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Don Diebel, publisherDating Tips on How to Maintain Relationships with Single Women

Keep your imagination active while involved with her. Make sure you don't let yourself become loving and predictable. Always be alert to new things to do, such as taking her to a new romantic restaurant she hasn't been to, a romantic stroll along the beach, going out on a date in a limo, or a picnic in the park. Do things that are unique, different, and somewhat unpredictable. She will love it when you surprise her with your spontaneity.

Make it appear that you thought of an activity on the spur of the moment even if you had already planned it in advance. Remember that it is just as important in the style you do something as to what you do.

Even after you start a relationship with her you can still play hard to get. Keep a level of independence about you without ignoring her. Don't revolve your whole life around her completely. And be sure to not smother her because this can drive her away from you. Show her that you can live without her, be it your job or your sport. If you have a life that doesn't revolve around her, it will make her feel a bit insecure, and therefore, hopefully want to hold on to you even more.

Whatever you do, don't become a boring slob. Don't fall into the trap many men fall into and that is letting her see you spend all of your time on the couch watching TV and sports. Be an active and exciting man always on the go and doing things. Relate to her and what she is doing.

Be a little unpredictable and never do what she expects you to do. If you do what's expected of you, this can become boring to her. To keep her interested in you and keep her on her toes, be a little unpredictable. It pays big dividends.

Ten Qualities That Make Men Winners in Succeeding With Single Women:

1. Winners play the dating game to win with women. They know there's no time to lose and take massive action to meet and attract the women they desire.
2. Winners focus on there past successes with women and forget there failures.
3. Winners focus on self-improvement when it comes to their dating and love life. They pay more attention on improving their appearance and personal habits. They know the better you look and act are going to attract a lot of women.
4.Winners have high self-esteem. They always act confident around women and I can assure you that women are very attracted to men who act confident.
5. Winners practice smiling every single day. They know what a powerful influence you can have over a woman with a warm, friendly, and sincere smile. It's true that you can literally melt a woman's heart with a warm smile.
6. Winners do not procrastinate. When they see an opportunity to meet a woman they don't stall and ponder on whether to approach her. They take action and approach her immediately!
7. Winners take 100% responsibility for what happens in their love life. They know they are responsible for what happens to them both positive and negative.
8. Winners don't dwell on their failures and rejections from single women. They learn a lesson from each experience and move on.
9. Winners have a positive mental attitude. They go on dates to have fun and don't think about what can go wrong on a date.
10. Winners always have a game plan for succeeding with women. They know what they are going to do and how to do it when it comes to scoring with single women.
There you have it. If you will make these ten qualities a part of your personality, you will succeed with women beyond your wildest dreams.

Dumb Dating Mistakes Men Make With Single Women

Do you strike out with single women in the romance department no matter what you do? You can even be a drop-dead good-looking guy, but unless you know what is offensive to a woman's ears, you are likely to stick your foot in your mouth and make a fool of yourself and turn off women.

With today's single woman you need to know what she wants and then give to her without sounding phony. The following are some common mistakes men make when dating single women that turn women off:

1. When talking to or about single women, are you still living back in time and calling them babes, broads, chicks, or something even more repulsive? Always call a woman by her name! If you use these terms mentioned, you will insult and turn single women completely off.

2. When out on a date, do you spend all of your time eyeing other women in the bar, nightclub, or restaurant? Don't even think for a minute that she won't notice. She will not only notice, but may be so turned off by your behavior that she may never want to see you again. Always focus all of your undivided attention on the woman you're with. Treat her like a Princess and she will make you her Prince.

3. Another common mistake men make early in a relationship with a single woman is being too sexually aggressive. After just meeting a woman you don't want to come on all hot & horny and all you can focus on is jumping her bones and pawing at her body. This kind of behavior can scare women and turn them off. They usually don't like a complete stranger pawing at their bodies and making sexual overtones. Get to know her first to where she is comfortable with you and then make your physical moves.

4. When talking to a woman, do find yourself concentrating totally on her breasts? This is a real no no! Always look women in the eyes when talking to her. Believe me, if all you can do is stare at her breasts, she will catch on to it and will ditch you as soon as possible. Women don't like men who constantly stare at their breasts. In a topless club it's OK, but not when you just meet a woman or in the early stages of dating.

