I'm sure you have seen all the ads from
matchmakers to meet and marry foreign women. If you pursue this way of
meeting single women, here's some valuable information:
Let me give you some advice on writing these lovely ladies in the Far
East:
1. There will be a lot of competition for the real beautiful young
girls. They can have their pick of the handsome, well-to-do, successful
and financially well-off guys. If you're not in this category, you're
going to have some problems connecting with these cream-of-the-crop
beauties.
2. There are plenty of other attractive ladies to choose from. Don't
judge these ladies by their photos alone. Photos can be deceiving. I've
met lots of girls that didn't photograph well and were knockouts in
person. Besides, love generates true beauty. A person can become so
beautiful once you get to know them well.
3. If you're a much older man (50+),
don't just write to the real young women. Most of these ladies seem to
prefer men up to 15 years older. Beyond that range you'll get fewer
responses.
4. If you have poor handwriting, type your letter or have it typed. If
she has problems reading your writing, she may just discard your letter
in favor of the ones that are easier to read. Be sure and use good
stationary.
5. Make your envelope stand out. What I used was colored envelopes with
large commemorative stamps on it. Also, I put these colorful red heart
stickers on the back flap of the envelope.
6. On your first letter don't make it too long, telling your whole life
story. Also, keep your letter friendly, interesting and entertaining.
Don't ask real personal and intimate questions. Save them for later when
you get to know her better.
7. A word about photos. Send one with your first letter if you feel you
are good-looking. If you're not that attractive, maybe it would be
better to send one later. Be sure and send the best photo that you can.
Send one with a happy smile on your face. This makes the best
impression.
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