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This article: "If you're willing to change your wussy ways, start being strong and confident, and not being the clingy girly-man that you once were, then being cocky and funny is for you."

Double Your Dating eBookHi Dave,
I bought your ebook and so far I've been getting more numbers (around 2 or 3 a week) than I ever did in my life.

I usually don't do as much cocky and funny as just maintain composure and confidence when talking to girls, and the email and phone number technique works great.

However, I do have a slight problem. I've gotten girls on the phone and we set up a meeting (for a cup of coffee) after I've gotten them to laugh and stuff, then they tell me they're already seeing someone and that they want to make sure we are just meeting as friends.

Am I doing something wrong? Or did these girls actually think I wanted to be "just friends?" Or yet, are these girls trying to test me in some way? Anyways, I
appreciate your help.

David D. >>>MY COMMENTS:

Here's a rule of thumb for you:
If you start hearing things like "I just want to be friends" or "I'm kind of seeing someone right now" when you call women on the phone, it probably means that you're doing something when you FIRST MEET the women that is causing them to see you as a "nice guy friend" type.

You're probably not using what you've learned to create what is known as "sexual tension" and ATTRACTION.

If you don't quite get how these things work at first, that's OK. Just keep doing what you're learning, and you'll start to get a better feel.

I would say that you should START using the Cocky & Funny material as soon as possible, because it does create this tension and attraction early on. I also suggest that you start getting EMAILS and not just numbers. Women tend to respond better to emails in my personal experience and you can find out more things, and say what you want to say, without being put on the spot like you would in a phone call.


Hello David,
I've been reading your newsletter for two weeks now and will begin downloading your ebook as soon as I hit Send.

I just wanted to take a minute to tell you that I've never had so much fun.

For as long as I can remember, I've been "addicted" to the idea of chivalry, and being the nicest guy any woman has ever met. Your ideas are so foreign to me, and yet so familiar. I've always been somewhat funny and often accused of being a cocky bastard, usually by male friends.

As I reflected on high school and college days, I remembered female friends who I treated "like one of the guys" - they were ALWAYS hanging around. I couldn't figure out why THEY hung around but the women I was interested in ran away. I was the biggest pansy-ass wuss that ever walked the campus. I opened their doors, stood when they sat down or left the table, always had kind words to say etc etc etc. AND I JUST DIDN'T GET IT ( And I mean that in more ways than one).

After reading your newsletter for two weeks, I figured I'd give your "psycho method" (sorry that's what I thought - at first ) a shot. OMG! The first woman (girl?) I met at a store basically threw herself at me while I was buying some stuff at her register. I gave her a bad time about the silly shirt she was wearing and suggested she follow me to the clothing section to pick out something more flattering. She said "OK, I'm going on break now anyway".

I'm not terrible looking, but this girl was an 8+ AND I'm 38 she couldn't have been more than 26. To make a long story short - we had a good time ;-) she didn't mind the age difference at all.

On the way home, that same night, I stopped at a gas station to fill up. A gorgeous hottie (much closer to my own age) had just finished filling her tank. So I said - "Hey sweetie, fillerup, and check the oil too." She laughed and said she didn't work there. I said "So? are you gonna check my oil or what? I'll pump the gas myself" as I began pumping the gas, she walked over and told me to pop the hood! Damn! I popped the hood and she checked the oil for me! As we walked together to pay I told her I was impressed that she found the dipstick and checked the oil without breaking a nail. Again she laughed and SHE opened the door for ME, paid for her fuel and waited for me to pay (and buy a bunch of crap I didn't need just to see if she'd hang around). She took my arm as I walked with her to her car (this time I opened her door) she got in and I walked away then, just as she started to leave, I stopped her and got her email and digits. She made me PROMISE to call her, which took me three days, and in that time I've busted on 6 other women.

I doubt I'll ever completely loose my "chivalrous habits" but, I still can't believe a woman doesn't want "Nice" on some occasions, just not ALL the look forward to a bit of reading and a lot of success with women.
Thank you,
Formerly a Wuss.

David D. >>>MY COMMENTS:

Any man who can have a female stranger checking his oil and opening doors for him within minutes of meeting is basically my idol.

The best part of your approach is that it was FUN for her as well. I love this stuff.

And as for the girl at the store who you felt pity on and decided to give private fashion lessons... this is an AMAZING example of how attractive women often respond to men who give them a hard time.

Well done!

You know, I think I'm going to run down to the gas station and see if I can't get some hot woman to check my oil...


Dear Dave,
I have a success story and a question about your material.

First of all, I recently purchased your e-book (which is incredible) I have put the material in use the past several weeks and I have had more success with women than in the past ten years combined!!

I recently was at a coffee shop with a friend when I noticed sitting next to us a group of three women, one who was particularly attractive and comely. I saw that she was wiping tears from her eyes and I just looked at her and said, " Don't start crying, I have not left here yet". Lo and behold she looked at me with amazement and then started smiling. I found out that she was hanging out with her friends and that she was quite emotional about the recent breakup with her boyfriend. I continued being C& F with her and was able to leave with her e-mail and number (all thanks to you Dave).

Now, I have a tough question that has been bothering me for a while. There have been several times I have gone out with a woman and jokingly teased them ( about not knowing how to read a map for example). I'll bust on them for not knowing their right from their left. They all start laughing and saying" You're so mean" or " I thought you were a nice guy". Now, the question is: How do you know when you are being cocky and funny vs. downright mean? ( I know that the funny part is important and you need a fine balance of C & F).

I think sometimes teasing a woman in a joking manner truly upsets them. Any help on this matter would be appreciated.

David D. >>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a GREAT question! The fact is that sometimes you're going to meet a woman who just doesn't have a sense of humor, isn't in a good mood... is feeling hormonal... or whatever.

Or sometimes you'll just make a comment that is LAME.

It happens.

As they say in cooking:
"You can't make an omelette without breaking a few eggs."

You just have to accept the idea that when you're learning how to use this material that you're going to occasionally run into a woman who doesn't get your humor.

Don't worry about it.

Here are my personal ways to disarm one of these situations:

1) Say "It was a joke" with deadpan serious look on your face.

Saying "it was a joke" in this manner is very funny all by itself, because your serious look contradicts the words. This will often get a laugh all by itself and allow you to continue with the line of Cocky & Funny humor you were using in the first place.

2) Give her a "sly smile".

The sly smile is a great way to interrupt a woman who is taking you too seriously. As she starts to get upset, just squint your eyes a little, purse your lips, and smile with a look of "You're cute when you're mad".

3) Start laughing.

This is another personal favorite. Just start laughing as she starts to get offended. Even tell her that she's cute and needs to lighten up a little.

All of these work well when women are GENUINELY offended or upset, because they communicate that you were kidding around.

But here's a warning: Don't use these TOO much. If you use them when she's not actually offended, they'll make you look weak and insecure.

In general, women love to "play like they're offended" when you tease them.

For instance, a woman might open her mouth with that "I can't believe you just said that look". This is usually the signal to TURN IT UP! Keep going. Most women know you're just flirting with them... so don't turn into a WUSSY at the first sign of emotion.

...and that about wraps it up.

If you haven't downloaded my eBook "Double Your Dating" and the three bonus booklets that come along with it, then you need to do that IMMEDIATELY. It's the foundation for everything I teach in these articles, and it's the best place to start.

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Talk to you soon,
David D.




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