5. If a woman wants to be independent let her. For instance, if she wants to change her own flat tire, let her. If she wants to open her own door, let her. If she wants to order her own food or wine, let her. Let her assert her independence. It will make a good impression on her. You're making a big mistake if you want to act Macho all the time and not let her act independent if this is what she desires.

6. Some misguided men think it's sexy and cool to brag about what a great lover they have been to their other girlfriends, about getting high on drugs, or how good they can hold their liquor. You are not impressing women with this. As a matter a fact, she will probably find that you are obnoxious and potentially dangerous.

In closing, if you are making any of these dating blunders and displaying these offensive habits, get them corrected immediately. I hate to keep pounding this into your head, but if you turn women off, you are stacking the odds against yourself in successfully meeting, dating, attracting, and seducing single women.

Top Ten Questions You Must Never Ask When on First Dates with Single Women

There are certain questions that you just can't ask when on a first date. Some are just too personal and too sexual and they are just about guaranteed to turn your date off and some single women will be so offended that they will not want to go on a second date with you.

I know it doesn't seem fair, but a lot of women will judge you by what you say on your first date. First impressions are very critical and you can really blow it by asking the wrong questions. Listed here are questions that are sensitive to single women and will get you into trouble by asking them:

1. What is the weirdest place you have ever had sex?
2. Are you a virgin?
3. How much money do you make? (This is really none of your business until you get to know each other better).
4. Do you have any children? (She may think that you are trying to eliminate her from seeing you again because you don't date women with children).
5. How many sex partners have you had?
6. How long has it been since you had sex?
7. At the end of the date you ask: Do you mind if I spend the night? (This will give her the impression that you just want to use her for sex).
8. Do you do drugs?
9. Have you ever had a one-night stand?
10. How much do you weigh? (You must never ask this because single women are very sensitive about their weight).

Top 10 Reasons Single Women Rejected Your Voice Personal Reply

When you respond to a single woman's voice personal ad and you get no response, do you ever wonder what went wrong? You feel like you made a good recording on her voice mailbox and you never hear back from her. You feel a little frustrated and rejected. To help you figure out what went wrong, here are the Top 10 reasons she did not try to get in touch with you after hearing your message in her voice mail box assigned by the personals publication:

1. Your message contained sexual overtones. This is a sure-fire way to scare women off.
2. The tone of your voice was too soft when replying. The system could not pick up your voice and cut you off. This caused your message to not be recorded, thus, she can not respond to you if there is no message.
3. Your voice turned her off. I'm sure you can relate to this. I'm sure you've heard women's voices that get on your nerves.
4. Your message was way too long. You really dragged it out to the point where it became monotonous and boring.
5. There was a long pause while making your message and the system thought you were through and cut you off.
6. You used too much slang in your message such as "You know," "You know what I mean," etc.
7. You stuttered and mumbled too much when making your message. This is a big turn-off!
8. Your message was too short and only contained one or two sentences such as "Hi my name is Don. Let's get together sometime and have some fun. Call me at 484-2424."
9. If you used your cellular phone to make your message, it may have faded out on you and the system did not pick up your message.
10. In your message, all you did was brag about yourself and your material possessions. In other words you came across as stuck on yourself. This is a big no no!

 

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How to Win Single Women Over With Your Smile

The most important advice I can give you is to give each and every woman you come into contact with a sincere and heartwarming smile. It's a known fact that you can literally melt a single woman's heart with a warm, sexy smile.

A nice and friendly smile has another advantage too. It will make single women much more receptive to your advances. If you approach single women with a stone cold look on your face, this can backfire on you. She may pick up some bad vibes from you and think that you are cold and unfriendly.

If you don't have the habit of smiling at women, then start practicing until it becomes a natural reaction. May I suggest this to help you: When someone takes your picture you have a natural reaction to smile for the camera. Well, do the same thing when a woman looks at you. Pretend in your mind's eye that she is taking your picture. This little mental exercise can work wonders in helping you to attract single women!

Also, make sure that your smile is genuine. Don't fake it. Women have a sixth sense about them and they can spot a phony and insincere smile. You might even consider practicing your smile in front of a mirror. Practice having a warm and friendly smile. A smile that can melt a woman's heart.

