David D.'s Dating Advice at aLoveLinksPlus
This article: You've got her attention and you need to get to the next step. Involvement is the key.
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*** Double Your Dating Advice ***
Attraction is the spark that leads to every other thing that happens between you and a woman.
Including the lack of attraction.... which is rejection.
To attract her, to get that instant approval you obviously have to be at your best, whether being 'cocky and funny (explored in detail in the Double You Dating ebook), being handsomely dressed up at being approachable, or simply being 'there', the place she's in and into.
To attract a woman you do have to ne noticeable above all other men... not the 'grand entrance' but certainly you need to be talkative, to create an interesting conversation that engages her with your persona.
Behave like you are only talking to her, when you are in a group of people, and you will draw her into you easily.
Here's an example:
Let's say that you're in a group of 5 or 6 people, men and women. the conversation revolves around David Letterman and his recent confession of infidelities. You can add comments into the conversation, certainly don't be just a listener, and aim them at your target of attraction. You might say "Letterman has cooked himself, how would his wife forgive him now?" and ask her this question directly. She will see you engaging her and she will become part of your conversation within the group conversation.
But don't hog her attention or you'll ruin the group conversation. When you do add comments direct them to her, be blunt but not too obvious. Later ask her if she'd like to continue the conversation or maybe you have something to add, like how Kanye West blew the respect of his followers at the MTV Music Awards and that his apology didn't sit too well afterwards.
The conversation is the seduction, the moment she met you was the attraction spark.
She will test you. You will have to respond to her test... whether it's an off-hand comment aimed at you, or if it's a body language "lean-in" to you.
Watch for her test and pass it by either replying with a cocky comment or by touching her arm when she leans in.
You could say something like "That's rude, are you always trying to pickup guys like that? Does it work?"
You could say something like "I met my last stalker the same way".
"Between you and me, I don't think this is going to work."
"You love me."
When you're cocky and funny you increase seduction. Attraction is already there for seduction to be effective.
The Steps for Seduction
Creating the moment that she has to pass for your seduction to be a success is a matter of small things like touching her arm and back, making her feel comfortable with your physical contact.
Keeping her talking with you, engaged with what you say and how you say it. Being cocky and funny is extremely important here because without small jokes to break the intensity you may take her farther than she wants to go and she'll just end things right then and there.
Compliments and sharp, cocky comments are what will hold her to you, to allow her to feel comfortable with your seducing her.
She has to want to be led to where you want to go.
If you feel things have turned sour, if you're feeling like you're losing her attention, ask her for her email so you can "friend her" online. Do it quickly. Write it on your arm or back of hand. Email her the next day and invite her directly to meet you for a coffee as you'll be there anyways enjoying the freedom of the afternoon. Do not make this a date, say you'll be there as you usually would.
So, we have step one: Getting her attention and in the moment starting her attraction.
Step Two: holding her attention in a conversation, whether in a group or one-on-one.
Step Three: Physical contact, small touches to her arm, back, shoulder.
Step Four: keep her comfortable and do not push her farther than she is willing to go.
Step Five: Plan for later contact and getting together.
If your body language and communication aren't working together to create
ATTRACTION, then you're going to get a lot more losing moments and a lot
more rejections from women.
Go further than this article, watch the video here and download Double You Dating for a complete instruction set to attraction and seduction.
...and read it, learn it, and use it.
Talk to you soon,
David D.
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