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How To Have Great Conversations With A Woman


This article: You can use a woman's replies to keep the conversation going while you learn about her. Remember to listen and ask questions!

Double Your Dating eBookThere are really two very different (and important) aspects to the "conversations with women" topic:
1. The HOW.
2. The WHAT.

The HOW of Conversations

Most guys want to know "what to talk about" with women. It only makes sense that you should talk about things that women are interested in, right?

Well this is partially true.

It is actually far more important to talk about whatever topic you're talking about in the right way. In other words, if you don't understand HOW to carry on a conversation that creates attraction, then it really won't matter what you talk about, because the woman you're talking to won't feel anything towards you. Any subject in any conversation can be a step towards creating attraction in the woman you want when you can maintain her interest in your approach to what you are talking about, the confidence you show her and your willingness to keep her in the conversation by giving her your complete attention.

The HOW of conversation includes (but is not limited to):
-Your body language
-Eye contact
-The Cocky & Funny style of communicating
-Sending mixed messages
-Directing the conversation
-Dealing with common questions and topics
and many other things.

My point is that if you're running into a lot of "uncomfortable silences", nervousness, and other usual challenges, then you probably need to get the HOW handled before the WHAT.

The WHAT of Conversations

With that said, there are several topics that are great to discuss with women. But instead of just giving them to you, I want you to do yourself a favor and think for a minute. What topics do women pay to hear about?  I'll give you a some possibilities: Cosmo magazine, romance novels, soap operas, nighttime dramas, the fashion channel, etc. That's right. Women "pay" to read magazines, they "pay" to watch movies, they "spend" time watching television shows that interest them. All these things women make an "investment" into, to receive something out of.

If you think about it, the answer to the "WHAT" question is rather obvious.

For whatever reason, women tend to be drawn towards:
-Famous people and their lives

So it's really quite easy to enjoy a conversation with a woman about these topics. And you can observe your way into a conversation with any woman provided you know what to look for with her.

Here are a few ideas:
1. Play amateur psychologist to the stars. Talk about how someone famous is doing something really stupid, then psycho-analyze them. These situations are all kinds of topics waiting to be picked apart with a fine-toothed critical mind.

It's also bursting with funny, interesting twists that you can add into your conversations as long as you can be aware of the opportunities.

2. Find an interesting-looking group of people and guess what's going on.
Look around you, and find a couple sitting at a table that looks like they're on their first date. Then start making observational remarks of how the guy is acting, how he's dressed, his posture, or whatever.

Analyzing what's going on with a close group of others is big fun, and women love it. You can use your combination of comedy and critical eye to create a conversation that can flow from topic to topic. Using the suggested scenario above, you can talk about fashion, psychology, dating rules even right down to the food and drinks they have and what your/her favorites are.

3. Make fun of someone famous. Gossip magazines, entertainment television shows and the paparazzi can provide you with hours of conversation that bounces from celebrity foolishness of the past, present and what you can make up about their future.

4. Talk about other people's love lives. Talk about the problems that others are going through when it comes to love and romance, then volunteer completely ridiculous theories about what's going on. Get the woman you are talking with to present her ideas that you cab then have some fun with as she tries to explain herself. Push her ideas as twisted concepts that friends have tried to convince you of. This always works great!.

But make sure it's funny, whatever you invent as a subject of conversation
...I think you can "feel me".

The point here is that women are naturally fascinated and drawn to certain topics so use them.

The real benefit of talking to women about topics that really interest them is that you are not only breaking the ice with them you are learning about her and using your tendency toward humorous situations and comedy appraisals to learn how she relates to the topics art hand while you're talking!

You can amplify the attraction as the conversation goes on, as long as you know what else to do as you talk.

Oh, by the way:
Topics to avoid: Rape, kidnapping, stalking, death, chess, computers, comic books, Star Wars, monster trucks, and any boy-toy-band. Never talk about topics that might really freak a woman out, or topics that make you look like the biggest loser alive in the beginning. You'll create negative attraction that will make any positive feelings that you've created disappear. Others to really avoid include talking negatively about yourself, talking about how desperate you are or how long it's been since you've been on a date, asking if she likes you or if you're her "type", and any other wussy type topic that makes you look insecure and needy.

Remember, the key to success with women is creating a powerful emotional attraction between you and her and in any beginning this is based on handling conversations with humor, interest, respect attentiveness and again, humor.

No woman will hangout or meet a second time a guy that speaks like a wall, that has the personality of a cold, wet fish.

If you don't know how to do this, then nothing I tell you do is going to help you very much.

If you do know how and why women feel attraction for men, then almost anything you do or talk about can amplify it.

And if you'd like to get the basics of how attraction works, plus a good set of tools to use for meeting and dating women, then go download my eBook "Double Your Dating". You can download it and be reading it in just a few minutes from right now.

Look, man. No one is going to do this for you. You need to do it for YOURSELF. So get to it. Just follow the 'ebook' link and download your copy here.

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Talk to you soon,
David D.




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