Smiling is actually good for you too. When you smile your body chemistry changes and makes you feel happy. This warm and fuzzy feeling creates an aura which single women can pick up on and make them smile back at you and that's exactly what you want to do. Make eye contact and smile at each other.

One last thing about using smiles to attract single women. When talking to women on the telephone that you are attracted to, talk to them with a smile on your face. Believe it or not the women will actually hear the smile in your voice. When you're smiling you will have a pleasant tone of voice, which sounds positive and happy.

In closing, use your smile to give you a tremendous advantage in meeting and attracting single women for love and romance. They will be much more receptive to your advances. In the dating game you must use every tool and asset to your advantage to gain a competitive edge over other guys. You've got to stand out among other guys vying for a woman's attention and turn on your charms with a big and warm smile that will get you off to a good start in winning a woman's heart.

Top Ten Beach & Swimming Pool Pick-Up Lines

Here's some great pick-up lines to use to score with all those hot & sexy beach bunnies and swimming pool honies in their little bikinis that cause your hormones to rage out of control:

1. I'm a swimsuit photographer. Would you like to be in my next photo shoot? (Be sure and have your camera in your hand and be ready to take some photos.)
2. Would you like to toss some frisbee?
3. I don't know which is prettier today...the blue/green water or your pretty blue/green eyes.
4. Could you watch my stuff while I go for a swim? (Then ask her to join you.)
5. Can I borrow some of your suntan lotion to put on my face?
6. I haven't seen you at the pool here before, are you new in town?
7. When you see a girl drying herself off with a towel reply, I sure wish I were that towel you're using.
8. I brought an extra air mattress, would like to lay out in the pool with me?
9. That sure is a lovely set of lungs you are wearing today.
10. I've got an extra boogie board, would you like to body surf? (You can buy these body-surfing boards at Toys R Us.)

The Kiss of Death

Here's the scenario: You meet a girl that you're absolutely crazy about. Everything is going ok the first few dates and you are on cloud nine. Then she starts acting cold towards you and seems distant.

You are confused and can't figure out for the life of you what has gone wrong. You were hitting it off so well, you both laughed and had good times together, and the sex was fantastic.

Then all of a sudden she tells you that she wants to cool it for awhile. In other words she wants to stop seeing you for awhile. You ask her why and she replies, "I need some space."

This answer is what I was referring to as, "The Kiss of Death" in a relationship. What she is really trying to say is she does not want to date you anymore. It's just her way of saying it's over and she does not want to be tied down to a relationship.

So, when a woman tells you that she needs space just let her go. Do you really want to be someone who doesn't want to be with you? Just move on, get over it and get on with your life. Perhaps it was just not meant to be. She may try to come back into your life later on, but for now just let her have her space. If you want to get back with her later on then that's your option.

This same scenario has happened to me a few times in my dating experiences. It happens to a lot of guys and you just have to deal with it. Chalk it up to as part of the dating game. You win some and you lose some.

In closing, keep in mind that some women are afraid of commitment and they end relationships that are getting to close by saying that they need their space and want to stop seeing you.

Why You Should Keep Your Gray Hair to Attract and Seduce More Women

I'm sure you've seen or heard the commercials about products to get rid of your gray hair. And they promote how much younger you will look when you get rid of your gray or graying hair.

I highly recommend that you leave your hair gray or graying hair alone and I'll tell you why...most women are attracted to men with gray hair and they think it's sexy and makes you look more distinguished and handsome.

I can tell you from experience this is very true and has helped me attract and seduce tons of women. I've always got lots of compliments on my gray hair.

So guys, don't worry about gray hair making you look older. Use your gray hair to your advantage to help you meet, attract, and seduce hot & sexy women.

Also, I recommend using shampoo especially formulated for gray hair. They help eliminate dullness and yellowing of gray hair. You can find these shampoos at your local drug store.

Here are some more great tips to help you succeed with women:

Tip #1 - The easiest way to impress a single girl is not with talk of your athletic prowess, financial wizardry, or social stature, but rather a simple compliment like, "You are dressed beautifully tonight." Make sure that you say it at the right time so that it doesn't look like you are just trying to give her a line.

