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 Don
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This Article: Did You Know That
Failure with Single Women is Good For You?
You may think that I have lost my mind, but did you know that failure
with single women is good for you? You may be thinking, Don have you
lost your mind telling me that making mistakes with single women is good
for you?
Let me explain why striking out with women can be good for you. I will
use the inventor Thomas Edison as an example for my explanation.
As you know, he invented the modern light bulb. Do you think he invented
the light bulb on his very first try? Certainly not. He endured failure
after failure; mistakes after mistakes until he got it right. Mistakes
after mistakes were necessary to finally get it right.
Each experiment and failure brought him closer and closer to his goal of
completing his invention successfully.
And so it goes in the dating game. If you are not making lots of
mistakes, you are not learning anything. You learn valuable lessons from
your mistakes. You learn the correct way to succeed with single women.
You learn what works and what doesn't work.
So, when you start feeling a little bummed out about your failures with
women, think about Thomas Edison for some inspiration. You've got to
fail a little bit before you succeed.
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Here's some
great tips to help you succeed with single women:
BE IN CHARGE
Remember women want leadership.
TIP #1 - When planning a date, instead of asking the girl what she would
like to do, have every detail of the date planned out - the
reservations, the movie, and even the parking place. Just tell her when
to be ready. Let the rest of the evening be a pleasant surprise.
TIP #2 - When you are with a girl, hold the door, take her arm, and show
her the way.
TIP #3 - At a restaurant, make sure that you are seated at the head of
the table or where the waiter will see you first and stand next to you
when he comes to take the order. Conduct all of the dealings with the
waiter. Ask your date what she would like so that when ordering, you can
say, "She will have the...and I will have the...," instead of her giving
her own order.
TIP #4 - If at all possible, drive your own car. Avoid letting her drive
you. When you are driving, she is dependent on you. When she drives, you
are hitching a ride and are no longer in control
TIP #5 - If a girl call, answer the phone with, "Hi, what can I do for
you?" By saying this, you show that you are used to being the leader and
being of service to others.
BE DECISIVE
Being decisive is one of the surest ways to demonstrate your leadership
and confidence. Single women want the man to take the lead and make the
decisions and they are judging men on how well they do it.
TIP #1 - Don't stand there hemming and hawing. Be ready with options,
and be ready to pick one. Always remember that it is your responsibility
to make the decision, so take that responsibility.
TIP #2 - If plans change such as a sold out movie, don't stand there
saying, "Gee, now what?" Make a decision quickly on what to do. If you
need more time to decide, excuse yourself to go to the bathroom, make at
all, or anything so you aren't just standing there looking indecisive.
TIP #3 - At a restaurant, choose your order quickly. At a bar, know what
you want to drink. After the movie, know where you want to go.
Don Diebel is one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships,
has been a guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant,
and has helped thousands of men win at the game of love with his phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," "The
Complete Guide to Meeting Women," "100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating
Guide," "How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and "1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."
Also, Don Diebel is President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co., which specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with
women since 1978.
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Don Diebel, publisher
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