"Double Your Dating" Advice
This article: "You can see hot women everywhere so why don't you just talk to them?"
I'm going to let you in on a secret. This is covered more in-depth in the 'Double your Dating' ebook, so let's call this an introduction into changing your life.
We've all heard that communication is 90% body language and 10% verbal. And I agree with that. It's the small things that heighten attraction in a woman, not the large things.
Sure, you'll be noticed more by women if you have a Porsche as opposed to driving a VW Rabbit but that doesn't mean your dating will be any more successful because the large things are attention getters, the small things are attention keepers.
Women notice 'The Man' and what the benefits are of dating 'The Man' just as quickly as you can see someone crossing the room. It's the actions that you take, it's the language of attraction that you make that draws women closer to you.
Here's an example:
You're in a coffee line-up and are patiently waiting to order your strong black coffee. A hottie is in line behind you. What do you say? You could grumble about the slow service, after all that's what most guys would do as a form of introduction. What I suggest is that you turn around, face her and say "Isn't this the perfect time to be somewhere else?"
She's going to say "yes" because people always say yes to this question when waiting in a line, then you ask her if she knows of any other coffee houses (or whatever place you are in) and if she can email you directions to them.
Straight, simple and effective. No weirding her out or coming on strong. Now, not all women will email you, but that's OK, it's this initial straight forward introduction that you need to make and this can be done anywhere you're waiting in line.
This introduction may also lead into a longer discussion at which point you ask her for her email address so you can continue the conversation later on.
Straight, simple, effective.
No lines, no tricks, just being yourself.
Of course, if you're a little unsure of your own wording, or you get nervous around hot women, then you need to learn some "introduction tricks" just to relax yourself, to turn these encounters with hot women into a regular thing for you.
Because, and here's secret number two: a hottie knows she's hot and is used to guys chasing after her, pulling stunts to talk wit her. But I want you to "man Up" and talk with her like she's an intelligent person, because it's this attitude that always pays rich dividends.
And will get you dates with beautiful women.
Think about this for a second: why are you so relaxed around women that are in the 5-6 range? It's because the fear of rejection is also in the 5-6 range. The risk to your self-esteem in getting shot down, her saying "No" to you is minimal. You know you'll walk away with no harm done.
But when she's a 9-10 then you are feeling more at risk. Your self-esteem and confidence can be shattered by a simple wave of her hand.
And it's this fear of rejection that will drive you into acting unlike your usual self.
Don't do that.
Approach a 9-10 hottie as if she is a 5-6 average woman. You will see a different reaction from the hottie just because she's used to guys jumping through hoops, bending to her most idle suggestion, to get her attention. And overall she's bored of that.
So be different. Make her feel regular, not like a super-model, and you'll have much more success with beautiful women.
Ask the guys that have a hot girlfriend and they'll tell you this this is true. Treat her like an average woman and you'll be the superman that has a hottie in his bed.
Of course there's a lot more to learn beyond these couple of tips and dating secrets... but this article is a great primer for the ordinary ways to meet and attract hot women.
If you want more start reading the Double Your Dating ebook.
Go, watch the intro video here, and get to work. As a free bonus you'll be signed up for the dating secrets e- letter if you add your email address to the form.
Your friend,
Robert Lee
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