Dr. Dennis Neder,
Author: "Being a Man in a Woman's World"
Dedicated to advancing the arts and sciences of relationships. Start having the relationships YOU deserve! Got a love, relationship or man/woman question? I answer all letters. You can write to me at dwneder@remingtonpublications.com for answers.
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Dr. Neder Article Archive
- A Matter of Height
Here are ten things women look for in men. Height isn't at the top of the list and the other attributes will certainly wake you up to thinking beyond height. - Facebook Flirting Dating and Failure
If you continue to wait for perfect opportunities, or even good ones without making them happen for yourself, you're going to be one lonely guy! - Rebuilding a Sexual Relationship
It’s not that you have to do exactly this every time you want to have sex, but you need to show her consistently that you’re attentive to more than just her body. - Her Gay Friend
She has pictures of him online of them kissing and just being close, typical girl thinks gay guy is cute/adorable type thing. - Attraction and Love Formulas
Is there really a “formula” for attraction and love? Yes, there is. I discovered them when I was working on what sorts of approaches work best with what sorts of women. - I Need Something That’ll Work – Hurry!
If you look at just about any segment of popular culture, the examples of strong masculine figures are just as rare. - Women Complain About The Lack Of Real Men
Talking with a hot actress the other night and she was complaining to me about the lack of 'real men'' out there. - Should Women Approach Men?
Are most men going to be okay with this or is it just a personal preference of yours? - Stuck Between a Friendship and Something More
These are personal things but if you can get hold of them, you have the first key in instilling confidence. - Me, Her and the Ex
You sat back waiting for her to make all the moves - and she did - right into her ex-boyfriend's arms. - Is Dating Culture Creating Murderers?
If you look at just about any segment of popular culture, the examples of strong masculine figures are just as rare.
- Rebounds and Responsibilities
She has to get over these things on her own - you're never going to fix them for her. Trust me, you're simply too close to the situation. - Approach Anxiety
You are invested in women that you're attracted to, and thus, fear losing the opportunity or the girl. Again, perfectly normal. This is called “approach anxiety”. - The “Un-Ex”: The Long Distance Relationship Fantasy
This long-distance thing is absolutely ridiculous. You may FEEL like it's something, but it's not. It only exists in your noggin. - My Girlfriend Is A Liar!
I just can’t trust someone who always lies to me. She says I’m crazy and controlling but I disagree. - Trying to Reconcile
How long should I be willing to wait for something to happen? I mean after 2 weeks if we haven’t even kissed its kinda weird isn’t it? - Why Is Having Sex Too Early Bad?
There has to be more of a foundation for any relationship than just sex. - Is It Clingy Or Just Something Else?
This is the pattern that's killing you. You're making the girl the focus of the relationship.
- Being Too Smart For Girl Games
We have to fight these natural tendencies in order to have something better - and to be better partners for the women we love. - Which Guys are Marriage Material?
Any guy is marriage material if you can find out how to marry him. Do you understand a guy's needs? What his expectations are? Those are the questions that need answers before any thought of marriage. - Maybe He’ll Be Mine If I Get Pregnant?
As soon as he has you, he'll be totally done with it all and will be moving on to the next hunt. You're never going to land this guy or end all the games. - Do I Compromise To Get Him Back Or Bolt?
If he can't handle his own past insecurities, you're going to need to reconsider what you want and if you can get it through this relationship with his issues. - Why Women Love Men
This explains why so many women can be catty towards each other too. It comes from a basis of competition with each other.
- A Matter Of Trust
You can become your own worst enemy when you're dating someone and you have trust issues. - Will He Marry Me?
If marriage isn't on your man's mind, it is right to force him to propose? - I'm Tired of Being "Too Shy"!
You can choose to be confident any time you want, but you've convinced yourself that your safe little shell is the best place to be. We have to work on that first, the ladies will wait. - Help! My World is Crumbling
As soon as he has you, he'll be totally done with it all and will be moving on to the next hunt. You're never going to land this guy or end all the games. - A Pair Of Jackasses Beats A Straight Flush
As soon as he has you, he'll be totally done with it all and will be moving on to the next hunt. You're never going to land this guy or end all the games. - How To Find A Normal Relationship
I've been single for the past 5 years and want to start dating again but how can I avoid any nasty experiences with men? - Going Too Fast, Going Too Slow
Sometimes if the guy goes too fast it can be really threatening to the woman (unless she likes it of course.)
- Dealing With Rejection
- How To Move On After A Breakup
Reframe the emotional experience so it becomes a distant memory in your mind, these are the techniques you need to know. - Getting Experience With Women
When you've been dating monogamously during college without a doubt you've missed gaining the experiences of being with other women, but you have to ask yourself what is more important to you, the relationship you have or the experiences you think you've missed. - Just Never Satisfied!
