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The odds of getting a girlfriend can seem insurmountable.
Women are everywhere. You see hotties all over the place but they don't seem to even notice you.
Is it them or is it you?
Answer this question for me: What moves have YOU made to get the girls to notice you?
There are several ways to learn what moves to make, when to introduce yourself and when to be cocky and funny to gain her attention and interest in you.
But if you don't know what the steps are to get the ladies attention then you're lost, aren't you?
Here is a simple guideline for starting to crack the ice:
- Have an opening.
A simple hello, a joke, a question to ask. You need to be prepared and practiced to get this done
- Have a follow-up.
Asking for her email and phone number is essential to move past the introduction. Just as there is a right time and right way to ask her for her info, there is a wrong way that will change everything and you'll never see or hear from her again.
- Have an exit strategy.
To say that despite your skills you'll be 100% successful is foolish. Be prepared to back away before the situation becomes awkward. Save yourself for another attempt, a better girl.
Guys struggle all the time to get dates so why should you be any different?
I can tell you with confidence that you can change the struggle into better success rates if you want to.
Only if you work for it.
This can mean bettering your attractiveness (upgrading your wardrobe, hair, style); increasing your education; getting a better job and improving your finances.
The price of a successful life is time. Not money, not love, not the road untraveled.
Time gauges your effort to your goals. Even if your goal is to just get a kiss before you're 21, or to get laid by the time you're 18, it's an understood target with a defined goal.
Life is defined not by our successes but by the efforts of achieving our goals.
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