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Why you should always be yourself when dating single women.
I need to caution you
about putting on an act when you're on your first few dates with single
women. What I mean by this is pretending to be someone you are not. And
doing things that are not your true nature.
For instance, while on dates you are very romantic, caring, a good
listener, love to laugh, complimentary, love doing different things on a
date, etc.
All these things you are pretending to be really turn her on and she
falls for the person you are pretending to be, not the real you.
So after you feel comfortable that you have hooked her, you revert back
to being your true self:
- Not romantic anymore.
- Self-centered.
- Ignore her when she's talking.
- Compliments are few and far between.
- You don't laugh as much when she says something funny because before
you were only pretending to laugh.
-You prefer staying in instead of going out all the time because you are
truly a couch potato.
When she is exposed to the true you, she is going to be inclined to lose
interest in you. She was crazy about the guy you were pretending to be.
So, do you see my point now? It's much better and fairer to your date to
be yourself. Don't put on a phony act pretending to be someone you are
not. If you do, you're going to have to maintain this phony image
long-term because when the real you emerges, you may lose her or your
relationship with her will be difficult.
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Why You Must be Very
Selective in Choosing a Mate
Let me give you some valuable advice about problem relationships and
marriage. If you ever get involved in a incompatible relationship where
all you do is fuss and fight, break up several times, and the whole
relationship is nothing but one big emotional roller coaster, and you
think that if you get married things will get better and you will be
able to work things out you're making a big mistake!
Trust me, I know from experience that things will only get worse! When
you start living together on a permanent basis all these problems will
only get worse. And don't ever think that you can change her ways once
you get married. You can't change a person.
You have to accept them as they are or just move on.
I don't mean to scare you about the institution of marriage.
It's a wonderful experience if you choose the right partner.
If you don't, your life can be a living hell. Please, please, please
take marriage very seriously. Don't go into a marriage thinking that if
it does not work out, I'll just get a divorce.
Divorce leaves emotional scars and if there are children involved, it
really makes it difficult.
So, to wrap things up, I just want you to be selective in your choice
for a lifetime mate. If you are incompatible and it's a very stormy
relationship you may be making a big mistake by marrying her.
Don Diebel is one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships,
has been a guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant,
and has helped thousands of men win at the game of love with his phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," "The
Complete Guide to Meeting Women," "100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating
Guide," "How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and "1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."
Also, Don Diebel is President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co., which specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with
women since 1978.
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