For Example: Give her a compliment just as you are walking away from her at the end of the evening, or just as you pick her up to go out. Say it with the proper tone - as if you were commenting on a beautiful painting, not as if you were fishing for a return compliment or hoping to get her in bed. Don't come off being romantically mushy, or like her new puppy dog panting at her side.

Tip #2 - If a single girl ever blocks advancing the relationship by saying, "No, let's just be friends," say, "No, I have lots of friends. See you later." By continuing this type of relationship, you portray yourself as someone who has nothing better to do than hang around with a girl who is not that interested in you. The relationship will never get to where you want to go - to bed for some romance, passion, and sex. And even if by some miracle the relationship did advance to the bedroom, she would be doling out sex - dictating the where, when and how much. If she wants to cut you off at any time, she can and you have to accept it because that is the implied agreement from the start. She is in complete control; hence, she will never be satisfied with you.

If, on the other hand, you walk away from this relationship, you have established that you are the type used to leading a relationship, you have plenty of other girls willing to take you on your terms, and she is losing out. We have seen cases where a man will completely turn around the relationship as soon as a girl sees that he is willing to "walk" rather than accept something that is not on his terms.

Tip #3 - When do you give up on a girl? When do you decide that a relationship is not advancing? When you are the only one making an effort to keep it advancing. If she is not putting energy in to you, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. Don't stay where you're not appreciated. If this situation does occur, try to figure out why. How did she perceive you? What turned her off? Learn from your mistakes.


Misconceived Ideas about Mail-order Brides from Foreign Countries

Probably the most common misconception is the idea that what all these single foreign women want is to come to America.

The truth is that, while coming to America has an attraction for some women, this is not the main motivation for most foreign women seeking American husbands. Probably the majority of single foreign women are attracted to American men simply because they see them as better than the men at home. In many countries the lot of a woman is not very pleasant. They are not treated well by the men in their own cultures and they see Americans as men who treat their wives quite well.

In comparison with the men found in most countries, American men are a pretty good lot. They are certainly the most sought after men in the world by women seeking husbands. A lot of people jump to the conclusion that the main reason for this is that the women are all primarily interested in coming to America and that's their main motivation. This is untrue.

For the most part, the single foreign women looking for American husbands are simply seeking a good husband, first and foremost. For those living in poor countries the prospect of coming to America is a factor, but it's usually never the primary one. Most women are simply looking for good husbands. They want husbands who will provide good homes for them, who will treat them well and not beat them or run around on them. They get all too much of that at home and are seeking something better.

In the light of the O. J. Simpson case, sensation-seeking media paint the picture as though wife abuse is a far greater problem in the US than it really is. The truth is that, while there is a problem, it's not nearly as bad in America, as a percentage of total population, as it is in many other cultures. Foreign women know this. That's the major reason why so many of them are interested in finding an American husband.

The main reason why American men are so highly sought after as husbands is because American men, as a whole, treat women far better than do the men in most other countries. American men treat their wives extremely well, by world standards. In contrast to American women, who are widely viewed as the world's worst wives, American men are widely viewed as the world's best husbands. This is what makes them so attractive to single foreign women.

Negative Thoughts, Thinking and Attitudes

This week I want to focus on negative thoughts, thinking, and attitudes that can interfere with you succeeding with women. Here are some tips, thoughts, and suggestions to help you get on the right road to succeeding with single women.

1. If all you do is focus your thoughts on your faults, weaknesses, and failures in pursuing women, then this will distract you from being successful. When these thoughts invade your mind, learn to look away. Don't allow your mind to be poisoned by what I call the enemy that is trying to prevent you from succeeding.
2. Don't let your negative thoughts keep you from going forward to meet and approach women. Stop saying, "I don't have what it takes."
3. Remember that if you feel like a failure with women, then you will continue living out your failures. It will become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
4. Quit focusing on what you can't do when it comes to pursuing women and put on a new fresh attitude that says you can meet and attract any woman you desire. Don't be so hard on yourself when things don't go your way.
5. Don't compare yourself to other guys who are always picking up women. Don't say to yourself, "I wish I had what it takes to succeed with women or I wish I had the balls like he does when approaching women.
6. It is very important that you like yourself. Trust me, if you can't get along with yourself, then it's going to interfere with you getting along with women.
7. Quit seeing yourself as nervous, when approaching women. Develop that "can do attitude" and approach women with confidence.

