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*** Dating Advice ***
In this article we're going to get to the root of learning how to start
meeting women by listening to the "World's Best Dating Teacher".
Let me
ask you a quick question: Who do you think the world's BEST dating
teacher is?
No, I'm not talking about myself, but thanks for thinking so... I think
the answer might surprise you.
The worlds best dating teacher is a WOMAN. But not just any woman.
I'm talking about a woman who is "attractive and she knows it".
You know the one. I'm sure you've met her many times in your life.
You've probably had several "crushes" on her over the last several
years.
And what did these "Super Babes" do when they realized that you "liked"
them?
Exactly.
They did things that made your crush even MORE INTENSE... while at the
same time NOT RETURNING the same level of interest.
I'm going to suggest to you that we can BOTH learn a lot about
dating by paying attention to what ATTRACTIVE WOMEN do when a man shows
interest.
Stay with me. This is about to get FASCINATING.
A few years back, a couple of women got together and wrote a book called
"The Rules". You've probably heard of it. It's the notorious book for
women about how to get a man to commit to you and ultimately marry you.
It's quite a book. You should read it.
In this book, the authors suggest all kinds of "unorthodox" techniques,
like not calling men and rarely returning their calls, never approaching
men, and generally playing "hard to get".
Why did this book and other sequel books go on to sell MILLIONS of
copies?
RIGHT! Because the techniques WORK to attract men and get them HOOKED.
More on this particular topic later.
AN INTERESTING PERSPECTIVE
I want to ask you to think about something for a minute. Have you ever
been dating a girl, and had her do something that made you feel nervous,
jealous, insecure, or otherwise emotionally FREAKED?
Maybe you were out with her, and she started talking to another guy...
and while she was talking to him you could tell that she was enjoying
herself just a little bit too much.
Know what that feels like?
You WANT to believe that it's all in your imagination... and that she's
just having a friendly conversation with someone... but your GUT IS
TWISTING while you watch it happening.
Or maybe you have plans with a woman, but at the last minute (or even
after the last minute) she calls and says "I don't think I'm going to be
able to make it tonight... I had something come up... OK, I'll call you
later".
She doesn't say exactly WHAT came up, or WHY she can't make it, or WHY
she chose to call you thirty seconds before she was supposed to actually
arrive at your house.
And the worst part is that you say back to her "Oh, don't worry about
it, it's OK", and then KICK YOURSELF afterwards...
Ever been there?
Or here's one of my PERSONAL favorites...
You meet a girl, call her on the phone and talk to her, and everything
seems to be going GREAT. She tells you to call her later in the week and
maybe she'll be available.
You think about her for the next three days... but when you try to call
her, she never answers the phone...
and never returns any of your calls.
Yea, it sucks. All of these types of situations SUCK. But the reality is
that they all happen to most guys A LOT.
THE FASCINATING PART
Now I want to explain why I gave these particular examples. I want you
to stop for a minute and think about something. I want you to ask
yourself the following question, then answer it HONESTLY:
DID THESE THINGS MAKE YOU THINK ABOUT AND WANT THE WOMAN WHO DID THEM
MORE OR LESS?
Be honest now.
If you're like most guys, then these particular things and others like
them made you think about the girl MORE.
They made you wonder what she was doing and what her INTENTIONS were.
And most of all, they made you WANT HER even more.
Strange as it may seem, these things, which SHOULD make you RUN AWAY
actually make you WANT HER. What's the deal?
Well, just like WOMEN aren't logical, MEN aren't logical either.
And if you're honest about it, you'll admit that you sometimes respond
in STRANGE AND UNUSUAL WAYS to a woman's flighty and manipulative
behaviors.
Some of these types of crazy things that women do drive men WILD with
desire and even jealousy... and often lead to OBSESSION.
It's a crazy world, huh?
WHY I'M TELLING YOU ALL THIS
I say these things not because I want to piss you off.
No.
I say them because I want you to start thinking about these types of
things in a DIFFERENT WAY. I want you to realize that the simple fact
that a particular woman that you're interested in doesn't NEED you...
and does things that clearly demonstrate it... often make her even MORE
ATTRACTIVE to you.
Well guess what?
THE SAME GOES when it comes to making WOMEN feel ATTRACTION for YOU.
In other words, instead of getting UPSET with women for doing these
things, LEARN FROM THEM. And then use what you learn to create that
magical emotion called ATTRACTION inside of women you're interested in.
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