How To Meet Women Online And Get Dates
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OK, quick and easy question for you:
What's the fastest, easiest, lowest-risk, most convenient way to meet literally DOZENS of interesting, sexy, attractive, available women?
As you probably guessed from my subject line, the answer is ONLINE DATING.
You've probably heard a million stories from friends about how they or someone they know has met a great girl online... and maybe you've even tried it.
This is great news... because it means online dating is becoming more and more socially ACCEPTED... and as that happens, more and more REALLY interesting women are joining these sites looking for good men. As I write this, there are literally TENS OF MILLIONS of women who are members of online social and dating sites...
Amazing, isn't it?
Unfortunately there are some major obstacles that make meeting women online difficult (if not hopeless) if you don't know the SECRETS. Let me share three of the biggest obstacles a man faces when trying to meet a woman online:
Unfortunately for us guys, the guy/girl ratios at most online dating sites are not pretty. I don't think the term "cyber sausage farm" is too far off base here...
If you think women get hit on a lot at bars and clubs, you ain't seen nothin' until you've seen what happens when an attractive woman puts a profile online.
ANY attractive woman who posts a profile online INSTANTLY gets DOZENS of responses... and dozens more the next day... and dozens more the next...
And what kind of emails are those?
My friend, you have NO idea.
I have several female friends who have forwarded me some of the emails
they've received from men...
and I'll put it this way...
If I told you what was contained in them... first you'd laugh, then you'd cry, then you'd decide to go into business as a dork counselor. In addition to the dorks, the random "psycho" emails, and the emails from guys that are a hundred years older than her... she'll get TONS of boring "get to know you" type of letters... some that are pages and pages long... telling the stories of how they came into this world... how they love animals... and how they can't wait to find "the right one" to settle down with and start a family.
If you doubt me, borrow a picture from a cute female friend and sign up for a free online dating profile. The results will make you puke, guaranteed.
After reading a few dozen of these lame responses she gets THE VERY FIRST DAY... a woman is likely to get discouraged... and since she doesn't have time to read through each and every response she receives, there's a good chance your brilliant email will get DELETED... just like all the others.
2. Limited Tools ? Expertise Required
Making a great impression with a woman using only a few pictures and a few paragraphs is MUCH easier said than done. Because of this, many of my friends who are good with the ladies say meeting women online is HARDER than meeting them in real life...
In a face-to-face meeting you have the powerful weapons of body language, voice tone, and eye contact at your disposal... but online dating is a different story. If you don't play the few cards you have exactly right, she'll skip right past your email... and you won't have a second chance.
But in this challenge also lies a HUGE advantage.
Online is NEW.
Online is DIFFERENT.
Online is a place where guys who are "naturally" good with women have PROBLEMS.
They're not used to this new environment... and they often don't know how to translate their "real world" skills into this new "virtual" world. If YOU know how to turn this to your advantage, then you can get HUGE results... with VERY little effort, and very little or no "rejection".
3. What I call "Bridging The Gap"
Even if a woman does happen to read your email or love your online profile... and chooses to write you... the battle is only partially won. You then need to get her phone number... and then talk to her... and then get her to meet up with you IN PERSON so you can find out if you like each other... and on and on.
And this, of course, is where most guys screw it up completely... either by doing the wrong things and scaring her off... or... wasting their time emailing back and forth with a woman who has no intention of EVER meeting in person in the first place.
Once again, if you don't know exactly how to take things to the next level, you're chances of going anywhere are slim to none.
These three obstacles prevent MOST men from succeeding when trying to meet women online.
If YOU don't know EXACTLY how to deal with any one of the three you're going to have a very hard time getting any dates. But on the upside... if you DO know how to handle these things, you will have an almost UNFAIR advantage over other men... and you can make any online dating site your own personal "secret stash" filled with a literally ENDLESS supply of women for you to meet and date...
An Online Dating Guru "Tells All"
I recently had a conversation with a guy who has taken the Double Your Dating principles and techniques, and spent literally YEARS applying them to online dating.
Here's the story:
This guy is smart, interesting, and tech-savvy. But he was too shy to approach women on the street...
He needed to figure out a way to use his smart mind to meet women WITHOUT facing the fear of in-person rejection. Online dating was that way.
He decided to take a "scientific approach" and started running "tests" to see what kind of emails got the best responses, what kinds of pictures women seemed to like the best, and the best ways to get women to meet up with him in person.
He kept track of the results and constantly fine-tuned his emails and profiles to make them work better. He figured out some really amazing things... like which day of the week to email a woman to have the best possible chance of her writing you back (It's not when you think).
Before long he figured out some fantastic tricks that all but guaranteed
a woman would respond to his emails... but he didn't stop there...
He went on to figure out how to get a woman to respond to him WITH HER PHONE NUMBER... almost every time.
Soon he was getting DOZENS of phone numbers (not emails) a week from beautiful single women. But this still wasn't enough... he needed to figure out exactly what to say on the phone to get a woman to meet him in person.
It wasn't long before his email-to-date ratio was sky high... but then he ran into a problem...
Although he was meeting women and getting dates on a consistent basis...
some of the women he was meeting ended up looking a little bit different
in person then they had in their online photos...
And a few of them looked A LOT different... I'll say no more.
So what did he do?
He came up with a SCREENING SYSTEM to ensure that he didn't waste his time meeting women whom he wouldn't find physically or emotionally attractive. I'm telling you... this guy is GOOD.
Eventually he "cracked the code" and figured out a simple step-by-step system that any guy can use to meet of women online... consistently and easily. These days he gets dozens of numbers and dates each week...without ever leaving the house.
He's even figured out some great ways to get women to come over to his place right away.
Of course as he was telling me all of this... the only thing I was thinking was how I was going to be able to "twist his arm" and get him to reveal all of this in my "Interviews With Dating Gurus" series!
AND... I have some great news for you...
My friend believes that these days there are MORE than enough women online to go around (he didn't feel this way a couple of years ago when online dating wasn't as popular) and agreed to "spill the beans" and reveal his step-by-step plan for success!
He also believes that he will continue to have success no matter how many
men he shares his system with... because he is CONSTANTLY making
improvements. As I expected, this interview turned out to be amazing. This
is brand new, ground-breaking information...
and you don't want to miss it.
The really fantastic thing is that he is a normal guy just like you and me... and he consistently meets models, dancers, and other stunningly beautiful women on a fairly regular basis... all through the power of the internet.
I can tell you from firsthand experience that there are some VERY high quality women online... and in this interview you'll learn how to find them.
My favorite part about his system is that any guy can use it because it doesn't take much time... and it works like clockwork on any dating site online today. I've used these techniques myself... and it's really almost "too" easy.
...which leads me to another idea...
EVERY STEP with a woman will go MUCH SMOOTHER if you set it up well beforehand. My experience is that most guys CREATE THEIR OWN PROBLEMS with women, then come to me to solve them.
Isn't it a much better idea to not run into these problems in the first place?
I mean, you'll never reach a point where you never have any problems with
women, but you sure can prevent and eliminate about 80% of them by just
knowing what to do to set up each step with women, and how to respond to
If you'd like an introduction to my main concepts and techniques, then you need to start with my eBook, Double Your Dating. It's the foundation for everything that I teach in these newsletters, and it's a MUST-read.
...and watch it in action, learn it, and use it.
Talk to you soon,
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