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 DATING TIP: Fear And
Meeting Women In Bars
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***SUCCESS
STORY***
i love your news letter and i have been reading it for almost a year. i have
been with the same girl for nine months because of you dave! i used to the
same way about chics,buying them dinners,etc. but once i started applying
your techniques i met the love of my life. i drive a piece of crap and i am
a broke college student. i played like i didnt care when my girl and i first
met before i know it she's giving me lots of great sex,money,dvd
player,clothes, etc. i was cocky and funny but also threw in a little
sweetness to catch her off gaurd. Ladies get bored with the same old
dates,etc. I did outrAGEOUS THINGS IN AND OUT OF THE BEDROOM AND NOW WE ARE
PROBABLY GOING TO GET MARRIED LATER ON WHEN I GET OUT OF COLLEGE!
THANKS DAVE!
-C FROM TX
David D. >>>MY COMMENTS:
What's this you say? You have a great girl buying YOU things... including
clothes, and even DVD players? Very powerful stuff. You know, in your letter
you mentioned throwing in a "little sweetness" to "catch her off guard".
I would like to share a little profound revelation:
It's OK to be sweet. Yes, I know, sounds a little weird coming from me. But
it is OK to be sweet to women. The problem is that most guys do it too much,
and too soon. And they come across as needy Wuss Boys who are
trying to use "niceness" to manipulate. When you meet a girl you really
like, and decide that you want to take things to a "relationship" level,
it's actually great to be sweet.
Just don't do it before date #10! lol...
***QUESTION FROM A WOMAN***
Hi Dave,
I recently had a very serious conversation with my boyfriend of two years
about threesomes. I know this isn't really a dating question, but I want to
get some input about this situation in relationships in general and I though
you and your newsletter would be a good place to start. I am aware that as
far as every guy in the world is concerned a threesome is the best thing
that could happen in a relationship because he gets to have twice as much
fun as normal. But could most guys actually go through with it? Could they
really have sex (or whatever else) with a girl while being in a serious
relationship with another? Does this stuff even go through the mind of the
average male?
I am also aware that guys like two girl and one guy threesomes and not the
other way around. would a guy think about the situation more if it were
their girlfriend having sex with another guy? Also, how often do threesome
ideas make it out of the minds of men and into the bedroom? I hope you can
answer some of my questions
es
canada
David D. >>>MY COMMENTS:
You're right about this not being a dating questions, but who cares... it's
a question about all men's favorite fantasy, so I'll allow it. Now, what the
heck are you doing asking "Would a guy think about the situation more if it
were their girlfriend having sex with another guy?" Who cares! No guys do.
They only want to know what you'd look like kissing your best friend.
LOL!
And yes, your boyfriend could "have sex (or whatever else)" with a girl
while being in a serious relationship with another. Hey, you're the one who
opened up the barn door by having the "very serious conversation" with him.
Let me know if it happens. We're all on the edge of our seats here.
***QUESTION***
You know what David, you were right, and I feel sick to my stomach right
now. I met this woman, went out a few times, nailed her the first night and
all that. I bought her some flowers for Valentine's Day, mostly because she
complained like 3 times since I've known her (only a couple weeks) that she
never gets flowers on Valentine's Day, so I wanted to surprise her.
So I took great care to sneak around her while she wasn't looking, and plant
them where she'd find them. Well she did, and here's what she said, "Oh,
that's a really nice gesture, but next time just leave them in my car okay?
I don't want the other students giving me a hard time or making faces at me
(this was at karate class)",
In one quick moment, my heart sank right to the floor, and I felt WORSE
about myself than before I bought her the flowers! NEVER AGAIN am I wasting
money on this bullsh** holiday unless I've been with someone for a year or
more.
I can't believe I actually feel LESS close, and like I have LESS power with
this woman than I did before I did something nice for her. You better
believe I won't make this mistake again. If you're willing, please share
this story with your readers so that at least the other guys can benefit
from my ignorance, and learn a lesson from it too.
J
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Hey, you can't say I didn't warn you. I'd offer a hug, but what YOU need is
a to be slapped up side the head for being a JACKASS! You bought something
for a woman because she COMPLAINED?
Here, do this:
Go in the bathroom.
Find the mirror.
Take a big black sharpie pen, and write the following on your forehead:
"STOP BEING A DUMBASS!"
