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OK, quick and easy question for you:
What's the fastest, easiest, lowest-risk, most convenient way to meet
literally DOZENS of interesting, sexy, attractive, available women?
As you probably guessed from my subject line, the answer is ONLINE
DATING.
You've probably heard a million stories from friends about how they or
someone they know has met a great girl online... and maybe you've even
tried it.
This is great news... because it means online dating is becoming more
and more socially ACCEPTED... and as that happens, more and more REALLY
interesting women are joining these sites looking for good men. As I
write this, there are literally TENS OF MILLIONS of women who are
members of online social and dating sites...
Amazing, isn't it?
Unfortunately there are some major obstacles that make meeting women
online difficult (if not hopeless) if you don't know the SECRETS. Let me
share three of the biggest obstacles a man faces when trying to meet a
woman online:
1. Competition
Unfortunately for us guys, the guy/girl ratios at most online dating
sites are not pretty. I don't think the term "cyber sausage farm" is too
far off base here...
If you think women get hit on a lot at bars and clubs, you ain't seen
nothin' until you've seen what happens when an attractive woman puts a
profile online.
ANY attractive woman who posts a profile online INSTANTLY gets DOZENS of
responses... and dozens more the next day... and dozens more the next...
And what kind of emails are those?
My friend, you have NO idea.
I have several female friends who have forwarded me some of the emails
they've received from men...
and I'll put it this way...
If I told you what was contained in them... first you'd laugh, then
you'd cry, then you'd decide to go into business as a dork counselor. In
addition to the dorks, the random "psycho" emails, and the emails from
guys that are a hundred years older than her... she'll get TONS of
boring "get to know you" type of letters... some that are pages and
pages long... telling the stories of how they came into this world...
how they love animals... and how they can't wait to find "the right one"
to settle down with and start a family.
If you doubt me, borrow a picture from a cute female friend and sign up
for a free online dating profile. The results will make you puke,
guaranteed.
After reading a few dozen of these lame responses she gets THE VERY
FIRST DAY... a woman is likely to get discouraged... and since she
doesn't have time to read through each and every response she receives,
there's a good chance your brilliant email will get DELETED... just like
all the others.
2. Limited Tools ? Expertise Required
Making a great impression with a woman using only a few pictures and a
few paragraphs is MUCH easier said than done. Because of this, many of
my friends who are good with the ladies say meeting women online is
HARDER than meeting them in real life...
In a face-to-face meeting you have the powerful weapons of body
language, voice tone, and eye contact at your disposal... but online
dating is a different story. If you don't play the few cards you have
exactly right, she'll skip right past your email... and you won't have a
second chance.
But in this challenge also lies a HUGE advantage.
Online is NEW.
Online is DIFFERENT.
Online is a place where guys who are "naturally" good with women have
PROBLEMS.
They're not used to this new environment... and they often don't know
how to translate their "real world" skills into this new "virtual"
world. If YOU know how to turn this to your advantage, then you can get
HUGE results... with VERY little effort, and very little or no
"rejection".
3. What I call "Bridging The Gap"
Even if a woman does happen to read your email or love your online
profile... and chooses to write you... the battle is only partially won.
You then need to get her phone number... and then talk to her... and
then get her to meet up with you IN PERSON so you can find out if you
like each other... and on and on.
And this, of course, is where most guys screw it up completely... either
by doing the wrong things and scaring her off... or... wasting their
time emailing back and forth with a woman who has no intention of EVER
meeting in person in the first place.
Once again, if you don't know exactly how to take things to the next
level, you're chances of going anywhere are slim to none.
These three obstacles prevent MOST men from succeeding when trying to
meet women online.
If YOU don't know EXACTLY how to deal with any one of the three you're
going to have a very hard time getting any dates. But on the upside...
if you DO know how to handle these things, you will have an almost
UNFAIR advantage over other men... and you can make any online dating
site your own personal "secret stash" filled with a literally ENDLESS
supply of women for you to meet and date...
An Online
Dating Guru "Tells All"
I recently had a conversation with a guy who has taken the Double Your
Dating principles and techniques, and spent literally YEARS applying
them to online dating.
Here's the story:
This guy is smart, interesting, and tech-savvy. But he was too shy to
approach women on the street...
He needed to figure out a way to use his smart mind to meet women
WITHOUT facing the fear of in-person rejection. Online dating was that
way.
He decided to take a "scientific approach" and started running "tests"
to see what kind of emails got the best responses, what kinds of
pictures women seemed to like the best, and the best ways to get women
to meet up with him in person.
He kept track of the results and constantly fine-tuned his emails and
profiles to make them work better. He figured out some really amazing
things... like which day of the week to email a woman to have the best
possible chance of her writing you back (It's not when you think).
Before long he figured out some fantastic tricks that all but guaranteed
a woman would respond to his emails... but he didn't stop there...
He went on to figure out how to get a woman to respond to him WITH HER
PHONE NUMBER... almost every time.
Soon he was getting DOZENS of phone numbers (not emails) a week from
beautiful single women. But this still wasn't enough... he needed to
figure out exactly what to say on the phone to get a woman to meet him
in person.
It wasn't long before his email-to-date ratio was sky high... but then
he ran into a problem...
Although he was meeting women and getting dates on a consistent basis...
some of the women he was meeting ended up looking a little bit different
in person then they had in their online photos...
And a few of them looked A LOT different... I'll say no more.
So what did he do?
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He came up with a SCREENING
SYSTEM to ensure that he didn't waste his time meeting women whom he
wouldn't find physically or emotionally attractive. I'm telling you... this
guy is GOOD.