In closing, I hope these tips and motivational thoughts help you out.

Here are some more great tips this week to help you succeed with women:

TIP #1 - SOME SINGLE WOMEN CRAVE A MAN WHO IS DOMINATING, "MACHO," AND EVEN JUST A LITTLE BIT CRUEL! - It's important to sensitively explore the unfulfilled needs of the woman you have met. At times, in the nature of being just a wee bit unpredictable and complex, you may act dominating, bossy, even slightly sadistic.

Watch her reactions closely when you do! If you see a glint in her eyes, a pleasurable submissiveness, a suddenly more positive response to you - you may be dealing with a single woman who has a masochistic need to be dominated and mistreated. If such behavior comes easy and natural for you, it can be exceedingly effective with such a woman.

TIP #2 - OPEN YOUR EYES TO THE UNCONVENTIONAL BEAUTY AND SEX APPEAL of the "plain-looking" single woman. Taste in beauty and sex appeal is often a purely subjective quality. Many single women whose faces and figures attract no public attention or enthusiasm may exert a provocative, tantalizing, and even an aphrodisiac effect upon you personally...if you open your eyes and find those subtle elements in her which only you can appreciate and cherish!

TIP #3 - OCCASIONALLY BE UNPREDICTABLE! Many women, however much they value reliability and security in their man, also tend to take for granted, and to undervalue a man who is too ordinary, too conformist, and too dependably predictable. Don't do it too often, and don't hurt her needlessly, but occasionally demonstrate unpredictable and unexpected qualities.

Leave at least a slight touch of mystery and romantic secrecy about your innermost self. For example, suddenly take a trip without advance warning and write to her from your temporary distant stopping point. Take her on a date to some place she has never been before and which she could not have expected from your previous behavior.

Use your imagination to display other romantic touches of mystery and unpredictability. For example, you may suddenly send her a present, which opens up a completely unsuspected but attractive facet of yourself to her admiring contemplation!

TIP #4 - LOFTY, DRIVING AMBITION IS ATTRACTIVE TO SOME SINGLE WOMEN. Spin beautiful dreams of the future for her, and weave her into them! Express your highest, most dramatic ambitions and goals to her. Express them vividly, as concretely and confidently as possible. Give her the feeling that she will go along with you and share the heights, the glory, the success, and your mutual happiness!

10 Top Negative Body Languages Signs that Single Women Give to Indicate That She is Not Interested in You

1. You lean towards her and she leans back away from you.
2. She starts turning away from you.
3. She doesn't make eye contact with you.
4. She folds her arms across her chest.
5. Double-crosses her legs at the ankle.
6. She touches her nose often while she's with you.
7. A limp or hanging hand can indicate boredom with you.
8. When talking to you, her eyes keep glancing at other guys around her.
9. She makes no effort to talk to you. She doesn't reply to any of your comments, doesn't answer your questions, and doesn't ask any questions about yourself. Unless she just doesn't feel good or is moody this could indicate that she's not interested in you and you will be wasting your time.
10. And last, she just come out and tell you to get lost, go away, go to hell, or ever worse, to fuck off!

How to Impress Single Women with Flowers on Your First Date

Do single women love flowers? You bet they do! And one of the best ways to impress a woman romantically on a first date is to bring her flowers.
Let me give you some advice about buying flowers for your date. Whatever you do, don't go out and blow a bunch of money on a dozen roses or expensive flower arrangement. Let me tell you why:
You can make just as good impression by buying her a single rose with a card (nothing too mushy). Even though it's a single flower, it's the thought that counts. She will deeply appreciate it and it gets the date off to a good start.
There's another disadvantage to spending lots of money on flowers on women for your first date. What if the date doesn't work out? What if you have nothing in common, no chemistry, and one or both of you are turned off by each other?
I'm sure you get the point now. You've just thrown $30-50 down the toilet. You work hard for your money. Don't throw it away foolishly on a date that may not even work out.
After you have had a few dates and developed a relationship, then buy her a dozen red roses.
In closing, guys, I just can't tell you enough how single women are very impressed when they are given flowers by a man. In their heart it's a very sweet and romantic gesture. Also, don't think for a minute that giving flowers is guaranteed to get you laid.