Try that. If you're still with this girl in a YEAR, then buy her some
flowers. But will you leave them in her car this time?
***QUESTION From A WOMAN***
David,
First of all, I would like to say that I really enjoy reading your
newsletters. A male friend of mine started receiving them, and he now has me
reading them too. Now, thanks to you, we have both adopted a "NO WUSS"
policy.. he's going to stop being one, and I'm going to stop dating them. :)
I have a question that I would like your insight on.. perhaps I should set
the stage with a sample online conversation... (After the usual initial blah
blah and silly comments on my part, he asked and I sent him a pic)
him: yep, cute
him: how tall are u
me: 5'10"
(insert cricket sound effects and silence)
me: helloooooooooo
him: later.. need to go work on a paper the end.
Me to the cricket: well, at least he didn't ask if I play basketball.
My question is this.. are most men really intimidated by taller women? If
so, why? I have actually dated a couple of people who were obviously
uncomfortable with my being taller than they are. One even asked if I would
mind not wearing heels when we're out together, because it made him feel
weird. Needless to say, he got the boot. (ha) If this is a silly concern,
feel free to hit "delete" or tell me to consult the pages of Cosmo. I can
take it! :) I'd just like to know if there's anything I can do to make these
guys feel more at ease.
Thanks a lot!
BL
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes, a lot of guys are intimidated by tall women. No, I'm not. Yes, send me
your number and picture. By the way, I fit your "No Wussy" policy. I'm your
man.
***FOLLOW UP COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***
Hi Dave,
You are a Brat. I wanted to clarify something from my letter which seemed to
set you off. That part about school/marriage/fairness: To be fair, if he
invested in my education, as my husband, he would more likely get a return
on that investment than if he were just a boyfriend I was living with. It is
my opinion that people who live together have all these committed ties, but
one foot out the door. Kinda like playing house. Personally, I don't like
doing things that half-a**ed, and would prefer to eventually make a
home--with the right guy.
You are right on about him needing your material, but if I sent him your
e-book, it would be insulting, don'tcha think? I do get bored if a guy
doesn't keep me on my toes, I know that about myself. And, after awhile,
it's a bore being the only one pointing up to the sky.
What's the deal with you, anyway? Are you just shopping? What happens to a
guy who has all the lines? Maybe this forum your path to personal
enlightenment. So, how's that going?
SC from Sac
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ohhhh, well thanks for clarifying. I understand now. If he supports you and
pays for you to go to school when you're MARRIED, then "he would more likely
get a return on that investment than if he were a boyfriend I was living
with"...
Powerful.
More likely.
Return on investment.
I feel ya.
That changes everything, and makes it completely fair. oh, and I didn't
recommend that you buy him my eBook. I recommended that you buy him my
ADVANCED MATERIAL. He needs serious help, dear. And what's the deal with ME?
Am I "just shopping"? What happens to a guy who has all the lines? What do
you mean "What happens?"
You make it sound like I should be going through some empty feeling of
superficial accomplishment followed by a depressing realization of
unfulfillment... now that I know the secrets of how to make women feel
attracted to me. Sorry, can't help you there. Knowing how women tick kicks
ass!
www.doubleyourdating.com
***QUESTION***
Hi David,
this is a letter from one of your italian fans.... after having received
your newsletter for several months now, im really thinking to purchase your
e-book...i was specially impressed by the "cocky&funny" attitude which
attracts women in a great way! and damn! this stuff works!!!
the interesting thing i want you to know is that i have been a horrible
wussy for several years! i did almost everything on your wussy list! like
being nice to everyone....and so on...(; fortunately (at the age of 20, now
im 22) i had the luck to meet a guy of 27 years who was very successful and
experienced in approaching and "getting fisical" with girls...he taught me a
lot about psicology of women and other very interesting stuff you already
should know...(; almost each weekend we went out he got to know new girls,
specially american students here in rome and other really goodlooking
italian beautys...i analyzed what he did, his behaviour and so on...
and now we ask ourselves...why was he so successfull? and the answer is that
he was almost all the time cocky and funny! always making fun of the girls!
and he wasnt even goodlooking, just medium...i began to imitate his
behaviour and since then i had an incredible success with girls which
surprised myself and all my friends because i was dating one really hot girl
after another....so if you want to get interesting or "attractive" you gotta
be special, unique, full of selfesteem, funny, unpredictable and all the
other stuff you teach us! thats the way how it works...sure there are
thousands of other things to do...i dont need to tell you...
