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 Don
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We all make mistakes when it comes to dating and your attitude
towards these dating mistakes can make or break you.
We all make mistakes
when it comes to dating and your attitude towards these dating mistakes
can make or break you.
You must not regard mistakes and failures with women as serious
setbacks. If you do, that's exactly what they will become. Instead,
choose to look at your mistakes and failures as building blocks instead
of stumbling blocks. This will give you a lot of inner strength in your
pursuit of single women.
Do you actually fear that you will fail each time that you try to
approach single women? If you do, you are actually setting up in your
mind that you will fail and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Replace your thoughts of failure with thoughts of success. Think
positive before you make your moves on single women. Picture in your
minds eye that women will be receptive to your advances. Convince
yourself that you are a winner with women.
Don't let your fear of failure interfere with your dating life. John W.
Gardner, in his book "Self-Renewal" writes: "We pay a very heavy price
for our failures. It is a very powerful obstacle to growth. It assures
the progressive narrowing of personality and interferes with exploration
and experimentation. There is no learning without some difficulty and
fumbling. If you want to keep on learning, you must keep on risking
failures all your life."
I've had tons of failures and bad experiences in my dating life. I never
let them get me down. I always bounced back. Each failure was a valuable
lesson to me and just made me more determined to succeed with women.
Looking back over my dating life, I cherish all my experiences good and
bad. I've learned from my experiences and they have made me a better
person. The ability to overcome failures builds confidence and women
love a confident man.
How to Win Single
Women Over With Your Smile
The most important advice I can give you is to give each and every woman
you come into contact with a sincere and heartwarming smile. It's a
known fact that you can literally melt a single woman's heart with a
warm, sexy smile.
A nice and friendly smile has another advantage too. It will make single
women much more receptive to your advances. If you approach single women
with a stone cold look on your face, this can backfire on you. She may
pick up some bad vibes from you and think that you are cold and
unfriendly.
If you don't have the habit of smiling at women, then start practicing
until it becomes a natural reaction. May I suggest this to help you:
When someone takes your picture you have a natural reaction to smile for
the camera. Well, do the same thing when a woman looks at you. Pretend
in your mind's eye that she is taking your picture. This little mental
exercise can work wonders in helping you to attract single women!
Also, make sure that your smile is genuine. Don't fake it. Women have a
sixth sense about them and they can spot a phony and insincere smile.
You might even consider practicing your smile in front of a mirror.
Practice having a warm and friendly smile. A smile that can melt a
woman's heart.
Smiling is actually good for you too. When you smile your body chemistry
changes and makes you feel happy. This warm and fuzzy feeling creates an
aura which single women can pick up on and make them smile back at you
and that's exactly what you want to do. Make eye contact and smile at
each other.
One last thing about using smiles to attract single women. When talking
to women on the telephone that you are attracted to, talk to them with a
smile on your face. Believe it or not the women will actually hear the
smile in your voice. When you're smiling you will have a pleasant tone
of voice, which sounds positive and happy.
In closing, use your smile to give you a tremendous advantage in meeting
and attracting single women for love and romance. They will be much more
receptive to your advances. In the dating game you must use every tool
and asset to your advantage to gain a competitive edge over other guys.
You've got to stand out among other guys vying for a woman's attention
and turn on your charms with a big and warm smile that will get you off
to a good start in winning a woman's heart.
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PICK-UP LINE OF THE WEEK
"Do you have a boyfriend?" If she says no reply, "Would you like one?
I'm available."
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More Great Dating
Tips to Help You in the Romance Department
TIP #1 - Three Basic Attitudes, Which Form a Golden Key in All Human
Relationships if Practiced and Lived: Every woman wants, unconsciously
yearns for, three basic attitudes from the man she will love. But for
that matter, every human being needs and deserves and will grow in power
when he receives these feelings from another person. The formula is:
Give a woman you desire faith, acceptance and respect. Believe in her,
trust her, find the good, beautiful and uniquely admirable within her.
Search for it. It is always there!
Accept her as she is. This does not mean accepting her pretensions,
false fronts or unrealistic goals and dreams. But accept her as she is
deep down in her own best and most natural self. Respect her completely
in your motives, manners, speech, actions, and plans.
If you can truly develop and cultivate these attitudes in yourself, the
most desirable lovelies in the world will be eagerly available to you!
TIP #2 - Get Your Circle of Friends and Acquaintances to Help: This,
often takes nerve, but is very effective. Ask all your friends,
acquaintances, associates, relatives, and neighbors to give you the
names, addresses and phone numbers, if not direct introductions, to any
and every single, young woman that know. Then call them up or write
them, introduce yourself, start a conversation and ask for a date.
Be friendly, warm and informal as you can manage. Try it with
persistence. Don't get discouraged if you flop five dozen times.
By the time you are starting on your sixty-first, you will be getting
great results!
TIP #3 - Individual Differences...Every Man is Attractive to Some
Women: Both men and women who might be considered unattractive to the
average person succeed in attracting and winning highly desirable mates
every day, everywhere. Your own experience will suggest many such cases.
Taste and preference in love is infinite.
Here is an important fact for you. Believe it and act on it.
There is no man who would not be attractive and desirable to at least
some women, including some gorgeous hot and sexy women who would knock
your eyes out and who you ordinarily...though quite foolishly...wouldn't
dare to approach!
Copyright 2003-2008 by Gemini Publishing Co. All Rights Reserved
http://www.getgirls.com
Don Diebel, publisher
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Don Diebel is one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships,
has been a guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant,
and has helped thousands of men win at the game of love with his phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," "The
Complete Guide to Meeting Women," "100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating
Guide," "How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and "1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."
Also, Don Diebel is President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co., which specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with
women since 1978.
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