You can easily cause restrictions on yourself that keep you single. Now is the time to be honest with yourself and find those blockers and get rid of them once and for all! - What Is Love?
You seem to think this is good relationship building. You, my dear are sadly, sadly mistaken. - A Dearth Of Dates
- Too Many Mixed Signals
You seem to think this is good relationship building. You, my dear are sadly, sadly mistaken. - Dating on Facebook
Now, you have to play the Facebook game with her, going back and forth and you STILL have to get her number anyway! That's terrible form - and you'd better trust me on this one - she IS going to play you here! - Even Steven
Am I being self-centered or is my boyfriend just uninteresting? - I Don’t Trust Myself!
- Avoiding Dating Games
You're looking for a way around the games rather than doing what any woman will absolutely demand of you: plowing right through them. - Are Nice Guys a Dying Breed?
Nice guys come off as needy and wanting. They seem "sensitive" and are more in need of mothering than an Alpha or a jerk. Now, understand that this appeals to some women, but they are the minority. - How Can I Get Him to Never Leave Me?
- Confusing Girl-Games
- All About Lying
You can become your own worst enemy when you're dating someone and you have trust issues. - The Loaded Weapon
- The Magic Of The Approach
- I Am Ready For Marriage, My Boyfriend Is Not
You seem to think this is good "relationship building". You, my dear are sadly, sadly mistaken. - Who Can Have A Support Network?
- How Much Should You Share With Your Date?
Being able to afford having children doesn't make you a mother any more than having a function reproductive system does. That's just ridiculous! - Is Needing Someone Unhealthy?
- My Boyfriend is a Loser!
- The Cowardice of Taking Breaks
- Approach Women Without Nervousness
It's like falling in love before you even know her. Trust me, she's nice to look at, but she's just as dorky and strange as anyone else you know. Don't be swayed by her looks or you'll lose all your power. - The Problem: Inertia
- Dating The Older Woman
- Breaking Up
- The Art Of Selling
- The Test
- Meeting That Special Someone
- First Date Checklist
- First Contact In An Email Relationship
- The Sexless, Passionless Lifestyle
- Is This Career Woman Baby Ready?
Being able to afford having children doesn't make you a mother any more than having a function reproductive system does. That's just ridiculous! - The Big O
- Communication and “Sexual Conversion” Part 1
- The Perils of Internet Dating
- Are Women Sluts?
Men are getting smarter about these things these days. They are beginning to look at women's actions much more closely than listening to her words. - The Secret To Getting Men to Commit
- The Independent Woman - A Recipe For Disaster
- I Can't Get Him To Leave!
- Dating While Still Being In A Relationship
- Am I Sabotaging My Relationship?
Are you your own worst enemy in relationships? It all depend son what you want out of them, isn't it? - Dating Interracially
- Does My Girlfriend Love Me?
- My Boyfriend Doesn't Like My Father
- The Mathematics of Moving In Together
- Sex Only Relationships
- Too Shy To Try
- How Women Can Approach Men
I've spent years helping guys discover the approach signals from women. As for women approaching men, there are several ways you can show your interest. - The Guy That Wants To Get Married
- Learn to Kiss, Damn it!
- Just How Does A Guy Meet A Girl, Anyway?
- Do You Think She Likes Me?
- You Better Know How to Handle "The Test"!
- Do Men Respect Women?
- Game-Playing Girlfriend
- Should I Get Married?
- Should A Woman Ask A Guy Out?
This is the new millennium and thinking that men still don't want to be asked out by a woman is old-millennium thinking. - How To Get Back Into Dating
- Approaching The Girl
You might walk up to her and say, "Ok, I see you on this train every day. Are you stalking me or something?" This will get her laughing. - Should I Contact Her Again?
- Asking A Guy Out
If you're the better fit for that person, almost everyone, man or woman, will trade up. Thus, it's your job to sell your benefits right from the start. - Learning to Communicate
- Should I Give Up Relationships To Have a Career?
- The Cheating Girlfriend
- My Parents Don't Like My Partner!
- How To Handle The Check
You are still expected to pick up the tab regardless of what you've been told, or heard said. However, there's nothing wrong with expecting her to reciprocate in some way. - She's No Longer Interested?
- His Libido
- Is Seth Rogan A Good Male Roll Model?
It's unfortunate, but the only roll models modern men seem to have are the man-children of the movies and TV. - Falling For A (Somewhat) Older Man
- Faked Confidence Revisited
- A Woman's View of The Test
- Getting A Girl To Date Me
- The Date Canceller And Other Feminine Games
- How (and Who) Do Professional Women Date?
