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She's No Longer Interested?

DR. DENNIS NEDER AND KYLIE Dr. Dennis Neder, Author: "Being a Man in a Woman's World"

"It's not unusual to have feelings of insecurity at times. These will fade unless you inflict them on the relationship!"

Hey Doc,
There's a girl that I've been interested in and we do the whole flirting thing all the time and some of it gets a little physical.

I finally worked up the courage to ask her out and when I did she said that she liked me when she first met me but she doesn't anymore.

Should I take this at face value or is there more to it?

Was she just trying to let me down gently? Thanks for your time.

No, she was challenging you to be the strong, masculine guy her image had of you when you first met.

By taking all this time to try to see if something would happen, you've told her that you aren't this guy, but that you're a coward.

Important lesson alert: ALWAYS close for digits, dates or sex right away.

If you wait, you lose that power and have to rebuild it which is far tougher.

Remember the phrase "DO IT NOW!" ONLY use that phrase to tell yourself to get moving - and always, always get moving when you use it!

Here's what you do.

Tell her you don't give a rip if she's attracted to you now or not.

Tell her she will be when she gets to know you.

Then say, "Now, clear up Friday night. I'm going to pick you up at 8 sharp so be ready. Oh, and by the way - don't call me an hour before and claim that something just 'came up'. Be ready."

Mike, because you've let this go on so long looking for your courage, she's going to test you on this.

Believe me. It's not that she wants to be a jerk, but that she's simply compelled to do these things because she's a woman - and because you've let all your power go.


Best regards...
Dr. Dennis Neder

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Dr. Dennis Neder


Dr. Dennis W. Neder
Author of: Being a Man in a Woman's World
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About The Book:

Men and women continue to complain about their relationships. Married or single, the same issues seem to keep coming up.

Many men have trouble meeting women. They might meet them; they just can't get their numbers. When they do get a number, they can't get them to go out. When they do get them to go out, they wind up spending a fortune and getting dumped a month later. Of those that actually do establish relationships, they find them unfulfilling and fraught with the same, consistent, almost predictable problems.

This book began life about 13 years ago. It was directed to the single man looking for love in Southern California. Since then, it has evolved into something similar, but much more broad in scope. It seeks to bridge the gap between men and women by combining an understanding of men's place in today's world of women, communication skills, sales skills, and an organized plan - once and for all. It does this by focusing on the man's core - who we are, by evolution, by education, by society, and by necessity.

Men and women have continued to have the same problems for hundreds of years. It's time to put these problems to rest. We are in a woman-focused time in history. Not that this is bad, but it is one-sided. Men have an opportunity to succeed in their relationships just as they have strived to succeed in their jobs.

It's time for men to take their place. To be the partners that women want them to be. Not necessarily what they say they want, but what they really want - and need! As men we owe this to our women. Women crave who and what we are fundamentally. May the joy of being a man become part of your daily life. May the women in your life find new reasons to love and cherish you. May you begin to get along, communicate, and find your best with your partner. I wish this for you.

Got a love, relationship or man/woman question? I answer all letters. You can write to me at for answers. For more information about my book, "Being a Man in a Woman's World", visit:

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