Which guy are you?
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but you still have questions about making that first connection with a woman, so let's work on that right now."
I'm real sorry but I still cannot figure out how to build bridges after getting the email address.
Normally the next day I send the lady an email, she replies and then I can't think what on earth else to do.
My overall goal is to get with her,
so can you help me?
David D >>> MY COMMENTS
Yes, I think I can help you. While it's great that you can get her email address that isn't your total goal, is it?
So you have to move from that first contact, where you met her and got her email address, to the next day when you plan to meet up with her again (remember, this isn't a date yet!).
If you're trying to seduce her right away, talk her into your bed... then you need to change your strategy, going for the looser of the female species.
But when you want to meet women, and turn these email exchanges into face-to-face meetings again, then dates later, this is what you need to do:
1. Set up a meeting for tea.
2. Have her stop by your place on the way to tea.
3. Have fun, interesting conversation.
4. Invite her back to your place after tea.
5. Use the Kiss Test.
6. Use your creativity and imagination.
Don't focus too much on "getting with her," just focus on getting to THE NEXT STEP.
If she doesn't, or can't, meet you at your place, that's fine, it'll come later. Rome wasn't built in a day and neither will this "bridge" of meeting women and dating them too.
In other words, when you email her - don't say something like:
"Hi, it was great meeting you. I'm single and nice, and you seem like you'd make a great girlfriend for a sweet, desperate loser like myself."
You should say something like:
"Hey, I've got an hour free tomorrow, how about you come to my place and we go from there to this great coffee shop around the corner?"
Stay off of heavy conversation. Don't talk about relationships and marriage, etc. Just talk and enjoy yourself. But keep progressing as you do.
As long as you relax and make each progressive step easy and natural, you'll be fine.
Again, just take it one step at a time.
If you don't know what the "Kiss Test" is, then download my online eBook right now, and read about here.
...and watch it in action, learn it, and use it.
Talk to you soon,
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