now i got a very important question for you, i think that this should be a
big help for almost everyone receiving your newsletters or already owning
your e-book. my biggest problem is the first contact...how to behave
afterwards and how to get fisical later is much easier in my opinion... lets
take this example, im in a pub with a friend of mine, close to us are, lets
say 3 goodlooking girls on a table and two of them seem to be interested
because they keep on looking to us...they smile at us, look in our eyes for
a few seconds and play with their hair, showing you their "delicious" neck ,
talk with a loud voice to take your attention and so on ( some of the signs
women usually make)...my problem is now how to go on! they seem to be
interested but nobody is outgoing enough to walk over to the other table to
start a conversation in order to establish a first contact.. you always
teach us that the content of the conversation is not so important as the way
you say it right? but what can i tell them? ( fear of rejection i know) .
how would you react or behave? walking by, what would you tell them? ( i
think just asking them if they want to sit down with us on our table is very
wussy)... try to give us concrete examples of the first "cocky&funny"
contact in a pub or other tipical places... that would be great...
thanks for helping the wussyfied planet...(;
M.M.
Rome, Italy
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You know, I'm glad to hear that you met a guy who was successful with women,
and learned from him. OF COURSE he was Cocky & Funny. I learned most of my
best ideas about how to meet women from guys who were successful with women,
and I found that they all did basically the SAME things... even though they
didn't "realize" that they were doing anything at all, for the most part.
Meeting and hanging out with "naturals" is one of the very best things you
can do to learn how to be more successful with women (the other is to study
the materials that I've put together at the same time, so you can have the
advantage of having it all explained to you).
Now, to answer your question about approaching women in "a pub". I think the
issue that you're PROBABLY dealing with is REJECTION. You're probably afraid
to go start a conversation because you don't want to be rejected by the
women. Once you can face this reality and start to deal with it, then you'll
start making more progress.
My experience starting conversations with groups of more than one woman in
bars is that your ENERGY makes a huge impact. In other words, if you walk
over and act nervous and stilted, the women will get nervous and act cold.
If you act like you're having a good time, you think they look like some fun
people to talk to, and you start on that note, they'll be FAR more likely to
be friendly and open. Now, I know a lot of guys who are GREAT at meeting
women in bars. Some of them use rather interesting and complex techniques
that range from "pick up lines" all the way to magic and psychic readings.
Try this: Pick up your drink, walk over to the table, think of the funniest
moment of your life so you have a smile on your face, and say "What, are you
girls shy or something?"
When they say "NO, why?"
Answer "Because I've been sitting at the next table for at least a half hour
and you haven't come over to say hi to me!"
I have about 3 different friends who all use variations of this opening...
and it works great (if you're having fun when you say it). You need to get
over your FEAR. Once you stop caring what women think of you, then you'll
make a LOT more progress.
***COMMENT***
Hey, I got your eBook a month or so ago. Great stuff. I write a comment to
you because of one of your letters, the one from "M. Missouri",
specifically. He described starting his marriage with the C&F and losing his
touch. My advise: hit the book, bud. My marriage was the typical story of
the wife with all the power. This last month, the whole deal has turned on
its head. We're celebrating our 10th anniversary next year, and my use of
your eBook has moved the power from her to at least shared (it'll be all
mine soon enough). The posture advise, and slowed deliberate, confident
movements, and, of course, the "like I give a F" attitude all have brought
this about. Thanks David, and to the guy who's losing his edge, take it from
someone that had no edge and is getting all of the control: you've let the
book sit unstudied for too long. If I can change over 8 years of bad
history, you can reel your situation back
in.
P in Portland
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Great job, man. Too many guys have this ideal or fantasy in their minds of
"being equals" with a woman, etc. Ain't gonna happen. Attractive woman
aren't interested in an EQUAL. They're NEVER attracted to guys who are
EQUALS. Attractive women want a guy who is a LEADER. One who takes charge,
keeps them on their toes, is unpredictable, is Cocky & Funny, etc.
