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This article: "You are the one in control of what happens. How you learn to exercise that control is up to you."

Double Your Dating eBookThere is a train of thought that defines our lives as “a series of events that are unchangeable, what will happen has already been determined to happen”.

Some call this line of thinking reality. We, simple human beings, are unable to change the events around us, thus we are incapable of changing how our lives will be. Events are out of our control. Even the minutiae of our lives, one event followed by another, are pre-destined and we are unable to affect any control over what will happen.

Should this be correct then quite literally “what will happen, will happen”.

But I believe that there is a force of change within us that we can affect the changes to our lives that we need to maintain control of how our lives turn out.

Take the multiple universe theory: in the billions and billions of possible universes there is a star system with a little blue planet on it. On that planet are 7 great land masses, there is everything that is on our planet, including a copy of yourself. The only difference is that on this planet you have lived out quite a different life because of something you did differently. The whatever you did differently doesn’t matter, it could have been you had more education, were beaten as a child, born a different sex, whatever.

And in all these universes with all these blue planets are lived out all the possible lives you could have had if you had done one thing differently.

I like to think that there are no multiple universes, there is only one of each of us but we do have the force of change within us. We can decide between corn or peas as a side dish for dinner. We can choose whether to help someone in need, we can decide within us whether to approach someone and say “Hello” or offer our insights into conversations, or we can choose not to do anything. To keep to ourselves, effectively using our capability to change things and deciding not to change.

I’m not talking this article as a way to lecture you on all the things you’ve done wrong in your life. I don’t care if you’ve been left behind the “in crowd”, if you’re the “designated loner” among the few friends you have, or even if you’re the “nerd of the place” wherever you go.

I am telling you that you have the force within you to affect change. To make the changes that are positive in your life, to become more than you are right now, this very moment.

And meeting more women and getting some dates should be one of key areas of your life that you want to change and you can start this change right now.

I’m going to go to a recent email I received about how one guy changed his life through reading my additional articles and my ebook “Double Your Dating”.

Hello David,
Well, let me put it this way, I got your book, and it made a huge impact on my life. I'd like to assure anyone who doubts you that you are not full of crap, you really know your stuff.

Anyway, I have a little problem, and since I feel you've mastered the understanding of the minds of women, I need your help.

First of all, I've always had a razor-sharp wit, but I didn't have the confidence to show it to most women, and instead felt sorry for myself that women never got to see the real me. Now, once I was introduced to you and learned the whole cocky routine and seen its effects, my confidence is sky high. I charm women like you wouldn't believe. While I was happy with this at first, it seems that I have gotten too good with women. I know I sound awfully full of myself, but, here's the scoop: When I use my dazzling charm combined with cockiness, new women that I meet cave in to me and become my whipped slave after a short period of time.

They lose their sassy and fun personalities, and become obsessed slaves that would do anything to please me. While its sometimes flattering, overall I do not like this. Don't get me wrong, I want them to want me, but I don’t want them to become my drooling little groupies who think about me when they get up and eat breakfast and are still thinking about me when they get under the covers at night. It seems like their obsessions sap their personality.

What I was wondering was whether or not you knew a specific behavior or trait that I may be amplifying that causes women to react this way. I want to tone down whatever it is that's getting them to drop their religion and worship me, any help appreciated.

By the way, I am not even exaggerating, I really do see myself as too sexy and its annoying. I want women to be challenging again! (P.S: while I’m not ugly, I sure as hell am not the type of guy that girls whisper and giggle about upon first glance, so don’t attribute any of this to my looks).
Thanks, PG

My Reply:
Wow, another sad, sad story. Makes me weep. Women chasing you around like groupies and acting like slaves... you poor thing.

Well, I do actually know what you're talking about. Here's the deal:

Most women are used to being in control of men. And when a guy like you shows up and uses his magical powers of Cocky & Funny, they are taken off guard.

You are pressing the attraction button inside of a woman, which has an interesting side effect when done with Cocky and Funny: It makes the woman act like a wussy!

This is a tough one for most guys to buy, but it's the absolute truth and you know what I'm talking about.

When a woman realizes that she's not going to control you, and in fact, that she's feeling attracted to you and she doesn't know how to handle you, she’ll start getting nervous.

And in my experience, there are only a very few exceptional women out there in the world. I think that you just need to keep up the search. You'll find yourself a firecracker if that's what you're looking for.

I personally believe that it's important to understand this stuff not just because you can meet a lot of women using it.

I think that it’s hard to find an exceptional woman these days, and you're probably going to have to date quite a few to find one. Knowing these techniques will help you see through tough exterior female personas, and start making you realize what you actually want in a woman.

You're on the right track, stick with it.

I can't say that my techniques will absolutely work for you without question. You're the one that has to use them.

But I will say that if you get out there and try them, I think you'll find that they work better than anything else, and that you'll have more success than you have now. It took me years to really figure out what women respond to, and I really believe that any guy can use the material to attract women.

Depending on just how shy or nervous you are, you might need to get that handled but once you start working with the “Cocky & Funny” ideas, I think you'll be very pleased with the results.

Just follow the 'ebook' link and download your copy. This book and the three bonus ebooks that come with it are the FOUNDATION for success with women. Everything you read in these articles will make more sense once you have read the book.

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Talk to you soon,
David D.


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