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When talking about things that excite and interest you, here are some
pitfalls you'll want to avoid:
1. Don't dominate the conversation with your own enthusiasms. Be
sensitive to how much time you devote to your own subject without
hearing again from the other person. It's all right to let her know what
turns you on, but be aware that she may not necessarily want to hear
everything you have to say about that topic.
2. Avoid Jargon or technical terms when discussing topics with her and
she isn't familiar with the subject. You can give her an inside look at
what excites you about the topic, rather than overly specific details.
3. Be careful not to lecture or try to "sell" her on what you believe
in; regardless of how strongly you believe in it or how important you
feel it is. She may want to learn more about a subject that interests
you, but they don't necessarily wish to be converted to your point of
view.
4. Don't tell personal secrets in the early stages of a friendship with
a woman. Of course, it's flattering to her to be told something
confidential, but if this is early on in a friendship, the person is
likely to think, "If he tells me such personal things right off, he
probably tells everyone." Wait until the time is right, and you've
established trust.
5. Don't try to override her point of view with your superior knowledge
of a subject. Be receptive to her point of view and listen to what she
has to say. Then, when it's your turn to give your opinion, she will be
more receptive and open to your ideas.
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