***Success Story***
Dave,
what else can I say but thank you. You changed my life completely.
Before reading your book I had had 3 other girlfriends throughout my
life, I'm 19 so maybe some people wouldn't necessarily see that as a bad
thing. But let me tell you, after you experience this type of new found
dramatical change, you definitely come out a happy camper. Now I can
finally say with all honesty "I GET IT". I've only encountered one
problem with your techniques (a problem that most guys would kill for).
When your confident, you come across many women who pretend to be
confident at first glance but after you start busting on them they
paralyze, they totally freeze without knowing what to say, and then they
come out with some dumb comment trying to be funny. I know it sounds
mean, but a wussy woman is equally as unattractive to an overly
confident guy as a wussy-boy to an attractive confident woman (sure it
can be fun). Oh well, I guess its just one of those things I'll have to
live with until I find a woman with the same mentality. Oh and you know
what I reaaaaaaaaaally love doing in those cases, that whole thing of
taking two steps forward and one back, its great seeing women chasing
you for a change. So a word of personal advice for you, (like many women
have already suggested). You should market this product for women. Man,
I can only imagine how much fun that would be.
Later bro, thanx again.
>>>My Comments:
Oh yes, isn't it great when you start to see how this whole thing
really works? And yes, a "Wussy Woman", as you put it, isn't very
attractive when you have choices.
Good job, and thanks for the email and comments.
***Question***
Hey man.
I love your stuff, and anyone who doubts that this cocky and funny stuff
works is either blind or simply has not tried it. I have a question
though... would it be to my advantage to use cocky and funny lines while
*in the process* of making love to a woman? I'm not talking about during
foreplay or using it to turn her on or after the sex when she's curled
up next to you in bed, I mean DURING actual intercourse. Is this the one
time that you should give cocky and funny a rest and be serious and
intimate, or would you say a woman would enjoy a little teasing while in
the act?
>>>My Comments:
This is a sensitive subject, and it's a GREAT question. Being Cocky &
Funny is all about flirting, teasing, and communicating with a woman in
a way that shows that you're not at all intimidated by her. It's not
about hurting a woman, making her feel bad, or being abusive in any way.
But when you're making love, it's a special situation. Most people let
their emotional guard down during the process of having sex, and it's
probably not a good time to tease and bust on a woman.
That's my two cents on the subject.
***Success Story***
Dave,
Just thought I would share my recent success. I've been trying the
online personal stuff to get some practice. At first I would send the
following WUSSY email:
"I saw your profile and think we might have some things in common. I
have included my profile for you. Please let me know if you are
interested in knowing more. Hope to talk to you soon"
As you can guess not many responses and those who did, not very
desirable. But with your help I changed my approach and almost have to
fight them back with a stick. Here is my new and improved response.
"Saw your profile and I think you deserve a chance to get to know me. I
think we could get along well. I've included my profile. If you are
interested (which I know you will be). drop me a line, and if you sound
as interesting as your profile says I might write back ;)"
Guys this stuff works. Also just received the CD's, great work. They
have helped changed my life and not just in the dating world.
Thanks for all your hard work.
R.
New Orleans, La
>>>My Comments:
Love it. If you act like a Wussy, women will not be attracted to you...
it's just that simple. Your first response sounded weak and AVERAGE. It
sounded like every other guy in the world.
Your second is Cocky, Funny, and playful. Women aren't interested in
being BORED TO TEARS by some uninteresting guy who says "Hi, here's my
profile, please let me know if you're interested in knowing more". They
want a challenge, they want electricity... they want someone who can
hold their interest.
Women aren't interested in finding another FRIEND when it comes to
dating and romance. They want someone who makes them feel ATTRACTION!
***Question***
You are the man. Never have I had this kind of success with women. You
deserve major props. I was the typical wussie boy that would do just
about anything to get the girl, then I got your newsletters and started
seeing how much success these guys were having with women. Finally,
after about 5 or more months of procrastinating, I decided I needed a
change in my life and took action. On to my success story... I was at
this party last night with a couple of friends, and the girl to guy
ratio was very small, then I saw this one girl come in at least a 8.5,
ok, so she was a 9. At first she didn't seem to interested in talking
with me, so I laid on a comment about the outfit she was wearing. She
chuckled about it. So we talked, well I talked and she just laughed.
After about 3-5 minutes, she decides she wants to dance with me. I
refuted until she gave in, then I went out to dance. She followed right
behind me. So after all was said and done, she gave me her number and a
peck on the cheek. Thus, I didn't get to talk to any of the other girls
either. And this is where I have a question, how can you bring an
effective end to a conversation without having to leave the scene?
