on a newsgroup by the
author who chose to remain anonymous, that explains why they are
attracted to jerks. I wanted to share this information with you so that
it may shed some light on this subject for you:
The truth about single women's attraction to jerks (or why women
don't like wimpy nice guys).
Did you NOTICE that women
keep saying that they want a nice guy? BUT .... how come they are always
going after some stupid jerk? Go and get brain surgery immediately if
you believe when women say that they want a guy who is sensitive,
caring, understanding, that will treat them with respect, and on and on.
Do NOT believe what women SAY. Instead, WATCH what women DO. They go
after the jerks, don't they?
Always remember that actions speak much louder than words. NEVER, EVER
believe what women tell you. Instead, WATCH FOR THEIR ACTIONS. Watch
what women do. They go after jerks. Even better. Watch what ANY person
(male or female) does. His/her behavior is the best predictor of his/her
personality.
WHY DO SINGLE WOMEN GO AFTER JERKS?
There is ONE undeniable TRUTH that you must understand: 'WOMEN DON'T
CARE FOR A NICE GUY. WOMEN GO AFTER A JERK BECAUSE HE IS HARD TO GET AND
WOMEN WANT WHAT THEY CANNOT HAVE". The BIG QUESTIONS are:
1. Why are nice guys ignored? 2. Why are women so attracted to jerks? 3.
Is she attracted only to jerks or to ANY guy who can make her "feel" the
way a jerk does? 4. If a nice guy adopted some of the jerk's techniques,
would he attract women like the jerk does?
The answers to these questions are based on the NEED for the SURVIVAL OF
THE FITTEST. And IT explains women 's behavior EXTREMELY ACCURATELY. I
have never seen it explained so clearly before. It took me some time
years ago to understand what was going on. Maybe other men have already
observed this.
FEMALE'S GENETIC PROGRAMMING
Listen carefully. Females OF ALL SPECIES were genetically programmed by
Mother Nature to MATE with the dominant males of their species, NOT the
weak ones. BY mating with the dominant males of their particular
species, the GENES of the strongest males were passed to the newborn
thus assuring its SURVIVAL in a very hostile environment. You can
observe this MATING RITUAL happening over and over aging in the animal
kingdom.
Here is HOW Nature assured the SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST: First: Nature
had to find a way to make the female willing to surrender and MATE with
the male. There had to be an INCENTIVE for her to WANT to mate. Would
you engage in sexual intercourse if it were absolutely boring or
unpleasant? Of course not. So, in order to make her a WILLING
participant, the female of the species was programmed to feel all those
intense, uncontrollable, overwhelming, pleasurable FEELINGS that makes
her ready to go ahead and MATE. Have you heard the expression: my female
dog is in HEAT? You know that this female dog goes CRAZY. If that dog
were not in HEAT, there would be no copulation, no mating.
Second: Nature wanted to preserve the strongest traits of that species.
Therefore, the female was programmed to have those crazy, wild feelings
and emotions PREDOMINANTLY toward THE STRONGEST, MOST DOMINANT MALES,
the ones that she COULD NOT CONTROL, the ones that would dominate her.
You must have observed in Wildlife that the female does NOT surrender to
the weakest, but she waits for the WINNER AMONG ALL THE MALES fighting
for her favors. And the winner is always the strongest one. And the
fighting itself contributes to make her quite EXCITED. And the sight of
the winner makes her even MORE excited to the point where she WILLINGLY
surrenders and MATES WITH THE WINNER.
Do you understand what I said? The female
was programmed by Mother Nature to feel ATTRACTED to and MATE with the
dominant males, not the weak ones. Is it the strong male, not the weak,
the one who makes her FEEL really excited and turned on. Well, guess
what. Women, the females of our species, have exactly THAT SAME
INFORMATION still coded in their genetic structure. And -this ancient
MATING INSTINCT is constantly being REINFORCED in ALL women, FROM A VERY
EARLY AGE, by the heroes of Hollywood, TV and the mindless soap operas
and romantic novels that women devour.
All these heroes are supremely self-confident, strong, untamable, they
cannot be controlled by ANY woman, they treat women roughly, they can do
no wrong, they always say the right things and make the right moves,
they SWEEP WOMEN OFF THEIR FEET and they always end up getting the
females.
THE MESSAGE BEING CONSTANTLY REINFORCED IN ALL SINGLE WOMEN is that ONLY
the uncontrollable, untamable guy is desirable. And that ANY nice guy
should be ignored. Therefore, women all over the world keep dreaming
about some knight in a shining armor WHO will SWEEP THEM OFF THEIR FEET,
and dominate them and make them go totally OUT OF CONTROL and possess
them. That is why the strong, dominant, unpredictable, untamable male is
a turn-on for ANY WOMAN. She was programmed to respond to that kind of a
male. She goes "NUTS" for this type of guy. She will do ANYTHING to try
to get him.
This genetic programming in the females is accomplished in great part
through a very powerful hormone known as Estrogen, the "FEELING" drug.
It makes females want to feel, and feel, and feel. On the other side of
the spectrum, a powerful hormone known as Testosterone, the
"PERFORMANCE/ACHIEVEMENT" drug, is the one that makes men "hunters" and
gives them the drive to achieve, invent, and create. That would very
nicely explain why women CRAVE for intense feelings and emotions. They
love to FEEL, FEEL and FEEL. They have this uncontrollable, almost
"psychotic" NEED to talk about their relationships and what/how they
FEEL all the time. They couldn't care less about how things work, about
computers and about cars. Except when they want you to buy one for them.
It would also explain why men DON'T have this overwhelming,
uncontrollable, even ''psychotic" NEED, to talk about their feelings and
they are much happier creating, inventing, and talking about their
computers, their cars and their latest high-tech toys. Women FEEL happy
when they FEEL. Men FEEL happy when they ACCOMPLISH something. LOGICALLY
SPEAKING, ANY woman should try to avoid the jerks, the bad guys, AT ALL
COST considering that she has been drilled over and over by her mother
(and even her father) that men are no good, that they are only
interested in sex. Does she follow her mother's instructions? Of course
not.
Instead, she keeps going after the troublemakers, the guys who are going
to hurt her. These BAD guys project these vibes of being so dominant and
uncontrollable that it TURNS ON the all powerful MATING INSTINCT to mate
with a DOMINANT male, a male perceived as strong because he is
uncontrollable, a male who gives her a sense of security that females
themselves don't have, a male who makes her feel totally OUT OF CONTROL,
a male who makes her surrender completely, and who controls and
dominates and possesses her. And SHE LOVES THOSE FEELINGS. She loves the
feelings she gets WHEN being DOMINATED AND BEING OUT OF CONTROL, just
like her female counterpart in the animal kingdom.
These feelings act as a powerful and highly ADDICTIVE DRUG that she MUST
have AGAIN and AGAIN, EVEN when she gets hurt. Of course, Mother Nature
ONLY wanted to assure the survival of the species by means of this
ANCIENT MATING RITUAL. But this is not a "useful" behavior any longer.
MOTHER NATURE should have! terminated it a long time ago. BUT IT WAS
NEVER DONE. And modern women still carry with them, wherever they go,
this "useless" genetic information that gets them incredibly "TURNED ON"
anytime they encounter a jerk or a hard-to-get man.
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