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Dr. Dennis Neder: Does My Girlfriend Love Me?


I've seen your articles around the Internet and I've have a question for you.

How would I know if my girlfriend really does love me or not?



Frankly, she probably loves you, but your question (if I understand it) is if she's "in love" with you.

Obviously, I can't read her mind to be able to tell you, however, let me offer the following:

Poets, song writers and romantics have been trying to define exactly what love is since man has been around. To date, nobody has been able to give a definition that comes close to embodying the true nature of love. However, here's one person's definition that I think comes close:

"When you are more concerned with someone else's happiness, well-being, future and life than even your own, you're in love."

That may seem somewhat vague or trite, but it's a pretty good definition in my eyes. When you dwell over someone else's happiness, well-being, future and life everyday; when you place more concern on them and would even forego these things for yourself in order to have them for the other person - that's what love feels like.

So, to your question: is your girlfriend in love with you?

Ask yourself this: how does she treat you? Do your happiness, well-being, future and life come before hers according to her actions? Anyone can say they love someone else, but it's very difficult to fake. If she's truly in love with you, her actions will scream it from every pore! What someone does is always more accurate than what they say.

Now, the only question you have to answer is: do you love her?

Best regards...

Dr. Dennis Neder


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