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Are you looking for a loving,
devoted, and faithful wife? Are you tired of the battle of the sexes
here in the United States - that is the liberated single American women
who are so busy trying to be equal to men that they have forgotten how
to be a "real" woman?
Well, I have the answers for you. Look for a special single, loyal and
devoted lady to spend the rest of your life with from overseas. Foreign
single women make the best wives in the world. They are very loyal,
devoted, and faithful and believe that husbands should be the heads of
the family.
I'm sure you have seen all those advertisements from foreign matchmaking
companies that will introduce you to single women overseas looking for
friendship and marriage to American men. This is a good option to pursue
to meet and possibly marry the woman of your dreams.
You will initially get to know these women by correspondence. Listed
here are some very important tips when corresponding with these women:
1. Do Not Send Money!!! Just like anywhere there are honest people and
there are dishonest people. The point of your correspondence is to
develop a special relationship with foreign women, not to purchase one.
We want you to be aware that you may contact women who will ask you for
money for one reason or another. If you are asked for money it should
immediately set off alarms and you should proceed very cautiously. There
are instances where there may be a valid reason to send money to someone
with whom you have been corresponding for some time. In that instance it
is recommended that you send it via wire (Western Union).
2. Do include a photo of yourself, and not just any photo. Take some
time and put some thought into it. For example, if you are the outdoors
type you may want to take it while hiking or biking. The point is to
give the women the best possible representation of yourself. In order to
keep the costs of the photos to a minimum, you should consider choosing
two or three of your best photos and have color copies made instead of
developing a new picture for each reply.
3. Try including a little something extra to let her know she is
special. This could consist of a pressed flower, or a picture of you as
an infant or a toddler, or maybe a poem written in her native language.
The idea is to try and distinguish your response from others.
4. Remember when writing
your letter that this woman's native language is not English. That
doesn't mean she will not be able to understand your letter, but by
keeping it simple you will have a much better chance of successfully
communicating with her. Try to avoid using four or five syllable words,
instead of impressing her you will probably just confuse her. Make sure
you neatly print you letter as opposed to writing in cursive. If your
handwriting is difficult to read you may consider typing it.
5. Try to keep the initial letter fast paced. You certainly don't want
to be discussing things like marriage and what your children are going
to look like in your first letter! You may want to tell her a little
about yourself, where you were raised, and what schools you have
attended. Write a little about your interests, hobbies, and likes and
dislikes. Basically, just write about things that you would normally
talk about on a first date.
6. Make sure you ask her plenty of questions about herself in your first
letter. People like to know that other people are interested in them and
their activities. By asking questions about her she will think that you
are interested in her as a person and she will want to respond to you
immediately.
7. You may find it useful
to do some independent research on the country of origin of the woman
you are interested in. Not only will it impress the woman, but also it
may save you from committing a gaffe. You must always remember that this
woman was raised in a totally different culture than our own. Obviously,
it is in your best interest to know as much as possible about that
culture.
8. Should you get to the point that you want to visit the women you are
corresponding with, we strongly advise to use the service of a reputable
travel agency. Traveling abroad is very different from domestic
traveling, and a good travel agent will make sure your trip goes as
smoothly as possible. We strongly recommend that you interview at least
two or three agents before placing your travel plans with one.
9. Should you get to the point of wanting to marry the woman you have
been corresponding with, we strongly recommend the services of a
reputable attorney who specializes in immigration law. There are various
ways of accomplishing citizenship, and each must be explored to find the
approach, which will be optimal for your situation.
10. The last and probably most important tip of all is be patient.
Consider for a moment how long you have been searching for that perfect
mate, ten, twenty, even thirty years? This is an important process and
the results of the decision that you make will be far-reaching and long
lasting. Take the time to correspond with many different women before
committing to that special one. This is probably one of the most
important decisions that you will ever make, so please be patient, be
thorough, and most of all, enjoy the process!
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