Thanks for the letter.
www.doubleyourdating.com
***BREAKTHROUGH***
David, this might seem usual but I owe you $40. See I purchased your ebook
about a year ago but asked for a refund because "it didn't work for me". I
realize now that it wasn't your material rather my own issues that I had to
deal with. During that time frame I still read your newsletters and gained
more understanding of the mindset of one who "Gets it". I'm still working on
that but as you said, some are quicker learners than others. Another factor
in this was the other day when this hottie that I was chatting up was saying
how she would hold out longer if the guy was "relationship material" than if
she wanted a booty call. (A great time for a quick C&F comeback) A light
clicked on and I remembered where I'd read that before. The clincher was
when a buddy of mine let me listen to some of your advanced material. All I
can say is that I'm getting my own copy as soon as I can. So where do I send
you your money?
Thanks,
E.S. in San Diego.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
I admire you for coming back a year later and admitting that it was you that
was the issue, not the material. SO YOU'RE THE GUY WHO ASKED FOR A REFUND,
HUH!?
lol... hey, it's OK.
Yes, women do "hold out" longer if a guy is "relationship material"... that
is, if they are in CONTROL of the situation they do. And yes, at that point
you should have shot back: "So how you think of me... as just a BOOTY CALL?
How romantic."
You know, sometimes I even find it hard to believe that all this strange
stuff is true about women and dating.
But it is...
***COMMENT FROM A WOMAN***
Dave
What are you doing? Wait I'll answer that, YOU are taking away ALL of the
fun we get to have! Ok I'll admit you're right about most, ok all, of it,
but there is still at least ONE thing that I know you have never answered.
If we put a guy into your so called "Friends" category even YOU don't know
how to get him out of it!
JB
-Canada
P.S. I recommend you stop selling your books and "advanced tactics" before
you do something serious.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yea, I'm really in danger now, huh? And you're right... once a guy is in the
"friends" category it's not easy to get out. In fact, I tell guys to just
walk away and forget about it, because it's such a pain to try to change.
But there's GREAT NEWS! There are SO MANY women running around on this
planet that it DOESN'T MATTER.
Next!
The ironic part is that when you do take the "Next!" attitude and stop
treating a woman who only likes you as a friend like she's special, she'll
often change her mind and start liking you. Go figure.
***COMMENT***
First off, I am an avid reader of your material and I employ it often. It
works - well. I bought your ebook about a year ago and it was worth every
penny. Anyway, enough ass-kissing. I have a general comment about the whole
gift-buying, dinner-buying kissing a woman's ass concept. You say that doing
such things to win over a woman's attention are foolish. I agree
wholeheartedly. However, I am in a relationship now with a woman that I
really like, and sometimes I want to buy her things or take her out, etc.
This isn't because I feel I have to, but it is because I want to treat her
well. I don't feel that if I don't do this, she will leave me. Therein lies
the difference between being foolish and needy about it, and doing it by
your own decision. It is the INTENT behind what you do that is important. If
you do something for a woman because you feel you have to or you will
possibly lose her, she can more than likely sense that, and will have
limitless amounts of power over you. If you do something because you want
to, then she will sense the apparent confidence in you, and will not
necessarily have power over you because of it. Besides, like you say, a
woman should want you for YOU - your personality - not what you can buy her
or where you can take her. NOTE: I agree that gift-giving, etc. is a
somewhat bad idea in the beginning of a relationship for the same reasons
you don't like it. It makes you appear needy and insecure, and no
(emotionally stable) woman wants that in a man.
P.S. It was your material that helped give me the mentality to get with the
girl I am dating currently. Good work fella!
J from Philly
>>>MY COMMENTS:
YES! You get it! It's the intent behind what you're doing. I have a little
secret that I'm going to share with you. But lean in close, so I can
whisper. I don't want anyone else to hear...
I actually have guy friends who are REALLY good with women who take women to
dinner, buy them drinks, etc. when they first meet.
What, you say?
How can this be?
Well, the big difference is that these guys are NOT doing this stuff to GET
THE WOMAN'S APPROVAL. And since EVERYTHING ELSE they're doing clearly
communicates the RIGHT things, they can actually do whatever they want, and
still not screw things up.
In other words, if you don't understand how ATTRACTION works, and you don't
know how to communicate with women in a way that makes them feel it for YOU,
then buying drinks and dinner, and giving compliments, and all the other
things most guys do will only BACKFIRE.
