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Why Are Single Women Attracted To
Jerks?
For the life of me I
can't understand why single women are attracted to jerks. Maybe this
article can explain why:
You and I must understand that women DON'T go deliberately looking for a
jerk. Women are not "bad" people at all. Quite the opposite.
But WOMEN ARE COMPLETELY CONTROLLED BY THIS ANCIENT MATING INSTINCT.
Therefore, they have NO OTHER CHOICE but to go after ANY strong,
dominant, untamable male. Or any male who can make her FEEL all those
intense, uncontrollable feelings she lives for. The key to understanding
women's strange behavior is "they have NO OTHER CHOICE" but to fall for
these type of males.
And the jerk HAPPENS to be THAT TYPE of male. Or at least, the jerk has
learned HOW TO PLAY that role. The nice guy IS NOT that type of male.
The nice guy cannot even play that role. If a nice guy became strong and
dominant and HARD TO GET, she will go BLINDLY after that nice guy. The
proof that I am right is that EVERY TIME a nice guy starts ACTING like a
jerk, HE IS SUDDENLY WANTED BY ALL THOSE WOMEN WHO USED TO IGNORE HIM
BEFORE. Women don't really want jerks. They probably want a nice guy.
But ... "what women -WANT"
and "what women NEED" are two different things. And their Subconscious
''genetic" programming, that NEED to feel and feel and feel, will make
women go uncontrollably after what they NEED, not what they want. And
that is true of EVERY person, in any area of life. They will attract
into their lives and/or will go toward what they subconsciously NEED,
not what they think they want.
What a woman genetically NEEDS is the type of man who will trigger in
her all those intense feelings and emotions. Why? Because a female NEEDS
to experience those uncontrollable feelings/emotions to surrender
completely to him. Once she FEELS that way about him she will do
anything and everything for/with him. Women are SUCKERS for those very
intense emotions and feelings that they were "genetically" programmed to
experience for a certain type of male, the dominant, strong one. They
NEED to FEEL those feelings to surrender to him. It has a lot to do with
Estrogen, the "feeling" hormone as opposed to testosterone, and the
"performance/achievement" hormone. While most men are born to be "doers"
most females are "be-ers" or "feelers".
Women will love and go after ANY man who is able to "ignite" those
feelings in them. Unfortunately, a "nice", sensitive, wimpy type of guy
does not generate those feelings in women. A strong, dominant,
hard-to-get! man DOES. And the jerk fits in this category. And the jerk
knows how to "ignite" those intense feelings and emotions women are
addicted to. A jerk and a hard-to-get man make her feel ... feel...feel
... crazy, excited, turned on. A "nice" guy makes her feel ... feel ...
feel .... bored to death.
Even when women fall for a guy who is very handsome, they will leave him
very quickly if they discover he is a nice guy who can be easily
controlled by females. It happens all the time. And they will go after
some not-so-handsome type, even ugly one, who is strong and dominant.
Even married women will do the craziest things and go after THE guy who
can "ignite" those feelings in them. What she loves are the feelings she
FEELS. Not the guy! But in her mind, the guy and the feelings become
inseparable. She loves the feelings. Therefore, she falls in love with
the guy who can make her feel that way.
Now, it will be totally futile to try to explain to any woman that she
doesn't really love guy A. But that she really loves THE WAY guy A makes
her feel. She will tell you that you are crazy. But this is the truth.
In a nutshell: Person A loves person B because of the way person B makes
person A feel. More precisely, Person B satisfies the deepest VALUES
that Person A needs satisfied to believe/know that she is in love with
Person B.
Women were "genetically" programmed to be SUCKERS for intense feelings
and emotions in order to surrender and mate.
he jerks and the hard-to-get guys DO "trigger" those intense,
uncontrollable emotions she "genetically" loves. A nice guy does NOT.
ANY man who learns HOW to make her FEEL the way she was "genetically"
programmed to FEEL, FEEL AND FEEL, will have her doing anything and
everything he wants.
Remember that men are "doers". Women love feelings. They live to FEEL,
FEEL AND FEEL.
If YOU can make her FEEL the way she wants to feel, she will LINK all
those pleasurable, intense feelings with/to you. YOU will be satisfying
her deepest, most treasured VALUES. Then, she will become ADDICTED to
you. And you will make her fall in love with you.
P.S. I ran across this interesting article in one of the newsgroups
posted by an anonymous author several months ago about why single women
are attracted to jerks and I thought it might be of interest to you.
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