By Nancy Fagan, Author of "The
Complete Idiot's Guide To Romance"
Can you imagine a church
that not only encourages its congregation to have sex, but also
teaches you how to do it? It may be hard to fathom, but there is one.
It's called the Church of the Tantra, dating back to 800 AD. The
belief system is still practiced today in some parts of the world.
Before you get too excited about waking up early next Sunday, don't
expect to find this church on the corner in your neighborhood. It's
primarily practiced in Eastern cultures. You know, on the other side
of the world! Nevertheless, you will learn enough about the techniques
in this article to duplicate and practice them religiously at home.
As unusual as it may sound, this church combines spirituality with
something NO other church does-sexuality. There is no shame or guilt
for desiring sex; as a matter of fact, they have an entire book of
sexual techniques called the Kama Sutra. The most fantastic thing
about this book is that it can be used by anyone of any religion. You
don't have to convert before you can adapt its practices to your sex
life. All you have to do is have a willingness to broaden your sexual
Here's a sample of instructions for a variety of sexual positions from
the Indian "bible"-The Kama Sutra. This book makes the "Joy of Sex"
look like a kindergarten book:
Lying Down: "Full of desire, saying sweet words, approach her with
your body stiff as a pole and drive straight forward to pierce her
lotus and join your limbs." this is called "Madandhvaja" (The Flag of
Sitting Position: "She sits with raised thighs, her feet placed either
side of your waist; penis enters vagina; you rain hard blows upon her
body." This is called "Kshudgaga" (Striking).
Rear-Entry: "If the lady, eager for love, goes on all fours, humping
her back like a doe, and you enjoy her from behind, rutting as though
you'd lost all human nature." This is called "Hirana" (The Deer).
Standing Position: "When she leans against
a wall, planting her feet as widely apart as possible, and you enter
the cave between her thighs, eager for lovemaking." This is called "Sammukha"
(Face to Face).
A Cure for Impotence:
"The artificial phallus should be shaped to your natural proportions.
It will be more arousing for the lady if the outside is studded."
If, during lovemaking, the erection cannot be sustained because the
man is old, or simply exhausted he should use delicate oral
A man who climaxes too swiftly should arouse his lady by caressing her
clitoris with his fingers and flooding the well of her vagina before
he enters her."
The Kama Sutra makes an art out of
making love. It's a manual for all ages. It helps new love blossom,
bored love become exciting, and absent love reappear. What's better
than indulging yourself sexually with someone you love? It's all about
getting both partners on the same page to be intimate, then making the
time to do so. If there's one thing you learn from their ancient
practices, it's that sex is not an after-thought at the end of your
day. Do what they have done for many years and make lovemaking a
spiritual connection you share with your partner.
© Copyright 2004 Nancy
Fagan - Published with permission
Nancy Murphy, M.S.
11622 El Camino Real, Suite 100
San Diego, CA 92130 (in Carmel Valley)
Nancy Fagan, M.S., best-selling author of 'The Complete Idiot's Guide to
Romance' and 'Desirable Men: How to Find Them' has appeared on several
hundred radio and television shows including Ricki Lake, Men are from
Mars/Women are from Venus, ABC News, NBC News, CBS News, The Berman &
Berman Show, FOX News. She has been featured in most major newspaper in
the United States and worldwide as well as regularly mentioned in the
nation's top magazines such as Ladies' Home Journal ('Can this Marriage be
Saved?'), Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Men's Health, Bride's, Seventeen, Women's
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