You're Ever So Grateful Student,
AD, Connecticut
>>>My Comments:
Well, the problem in these types of situations is that most guys don't
want to get a woman's number, then be seen talking to other women or
getting other numbers because they don't want to be seen as "players" or
as insincere.
Get over it.
If you enjoy talking to a woman, and you'd like to get her number AND go
talk to other people, just say "Here, write down your email and number.
I'm going to get back to my friends" and DO IT. You're only going to be
seen as more interesting if you are talking to all the women at the
party.
***Question From A Woman***
Hey Davemeister,
I was wondering if cocky and funny techniques would work for a woman? I
have been getting your newsletters for several months now and I love
reading all the success stories. It is interesting to see the male
psyche in action. I can agree with so much of what you say. Women hate
wusses!!! I just wondered if guys would buy into a woman acting funny
and cocky. I can play off of a guy who is being cocky and funny, but
have never tried it as a pick up. Any advice for the females?
SH ~Nashville~
>>>My Comments:
Cocky & Funny works GREAT for women. Unfortunately, most guys are total
WUSSES, and therefore can't handle it. I'm doing my very best to change
this, but it might take a little while...
You'll find that most guys will buckle if you bust on them too much too
early... but this is kind of a good thing, because it weeds out the
girly-men early for you... and helps you find ME faster.
Kiss Kiss
***Question***
David:
I just keep improving and I owe most of it to you. I wrote to you a
while ago and said my "new life" at college was off to a great start.
Well, things are getting even better. I have more girls than I can
remember the names of who are positively desperate for my attention
(I've learned their name comes up eventually, its not that hard to fake
it...LOL).
Though I struggled with this it at first, I have learned an important
lesson regarding success... even though I am much happier now, I keep
the same desire to succeed as when I was unhappy. By maintaining a
constant desire to succeed (which can be hard as people tend to be
content with what they have when they should continue to do what made
them happy in the first place) I will get better and better and more
good results will come.
However, part of getting better is talking to masters, and since you've
taught me as much as anyone, I pose a question to you:
You have oft said to avoid cocky and funny at the VERY beginning, and
bring it in later, and my experiences reflect this. I have found that
there is a fairly large percentage of girls who do not respond well to
this type of interaction when you are trying to get her email.
Certainly a large enough percentage to make me convinced that there has
to be a better way.
Your ebook details specific things to say in this critical first 3
minutes, but as we both know, what you say is not nearly as important as
how you say it. So my question is, what has worked best for you in terms
of what characteristics to convey in this first interaction? If not
cocky and funny, then what?
Thanks again,
R
>>>My Comments:
I love you, man. And that's not my mineral water talking. This is a VERY
intelligent question. I wish I would have thought of it myself.
You're right. I've found that if you want to just walk up to a woman and
walk away with her number 3 minutes later that it's better to be more
DIRECT about it.
If you're in a bar, and the girl standing next to you starts up a
conversation, then it makes sense to move right into the flirting, Cocky
& Funny attitude.
But if you want to approach women and get numbers/emails quickly, then
you need something a little different. I personally think that you need
to convey a direct, matter of fact air of "this is the most natural
thing in the world".
If you act like it's normal and natural, then she will. If you act
uncomfortable and nervous, then she will do that too.
Most guys are very nervous about approaching and starting conversations
with women. They get all uptight and start acting sketchy at just the
THOUGHT of walking up to a woman and asking her for her number.
If you can just realize that women WANT to meet men, and that they want
men to approach them, it makes you consider that women probably want
guys who aren't acting nervous and insecure. Right?
So be direct.
If you'd like, you can use the "One Compliment" approach.
Give her a compliment to start the conversation (but don't give her any
more for a LOOOOOONG time).
Pause to create an air of mystery.
Try "Hi, you are... ... beautiful and I had to take a moment to meet
you."
The pause is priceless. Look directly into her eyes as you talk... and
as you pause. This communicates that you're NOT AFRAID of her.
Then make small talk for a minute. Ask her name, ask her if she's from
the area, etc. Then use the 3 Minutes email/number technique.
The
objective is to get her information, not to start an interesting
dialogue.
Now, if you want to ask her to coffee right on the spot, etc. then you
might want to be Cocky & Funny right off the bat.
Remember that there's always time to show off your Cocky & Funny charm
the next time you see her.
...and that about wraps it up.
And if you haven't downloaded my eBook "Double Your Dating" and the
three bonus booklets that come along with it, then you need to do that
IMMEDIATELY. It's the foundation for everything I teach in these
articles, and it's the best place to start. Go here to download it:
http://www.doubleyourdating.com/
- just follow the 'ebook' link and download your copy. This book and the
three bonuses that come with it are the FOUNDATION for success with women.
Everything you read in these articles will make more sense once you have
read the book.
...and read it, learn it, and use it.
Talk to you soon,
David D.
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