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 Don
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This Article: How To Deal With
Rejection
I know this has happened to a lot of you guys and I want to give you
some advice on how to deal with it.
You met this real hot and sexy woman at a nightclub, bar, party, etc.
and you got her telephone number. She seemed real interested in you and
you can't wait to call her the next day.
So, you call the next day and all you get is her answering machine.
You leave a message for her to call you back. You wait a couple of days
and she never called back. You start thinking that she's trying to avoid
you. I would give her the benefit of the doubt. Maybe she didn't get
your message, erased your message by mistake, she's just been too busy,
a family emergency came up, she's sick and doesn't feel like talking to
you, etc.
So, what I recommend doing is to call her again. If she answers, be sure
and listen to the tone of her voice. If she sounds like she's not happy
to hear from you, it could be clue that she's not interested in you. If
you get her answering machine again, leave a message for her to call you
again. If she still doesn't return your call, give up on her and move
on. Take the hint she's trying to give you that she's not interested in
seeing you.
Don't take it personally. We all get rejected. It's part of the dating
game. You don't want to be with someone who is not interested in you
anyway.
Why You
Need to Change Your Ways to Succeed with Single Women
Has your love life
crashed and burned? Does love keep passing you by?
Are you tired of being alone? Have you lost all hope of finding someone
to love? Are you in a rut?
If this describes you, then you have got to make some changes to get out
of your rut. And if you want to change these circumstances for the
better, then you're the one who has got to take action.
Some guys get to a comfort zone and don't make any changes to bring
about what they are seeking, such as a girlfriend, someone to date, love
and romance, sex, etc.
Remember this simple truth: If you continue to do what you've always
done, you will continue to have what you've always had. Get out of your
comfort zone of doing absolutely nothing to turn your love life around.
Demand more of yourself to get out there and start meeting and dating
women.
Starting now, begin each day with the question: "What can I do today to
make my love life better?" Ask it, then answer it, and then take action
and do it, every day until you accomplish your goal of filling your life
with lots of love, romance, and intimacy. And, don't make any damn
excuses as to why you can't do it. Just do it! Take action!
Don Diebel is one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships,
has been a guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant,
and has helped thousands of men win at the game of love with his phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," "The
Complete Guide to Meeting Women," "100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating
Guide," "How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and "1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."
Also, Don Diebel is President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co., which specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with
women since 1978.
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