Top Ten Restaurant Pick-Up Lines to Meet Single Women

Has this ever happen to you? You go out to eat and you see a gorgeous girl that you'd give your left testicle to meet and get to know better. But, you don't know what to say and how to approach her. Well here are some opening lines to help you meet those dream girls you keep running into at restaurants:
1. Would you be interested in a hot and steaming bowl of conversation?
2. Weren't we supposed to meet for dinner?
3. I just hate eating alone; do you mind if I join you?
4. Nothing quite tastes as good as you look today.
5. Do you know of a nice French restaurant where we could share a bottle of wine?
6. Hi. I just moved to this city and was wondering if you could recommend a good restaurant here. Would you also like to join me for dinner sometime?
7. Can I buy you lunch/dinner?
8. Can you please pass me the ketchup and your phone number?
9. When you notice that a woman has finished her meal, approach her and say, noticed that you have finished eating, can I join you for some desert?
10. If you spot a girl waiting in a restaurant for someone, go up to her and say...If he doesn't show up, I'll be right over here waiting for you.

Proper Dining Etiquette When On A Date

Let's focus on proper dining etiquette when out on a date with a woman. Correct table manners are very important, especially on your first and second dates with a woman. You will be judged and if you have bad table manners, she may not even want to date you again. Don't let anything spoil your chances with scoring with single women such as bad table manners that are easily corrected. Listed here is the proper dining etiquette when on a dinner date with women:

1. Be sure and make reservations if you are going to a fancy or popular restaurant. It's very embarrassing to show up without reservations and having to wait an hour or two for a table. Also, be sure a check to see if they have a dress code and dress properly. Be sure and tell your date in advance what to wear.
2. When your food comes don't gobble your food down like you haven't eaten in a week. Eat at a moderate pace so you will have more time for conversation. It makes a bad impression if you gobble down your food and you spend the rest of the time watching your date eat.
3. Be sure and use your napkin and place it in your lap. Do not tuck it in your belt or use it as a bib.
4. When being seated do not allow them to place you in "bad" spots such as noisy areas, next to the restrooms, by the front or back door, areas with a bad atmosphere, etc.
5. Do not slurp your soup, smack your lips, or chew with your mouth open. Nothing is more unsightly than watching someone talk and chew his or her food at the same time.
6. Should you order for your date? If you are at a classy restaurant, you should order for your date. Ask her in advance what she wants and when the waiter or waitress comes, order for her. This makes a good impression on women.
7. When eating insert your fork straight in your mouth. Do not place your fork in the side of your mouth. This increases the chances of you dropping your food on your table and that's embarrassing.
8. If you get food stuck in your mouth do not pick it out with your fingers or fork at the table. Excuse yourself and go to the restroom and get it out with a toothpick.
9. Be sure and leave at least a 15% tip (unless the service is bad). Single women will judge you on your tipping habits. If you are cheap it can make a bad impression on them. Don't whip out a pen and paper or calculator to calculate the tip, it could leave an impression on her that you are "cheap." Here's an easy way to do it in your head. Let's say that your bill comes to $45.10. Move the decimal point one place to the left (this will come to $4.51 which is 10% of the bill). Now divide $4.51 by 2, which will give you $2.25. Now add $4.51 + $2.25 = $6.76 in your head and this will give you a 15% tip. That wasn't so hard was it?

Where to Women on a Unique Date She Will Never Forget

If you really want to a great impression on the women you take out for a date, here are some great ideas:

1. AMUSEMENT PARKS - This really makes for a fun date, especially if you both enjoy thrill-seeking rides such as roller coasters, etc. Also, don't forget to try and win her a teddy bear or other keepsake.
2. BALLOON RIDES - I am referring to hot-air balloon rides. This is a breath-taking experience you both will never forget. It's very romantic and some rides even come with champagne.
3. BOAT RENTAL - This makes for a unique experience and it's so relaxing and enjoyable. You can charter a boat with captain and crew or rent a powerboat for skiing, fishing, or just for cruising.
4. CAMPING - What a great way to enjoy the great outdoors! Things really get cozy and romantic sitting in front of an open fire! This is sure to melt her heart and make her want to share your sleeping bar.
5. CARRIAGE RIDES - This is one of the most ultimate romantic experiences. Just you and your lover or date in a horse-drawn carriage enjoying the scenery.
6. DINNER AT YOUR PLACE - One of my favorite things to do is to invite a woman over for a candlelight steak dinner and champagne. I do all the cooking and wait on my date hand and foot. I really make my date feel special. So, if you really want to make someone feel special and have a romantic evening, do this for a very special date.
7. DINNER THEATRE - There's nothing like good entertainment while you're eating. Your date will really be impressed and this is one of my top choices to take a date to.
8. GO-CARTS - These are a lot of fun for adults too. Why not challenge your date to a race around the track.
9.HAY RIDES - Have you ever been on a hayride? It's a lot of fun and something very different to do.
10. HELICOPTER RIDES - This was one of the most exciting dates I ever went on. My date and I took a helicopter tour of downtown San Diego and the Shoreline. I was especially fascinated flying over the skyscrapers and looking down on them. This will be an expensive date, because to charter a helicopter can cost you up to $500 an hour. If you can afford it, it's worth the money just for the experience.
11. HORSE RACES OR DOG RACES - Here's another fun activity you can both share and make some money too, if you are lucky.
12. ICE SKATING - Don't know how to skate? No problem, It's a lot of fun just learning. Sure, you're going to take a few spills on the ice. It's all part of the fun! This is great place to go on a date even if you don't know how to ice skate. You can always take lessons, too.
13. JET SKIS - This is like riding a motorcycle on the water and your date can ride on the back. Take my word for it, this is the ultimate joy ride while having some great fun on the water. You can rent them for about $20 for a half-hour.
14. KITE FLYING - Stop by any toy store and pick up a kite and go on a kite date. Head for your local park, beach, or any wide-open space. Kites are not just for kids. It's a fun experience for all ages and it's kind of romantic. So, get your date and go fly a kite.
15. LIMOUSINE DATE - When you want to tell someone they're special, what better way to do it than with the unexpected. Sending flowers is nice, but sending flowers with a limousine is unforgettable. This is a great way to let dancers know they are real special to you.
16. LIVE MUSIC - This will put you and your date in a good mood, especially if the band is good. Check out your area for places that offer live music. Take her to Rock Concerts too.
17. MOONLIGHT STROLLS - When there's a full moon and clear skies, head for any lake or seashore. It's so romantic to take your shoes off and wade along the shore with the full moon gleaming on the water.

Tips to Save you Money in Topless Clubs

If you've ever been to a topless club, I'm sure you're aware of how expensive it can be. Especially if you go often, buy a lot of mixed drinks, pay for table dances, buy dancers drinks, pay high cover charges at the upscale topless clubs, tipping, etc. If you will follow my advice, you can drastically reduce your expenses in going to topless clubs. Here are some tips to save you money in topless clubs.

Tip #1 - When you drink, order a glass of wine. Just sip the wine slowly and it will last for 1-2 hours. Beer gets flat when it sits for a long time and mixed drinks get watered down when the ice melts. So, if you want to save money on your bar bill, just order wine and sip on it.

Tip #2 - In a lot of topless clubs, every 20 minutes or so the DJ runs a two-for-one special on table dances and all the dancers go on stage and then come down and solicit dances. So, if you are going to a topless club solely for the purpose of buying a table dance, take advantage of this bargain. Don't pay full price just for one dance when you can wait for this special offer.

Tip #3 - A lot of clubs offer discount coupons for free admission and reduced cover charges advertised in newspapers. Be sure and check your local papers for these valuable coupons. It's always a good idea to ask about any special discounts at the front door when you enter the club. When you leave, some clubs give you free admission coupons for your next visit. Save them and take advantage of this free offer.

Tip #4 - At some clubs a dancer will dance in front of a patron topless until he gives her a tip, then she moves on to the next patron. Guys who don't tip get good long dances before she gives up and moves on to another guy. Guys who do tip are left a few seconds after tipping. So, save yourself from tipping these dancers and get a free show as an added bonus. You are not obligated to tip these dancers.

