To be more of a presence around people, to stand out and lose your shy identity you have to learn the learn the Cocky & Funny dating technique, the ability to read body language and how you can use these skills to attract women I HIGHLY recommend that you check out my downloadable online eBook "Double Your Dating".
This article: "Winning back your ex-girlfriend requires some inner changes and outward appearances of being a better man. This article is a step to the new and improved you."
It’s like the story of the guy that had a bushel of apples he was carrying along the road and an apple fell out of the basket. Instead of picking it up he kicked it along a few feet ahead so he could pick it up easier.
Sure, he saved bending over in a harder position but he damaged the apple, which cost him in the end because the apple started to rot when he put it back in the basket and, well, the rotting apple spread to all the other apples and by the time he made it to market all the apples were worthless, bruised and rotting.
The moral of the story is that the guy could have made a quick change to his actions, and his mindset, and saved all the apples instead of being just a tad lazy, bruising the one apple and expecting it to not turn rotten eventually infecting the others.
Guys tend to get lazy in relationships and start taking for granted what they have. And when the girl catches on to this, fights start that lead to a breakup and the guy is left wondering where he went wrong? How did he lose such a great girl?
And when he tries to get her back he fails. She recognizes in him that he hasn’t changed, despite his pleas to the contrary. Or even worse she detects his “inner wussy” and rejects him despite everything he says.
But you can win her back, you can date your ex-girlfriend again provided you have a change of mindset, you can change how you feel towards women and in particular relationships, from within. And you conquer that “inner wussy” that turns women off faster than a fart in an elevator.
My ebook “Double Your Dating” can help a lot in this respect. Reading it will open up your eyes and ears to what is possible for you to change, how your change in attitude can infect women with attraction and yearning instead of being shut out.
Let’s break to an email I received a little while ago:
I just wanted to let you know of a little twist of fate I experienced.
After reading your techniques, I made a decision to try them out on a good female friend of mine. We used to be a couple, but four years into it things got sour and the relationship ended. I was absolutely crushed and felt emotionally numb. A few months went by and I decided to get over the possibility of us getting back together. I had pondered possible reasons as to why our relationship ended. It had seemed as if she just one day awoke and saw me as a friend instead of a mate but I came to the realization that I had become a wussy and just stumbled into that self defeating clinginess.
We remained friends, but I was obviously still attracted to her. Well, I purchased your book and decided to move on with my life and let her go forever. Ironically, after some intense practice, I ran into her at the mall and we started talking. It had been a while and I had moved on, so I (naturally) acted like I didn't want her, and I busted her balls in every way possible. She laughed so hard and got really excited.
Well, the next month she called me about 10 times to try to set up a time to meet. Finally, I visited her house for old time sake, applied cocky funny (which was downright second nature to me at this point), and she started crawling all over me! I wasn't even pursuing her.
Four years of me being a wussy and your techniques pulled me out of it. Very powerful stuff! I just emailed you to let everyone know that this stuff works. It also helps if you actually get a grip of your life and don't let past loves drag you down. Get over it and move on, it will only make you more attractive! Take care and thanks.
Congratulations. One thing that really stood out for me in your letter was:
"It had been a while and I had moved on, so I (naturally) acted like I didn't want her, and I busted her balls in every way possible. She laughed so hard and got really excited. Well, the next month she called me about 10 times to try to set up a time to meet."
Women have a very specialized and highly advanced "Wuss Detection System". One of the clues that they use in Wuss-Detection is when a guy is overly clingy or shows too much interest.
I know that this doesn't make a whole bunch of logical sense, but then again, almost nothing makes logical sense when it comes to attraction.
Keep up the good work, and I hope you're able to put your relationship back together, it sounds like it was a great thing.
Just remember to not be a wussy anymore!
I can't say that my techniques will absolutely work for every man without question. You're the one that has to use them.
But I will say that if you get out there and try them, I think you'll find that they work better than anything else, and that you'll have more success than you have now.
It took me years to really figure out what women respond to, and I really believe that any guy can use this material to attract women.
Depending on what the breakup circumstances are and what has changed in both your lives depends a lot of what the future holds for you, but once you start working with the ideas, I think you'll be very pleased with the results.
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Talk to you soon,
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