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Are You Sometimes Confused by Women's Sexual Behavior?

Don Diebel, publisher

Don Diebel's "Get Girls"

I would like to focus on women's sexual behavior.

For example, has this ever happened to you? You meet this really hot & sexy single girl at a nightclub and the sexual chemistry between you is incredible.

While slow-dancing you are rubbing each others back, grinding your crotches, kissing each others neck, kissing, etc. I'm sure you're getting the picture.

It's getting late and you invite her over to your place for a drink.

Then after she comes over you sit on the couch and start making out. Things really start to get hot and heavy.

You start to undress her and she reluctantly pulls back and says, "not tonight." This really frustrates you after getting all worked up and you're totally confused about what's going on here.

You're wondering why she seemed ready to make love but got cold feet.

Before you jump to conclusions and consider her a prude or a prick-teaser, these are the most likely reasons why she chickened out:

1. Mother Nature has made her monthly call and she's on her period.

2. She is concerned that if she has sex with you so soon in the relationship you will think she is nothing but a promiscuous cheap whore and you won't see her again.

3. She is concerned that she might get pregnant or even worse, contract a sexual disease.

4. She only has sex with someone that she is in love with and being that you have just met she has not had time to get to know you and feel love for you.

5. When she has had casual sex in the past she feels empty and ashamed of herself the next morning. So, she feels uncomfortable repeated the same empty and unfulfilling experience.

So, what is the lesson to be learned from this? First of all, men and women are different when it comes to hoping in bed with someone. Men will go to bed with women at the drop of a hat, even if they have only known each other a couple of hours. Women are different. Most of them aren't into casual sex.

They want to get to know you and develop feelings for you before they give their body to you.

So, my advice is to take things slow with a single woman. Take time for you to get to know each other and develop chemistry, communication, and feelings for each other.

You really don't even have to rush sex.

If sex is going to happen, it's going to happen naturally anyway. Believe me, the woman will really respect you and admire you for not rushing her into a sexual relationship. Plus, you will really make a favorable impression on her because you're different than the other men she's used to who come on all hot and horny acting like a dog in heat.

In conclusion, if a woman continues to reject your advances, be sure and have a heart to heart talk with her about you are not getting your needs met in the relationship. If she refuses to compromise, then it's a simple choice. Live with it or move on someone who can meet your physical needs.

--------------------------------------------------------------- by Gemini Publishing Co. All Rights Reserved Don Diebel, publisher
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