Tip #5 - This tip will save you tons of money. Don't buy table dances! You will be propositioned by every dancer you meet or come into contact with. This is how they make their money. When asked for a dance reply, "There's nothing more I would love than to have you dance for me, but I do not want to be just another customer, I'm more interested in getting to know you better and become your friend. Look, I know the ropes of your business and I understand this is how you make your money, so if you need to leave and make some money I understand. Why don't you come back over here and party with me after you make some money?" Always remember your objective: Develop a friendship with a dancer and do not become just another customer. You're not going to get anywhere with a dancer if you become a customer.

Where to Take Single Women on a Date to Really Impress Her

If you really want to impress a woman and make her fall for you, take her on a unique date she will never forget. By being unique and creative, you'll stand out among the other guys she's dated and she will want to be with you again and again.

Just keep taking a woman you're attracted to on one fun and creative date after another and she's bound to fall for you and want to make mad passionate love to you. Try it. It works! Here's a gold mine of creative dating ideas that will make a lasting impression on single women and make them crave to be with you:

1. MUSEUMS - These are great places to take a date no matter what kind of museum they are. My personal favorite is art museums.

2. OBSERVATION DECKS - In most major cities the tallest skyscrapers offer spectacular views of the city from their observation decks open to the public. For breath-taking views, be sure and visit these skyscrapers. Even better are restaurants at the top of skyscrapers that offer scenic views of the city.

3. PADDLE BOAT RIDES - This is a fun thing to do, especially on a hot summer day. A lot of public lakes offer paddleboat rentals.

4. RESORTS - There's probably a resort area near you to get away from it all for some romance, recreation, and relaxation. They offer a variety of activities such as golf, boating, watersports, tennis, fishing, casual and elegant dining, swimming, lodging, dancing, movies, live entertainment, health spas, etc.

5. ROMANTIC RESTAURANTS - If you really want to make a good impression on your date, take her to a cozy and romantic restaurant. It's even better if they have a piano bar or live entertainment or soft music, dim lighting, roaring fireplaces, scenic views while you're eating, etc. So, spice up your love life or impress a date by going to a romantic restaurant.

6. SAILBOAT RENTAL - There's nothing like the feel of gliding along the water on a sailboat. Learn how to sail and take your date on a sailboat ride that she will never forget.

7. SKATING RINKS - Roller-skating is one of America's favorite pastimes. It's a lot of fun whether you're a beginner or pro. Also, it makes for a fun evening with a date. It's easy to learn once you get the hang of it.

8. SNOW SKIING - This is an expensive date, especially if you live a great distance from any ski resorts. It's worth it though for an experience you will take to your grave. Don't worry if you don't know how to ski. You can take lessons when you get there and just take the easy slopes. So what if you fall a few times, it's all in fun.

9. STATE PARKS - Do you have any State Parks near you? If you do, this is the perfect ideal place to go to enjoy the great outdoors. You can go for a daytime date or camp overnight.

10. SURFING - This can be a fun thing to share even if you don't know how to surf. Just buy a surfboard or rent one. Along the beachfronts you will find places where you can rent a surfboard. Even better, borrow one from a friend. What I like to do when I go on a surfing date is for both of us to get up on the board together and ride a wave. It's not that easy to do but lots of fun trying.

11. TATAMI ROOMS - These are private rooms at Japanese restaurants where diners sit on the floor for a very unique and romantic dining experience. Call your Japanese restaurants to see if they have these rooms available.

12. TATTOOING - Have you ever heard of a tattoo date? Why not the both of you go to a tattoo parlor and get a tattoo together? If you're embarrassed by tattoos, you can always have one where it will be hidden by clothes.

13. THEATRE (LIVE) - Most larger towns offer live theatre performances that can be just as good as a Broadway play in New York City. Attending live theatre on a date ranks at the top of the list for things to do on a date in my opinion.

14. WATER PARKS - Most larger cities have water parks that offer water slides, man-made waves, swimming pools, tubing, etc. If you want to have a real fun date, go to a water park and spend the day.

15. WATER SKIING - You can rent a boat with skis at most marinas if you don't have your own. If your date doesn't know how to water-ski, she will have a lot of fun trying.

16. WILDLIFE PARKS - Check these out to discover the world of animals. You can tour these wildlife habitats by tram or your own car. I toured a wildlife park in South Dakota with a date and it was one of my most memorable dates. We even had big bears come right up to our car.

17. ZOO - A popular and enjoyable way to spend the day on a date.



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