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It's a sad fact of life, but when you
play the dating game your girlfriend may dump you. And here's some
advice to help you get over
her:
No guy likes to get dumped; especially by someone you cared for and
loved. But, love is a two-way street. Both parties have to love and
nurture a relationship to keep it alive. It's no good to be involved in
a one-way relationship with a woman that you love and she does not love
you back.
I know you're going to feel like shit in the beginning after your
girlfriend breaks up with you. But, you will get over her a hell of a
lot easier if you will take these steps to get over her and get on with
your life:
1. Don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself and try to scheme up ways
to get your girlfriend back. Don't make any efforts whatsoever and
whatever you do, don't call her or write her. You need to block her out
of your life completely and pretend that she does not even exist on this
earth anymore.
2. If you have any pictures of her lying
around, on the wall, or in your wallet, hide them in your attic or
somewhere where you will not likely see them. Even better, throw them
away or burn them. You could be nice and return them to her if you
desire.
3. Here's a good ritual to get her out of your system: Sit down and
write her a letter telling her pissed off and hurt you are about her
dumping you and tell her good bye and you don't want to ever see her
again. Don't mail this letter, but just set it aside somewhere. This is
just a good way to vent your feelings and make you feel better.
4. Block out of your mind all the good
times you had. Just focus on the negative and bad times (her bitchy
moods, her always nagging you, standing you up for dates, refusing to
have sex with you, telling her you love her and she does not say
anything in return, her not returning your calls, her flirting with
other guys when you go out, her unsightly nose hairs, her fat ass, all
your arguments, etc.). After some serious thinking, you may come to
realize that you had mostly bad times and things worked out for the best
by you getting out of an unhappy relationship.
5. Be sure and hide or destroy any love letters or cards she may have
given to you.
6. Return any gifts she may have given to you. You don't need the
reminders of her and I would consider throwing them away or donating
them to the needy.
7. Don't listen to the crying in your beer songs or songs that you
shared together. Listen only to upbeat music that will cheer you up.
Lying around listening to sad songs is only going to make you feel
worse.
8. If you can, avoid going to places that will remind you of your ex.
In conclusion, keep real active and busy and spend a lot of time with
your friends. And most importantly, get back in circulation and start
dating again. And, don't be choosy and particular when you start dating
again. Date any and all single women. You need to get back in the groove
and don't hold out waiting for some Playboy Playmate type to come along.
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