Eventually he "cracked the code" and figured out a simple step-by-step
system that any guy can use to meet of women online... consistently and
easily. These days he gets dozens of numbers and dates each week...without
ever leaving the house.
He's even figured out some great ways to get women to come over to his place
right away.
Of course as he was telling me all of this... the only thing I was thinking
was how I was going to be able to "twist his arm" and get him to reveal all
of this in my "Interviews With Dating Gurus" series!
AND... I have some great news for you...
My friend believes that these days there are MORE than enough women online
to go around (he didn't feel this way a couple of years ago when online
dating wasn't as popular) and agreed to "spill the beans" and reveal his
step-by-step plan for success!
He also believes that he will continue to have success no matter how many
men he shares his system with... because he is CONSTANTLY making
improvements. As I expected, this interview turned out to be amazing. This
is brand new, ground-breaking information...
and you don't want to miss it.
What You'll Learn From This Interview
Here are just a few of the things you'll learn when you listen to
this
in-depth interview:
-A truly "no-brainer" (yet almost always overlooked) way to get a woman to
give you her phone number the SECOND time you email her
-How to find out exactly what kind of responses a woman is getting to her
personal ad and grab her attention by doing the EXACT OPPOSITE
-A simple "telephone trick" that sets you up as a huge challenge and gets
HER chasing YOU from the start
-The exact amount of time you should wait to call a woman after getting her
phone number (You'll find out why this one secret DOUBLES your chances of
actually MEETING her)
-A great way to tease a woman for using the personals in the first place...
that makes her want to meet up in person just to prove she's "normal" to YOU
-How to create sexual tension over the phone so half of your work is done
BEFORE you even meet her (Don't be surprised if SHE makes the first move
when you do this)
-Exactly what to say on that crucial first phone call to make her
comfortable and excited about getting together
-The big difference in the way you must talk to a woman who's phone number
you have gotten online vs. a woman who's phone number you have gotten in
person (This is where almost all guys screw it up)
-Why you should NEVER give a woman your "instant messenger" name (Here's how
to skip this time-wasting step and get her phone number instead)
-How to get a woman you meet online to feel comfortable enough to have you
over to her place the first time you meet
-The real reason why women use online personal ads (When she realizes you
know this you will AUTOMATICALLY become more attractive in her mind)
-Why you can almost always meet HIGHER quality women online than in a bar,
nightclub, or anywhere else... when you know THIS secret
-Why SHY guys have an ADVANTAGE over other men when it comes to online
dating
-Why meeting women online is FAR easier than meeting them at a bar, coffee
shop, or anywhere else
-A well-known trick... commonly thought to be a MISTAKE... that is actually
one of the most EFFECTIVE ways to meet women online
-The one thing so-called "experts" recommend that you must NEVER do
when you email a woman if you want her to respond (I don't know
where they come up with this stuff)
-The "magic length" all of your emails should be for the best chance of
getting a reply
-The one thing you must always IGNORE in a woman's profile
-A simple email trick that allows you to contact TEN TIMES as many women as
every other guy on the site!
-The exact date of the week and time of day you should email a woman to have
the highest possible chance of her writing you back
-The time to call a woman on the phone where she is 80% more likely to
answer
-The 8 subtle things you can put in your profile that will TRIPLE the
chances of a woman emailing you
-A "secret" source of fantastic lines you can "cut and paste" to create an
amazing personal ad that draws women to you like a magnet
-A powerful sentence... borrowed from the world's most expensive escort
(yes, you read that right)... that completely convinces any woman who reads
your profile you are a man she MUST meet
-The "Artist Trick" - A hilarious way to break the ice with a woman that
tells her you have a charming personality
-What to do with those "difficult" women who refuse to give you their phone
numbers (It's actually quite simple... and it works)
-A way to create powerful "subject lines" that practically force a woman to
open YOUR email out of the hundreds in her inbox
-How to turn any past "odd" experiences she has had with the personals a
good thing that makes her want to meet you more (You'll run into this one a
lot as you get good at meeting women online... and now you'll be ready)
-A proven (and easy) way to "screen" a woman and make sure she is attractive
BEFORE you meet her so you don't end up disappointed
More Great Tips And Techniques
As I mentioned, this guy is an expert with the Double Your Dating materials,
and he ALSO shared some killer techniques to use while you are with out with
a woman. Here are a few of my favorites:
-A brand new way to make a woman addicted to your personality by using an
old Double Your Dating concept in A NEW WAY
-How to break all of the rules and change any date from "getting to know
you" to "let's get physical"
-Why women you meet online are MORE likely to be sexually aggressive than
women you meet elsewhere IF YOU LET THEM BE (99 out of 100 men will never
stumble across this idea by "trial and error"... you must KNOW it to do it)
-2 new ways to touch a woman that send a rush of arousal though her body and
make her long for you to touch her more and more and more...
-A simple move to use the first time you meet a woman that makes her feel
like you have known each other for years
-A new psychological technique you can use to comfortably and smoothly set
up your first kiss with a woman... every time
-The 3 guaranteed ways to know with ABSOLUTE CERTAINTY if a woman is
interested in you so you don't waste your time
-The one thing almost ALL guys say at the end of a date that kills the
"challenge" for a woman and makes her see you as a BORING guy... no matter
how well the date went
-How to handle a woman mentioning another man in front of you in way that
makes her want YOU more
I'll say it again... this guy is GOOD. His email inbox is literally filled
with women writing him to say "here's my number... call me".
Amazing.
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