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DR. DENNIS NEDER AND KYLIE Dr. Dennis Neder, Author: "Being a Man in a Woman's World"

Dear Dr. Neder,
I have been divorced for 16 years and focused most of that time on raising my two children. I have dated a few men however I seem to be attracted to losers. Now that my kids are grown I would like to find someone to settle down with again. It is hard to find single men my age. My children keep reminding me ".you're not getting any younger."
What can I do?

What can you do? A bunch!

The key is to expand your social network. The more people you meet (or can meet) the more non-loser guys you'll find. Pretty simple math, really.

If you live in or around a major metropolitan area like Los Angeles, New York, Washington DC, Dallas or literally ANY major city, you have a ton of resources at your disposal.

Use Google to find searches related your major city and "social" or "single". There are tons of organizations right there in your own backyard that are all about expanding your network.

For instance, here in Los Angeles where I live, there are probably over 200 such networking groups meeting this weekend alone! I know of one that has over 800 members! Do you think you'd be able to meet a nice guy there? You bet you would.

Another option is a hobby. For 16 years, your hobby was raising your kids. Now it should change. There are tons and tons of fun things to do out there. Find something you've never tried and look into it. What's cool about that is that there are a bunch of organizations dedicated to whatever hobby you select, and a bunch of great guys there too. Just get involved and you'll meet men.

There are even more opportunities through classes at your local community college. Adult education classes are all over the place and you can find all sorts of fun things to learn. Just be sure to select a class where guys will be. Yoga and cooking classes probably aren't your best bet, but there are a bunch of others.

Judy, the trick is to get involved. You have to get outside your current comfort zone in order to do this, but don't wait for your girlfriends to join you. Go alone if you can and here's why: as a single woman, all you need to do is to find the organizer of the club and tell him/her that you're new. They'll take you under their wing to help you meet all sorts of people - and those people will help you to meet others!

Trust me, this is a great way to expand that network and start dating again.

Best regards...
Dr. Dennis Neder

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Dr. Dennis Neder


Dr. Dennis W. Neder
Author of: Being a Man in a Woman's World
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About The Book:

Men and women continue to complain about their relationships. Married or single, the same issues seem to keep coming up.

Many men have trouble meeting women. They might meet them; they just can't get their numbers. When they do get a number, they can't get them to go out. When they do get them to go out, they wind up spending a fortune and getting dumped a month later. Of those that actually do establish relationships, they find them unfulfilling and fraught with the same, consistent, almost predictable problems.

This book began life about 13 years ago. It was directed to the single man looking for love in Southern California. Since then, it has evolved into something similar, but much more broad in scope. It seeks to bridge the gap between men and women by combining an understanding of men's place in today's world of women, communication skills, sales skills, and an organized plan - once and for all. It does this by focusing on the man's core - who we are, by evolution, by education, by society, and by necessity.

Men and women have continued to have the same problems for hundreds of years. It's time to put these problems to rest. We are in a woman-focused time in history. Not that this is bad, but it is one-sided. Men have an opportunity to succeed in their relationships just as they have strived to succeed in their jobs.

It's time for men to take their place. To be the partners that women want them to be. Not necessarily what they say they want, but what they really want - and need! As men we owe this to our women. Women crave who and what we are fundamentally. May the joy of being a man become part of your daily life. May the women in your life find new reasons to love and cherish you. May you begin to get along, communicate, and find your best with your partner. I wish this for you.

Got a love, relationship or man/woman question? I answer all letters. You can write to me at for answers. For more information about my book, "Being a Man in a Woman's World", visit:

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