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the Cocky & Funny dating technique, the ability to read body
language and how you can use these skills to
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This article: "How to
not screw up impressing women, in real life and online."
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Advice Of The Week ***
I've learned a secret to
impressing women that I'm going to share with you in this article. It's a
secret that probably not 1 in 1,000 men knows or will ever figure out on his
own. The REASON that most men will never figure out this particular secret
is that it's TOO OBVIOUS.
Let me explain...
I personally think that most men feel a very powerful desire to IMPRESS
women. If you watch the way a man behaves when he's talking to a woman he's
just met or a woman that he's on a first date with, you can SEE IT.
Maybe you've been there yourself. I know I have. Many, many times, in fact.
The feeling that you need to impress a woman usually comes along with
another feeling: DON'T SCREW THIS UP.
Here are some of the signs that a guy is feeling the need to "impress" the
woman that he's talking to:
1) He tries to only say "cool" things, or things that will "impress" the
woman.
2) He acts nervous and stilted during the conversation... sometimes coming
across as "formal".
3) He tries to figure out what the woman wants to hear.
4) If he says something that the woman doesn't like, he "back-pedals" and
tries to change what he said to suit the woman.
5) He doesn't say anything "risky", doesn't tease the woman, and doesn't do
anything to upset her.
...in other words, when a guy is talking to a woman that he "likes", he's
usually on his "best behavior", and he's trying to "put his best foot
forward".
To say it again, MEN FEEL A POWERFUL DRIVE TO IMPRESS THE WOMAN THAT THEY
"LIKE". And this drive to impress often makes them act UNNATURAL.
There's your first hint, in fact...
THE SECRET
Remember at the beginning when I told you that I was going to share a secret
with you about how to impress women that not 1 in 1,000 men will figure out
on their own?
Well, here it is:
STOP TRYING.
If you will just STOP TRYING to impress women, and do the things I'm
teaching you instead, women will NATURALLY be "impressed" by you.
TRYING TO IMPRESS A WOMAN DOESN'T IMPRESS HER.
So let's break this down...
WHY IMPRESSING WOMEN IS THE WRONG ROAD
What's wrong with trying to "impress" women, anyway?
To start with, EVERYTHING.
When you intentionally try to impress a woman, you send the following
messages on a "subtle" level:
1) I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I will try to "impress" you
instead.
2) I'm not comfortable enough around women to just act normal.
3) I don't have a lot of experience with attractive women.
4) I'm insecure.
5) I don't know how to make women feel comfortable with me.
Ouch.
But it's the truth.
Women can TELL INSTANTLY when you're "trying". The conversation doesn't feel
"normal", your body language is strange, and you can't seem to have a
regular conversation.
Now of course, I've just described the way that about 99.9999% of men act
when they're first talking to a woman that they "like". Are you ready for a
profound insight?
Here goes...
MOST MEN DO THIS WITH MOST ATTRACTIVE WOMEN MOST OF THE TIME. IN OTHER
WORDS, IT'S OLD NEWS. IT'S BORING. IT'S PREDICTABLE. AND IT DOES NOT IMPRESS
AT ALL.
The bottom line is that trying to impress a woman usually has the OPPOSITE
effect. It not only makes you look like a nervous guy who can't make normal
conversation... it also bores the hell out of women.
WHAT TO DO INSTEAD
OK, so you're out having a cup of tea with a beautiful woman you just met a
few days before...
She asks you what you do for a living.
Should you answer with:
1) "Well, I'm an engineer for a software company that makes sophisticated
vector widget plotting algorithms. I've been with them for three years, and
I'm about to be promoted to ALGORITHM MANAGER."
2) "I do stunt work. Have you ever seen it in a movie when a hot actor has
to reveal his naked ass? That's my job."
...?
Well, it all depends on what your outcome is. If you want to try and IMPRESS
the girl with your cool high-tech job, then #1 will work just fine.
Unfortunately, it won't impress her at all, and it will make you sound like
a jackass who is trying to sound cool. If you want to ACTUALLY impress her,
try #2. Most men don't have the BALLS to say something like this when a
woman asks a "serious" question like "What do you do?". If you REALLY want
to make a long-lasting impression, KEEP THE HUMOR GOING.
She'll say "No, really... what do you do?".
Answer with: "No, really. Haven't you ever seen it when an actor needs a
stunt ass? I mean hey... someone's got to do it".
Now, I can't possibly go into all the reasons why it's a HUGE MISTAKE to try
to impress a woman, or to feel like everything you say should be
"impressive".
There are MANY reasons for this. MORE IMPORTANTLY, there are a few things
you can do that will INSTANTLY impress a woman... and I mean REALLY impress
her.
But these things aren't OBVIOUS. The most IMPORTANT thing you can do to
IMPRESS a woman is make her feel a powerful emotional ATTRACTION for you.
This feeling will stay with her long after you have left and gone home. And
it's the one thing that will make women pursue YOU... and try to impress
YOU.
What's the best way to do this?
1) Stop trying to IMPRESS women. Stop now.
2) Go download a copy of my online eBook "Double Your Dating", and read it.
It contains literally DOZENS and dozens of great techniques for you to use
that will make women feel ATTRACTION for you.
You can download it to your computer and be reading it in just a few minutes
from right now. It's here:
www.doubleyourdating.com/
- just follow the 'ebook' link and download your copy. This book and the
three bonus ebooks that come with it are the FOUNDATION for success with women.
Everything you read in these articles will make more sense once you have
read the book.
...and read it, learn it, and use it.
Talk to you soon,
David D.
PS.
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Women Online" website. You'll get a preview of some new great material too, and
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Cocky Comedy:
And if using better attraction earning humor to attract women is what would work for you, but you're stopped
cold when things get interesting and she gives you "the pause", let's put
your humor skill into overdrive! You'll need to be ready to start your cocky
comedy lines naturally which means that you need be able to make your words
work for you; to be able to really see what a woman is wearing, how she is
acting, what she is doing and the environment you're sharing with her and
place these things into a comedic situation that makes her open to talking
with you, not upsetting her and coming off as a total loser/jerk.
Now you're probably thinking to yourself:
"Wow, that's really great. I sure wish there was something that
could show me hundreds of great ideas so I could know exactly
what to do from when I first meet a woman to the first date, all the way up
until we get physical and beyond..."
Well buddy, it's right here:
www.doubleyourdating/cockycomedy
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