On the other hand, once you totally understand how and why women feel
ATTRACTION, you can do whatever you want.
And later on, when you find a girl that you really like and you're enjoying
a relationship, of course it's nice to do nice things for her.
Just remember, be very careful. It's easy to be lured back to the dark
side... and to try to get women to like you by paying for things and taking
them places... which it will never do.
***QUESTION***
Hey Dave,
I just finished reading your newsletter about 'Valentines Day' and I had a
thought that I wanted to share. You talked a lot about guys chasing women
and showering them with gifts to buy their love. Well, I have a common sense
point to make to any of your readers that may be on the fence about buying
your materials.
Before I purchased your book, I had doubts because I wasn't sure it would be
worth the money. To put it into perspective, I thought about all the girls I
dated in the past. Then I roughly added up all the money I had spent on each
for dinner, gifts, etc. (Yes, I know, that was wussy behavior). Well, after
totaling up the money, I realized I could have bought all your materials
(book, CD and DVD series) for myself and five of my close friends and still
had money left over (Yes, I spent that much money on women in the past. I
know, that was bad). Point is, to any guy (or girl) out there, take the
money you're wasting chasing some girl and buy Dave's book or CD/DVD series.
It's worth it.
Now to my question. I know this is getting long but I gave you a plug so you
owe me. Have you taken any courses or read any books on conversation skills?
Can you recommend any books on the subject and also on the subject of body
language?
Thanks,
AG in PA
>>>MY COMMENTS:
You're right on about one thing... If most guys added up all the money
they've WASTED on women, they'd realize what a BAD investment they've made
(and what a great investment my stuff is! I like your idea... I'm going to
tell every guy to get my materials for them and all their friends from now
on. Nice!).
The best books I've ever read on conversations skills are COMEDY books. I
like the book "Comedy Writing Secrets" by Helitzer. And as far as body
language books go, I haven't found any that I can recommend. The book "Body
Language" by Fast has some interesting stuff in it... but most of it is hard
to really grasp.
One of the biggest problems I ran into when I was first learning how to meet
women was that things didn't make sense... and things that "should" work
DIDN'T work. When it comes to women and ATTRACTION the normal rules don't
apply anymore. This area of life is VERY DIFFERENT from other areas, and
when you try to apply ideas and techniques from other areas (like
conversation skills), you'll find that they often don't work AT ALL.
You can walk into a room full of 100 people, and start walking around
meeting them. For 99 of them, walking over and saying "Hi, so how do you
know everyone here?" and "So what do you do?" will work just fine. But when
you find that ONE attractive woman in the room that you'd like to meet, and
you want to start an interaction that leads to ATTRACTION, you must do
something TOTALLY different. It's more than than the words you say... it's a
total understanding of what that woman is looking for at a deep, primal,
unconscious level... and then to BE that man.
***COMMENT***
Dave,
Sometimes I have to just stop in the middle of your newsletters and take a
break because the stuff you deliver is so good that I feel a little
overwhelmed... killer stuff! I love the ebook and CD collection. I will send
some details later. You really do more good in the lives you touch then you
know. I hope you can truly appreciate that statement and all that it means.
We should all be so fortunate to have such a positive impact on a single
life... let alone the many that you influence.
Best regards,
E.
Chicago, IL
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yes, someone give me a trophy... or a medal or something. I really am a
wonderful guy, huh? Trust me, if you had this much fun doing what I'm doing,
you'd do it too...
www.doubleyourdating.com
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave
I've been receiving your free newsletter for a few months now and just
wanted to say that I've found much of what you've written to be helpful,
insightful, and most of all funny! Like a lot of other guys I've spent a LOT
of time trying to learn how to impress and have success with women, and I
like to think that I've come quite a long way from the needy, desperate
wussy-man I used to be (and still am on occasion, admittedly).
My question involves one of the 'testing' behaviors you described in a
previous newsletter. You said that one way women often test men is by
canceling plans at the last minute, or by flaking out altogether with little
or no notice. I've had this happen to me numerous times and I always assumed
these girls were just being careless or inconsiderate... or worse yet,
ignoring me in the hopes that I would "get the message" and walk away,
without them having to go thru the awkwardness of outright rejecting me! It
never occurred to me that they might be doing it intentionally, and then
taking note of my response in order to see if I passed some kind of test. Is
that really what's going on? And if so, how do I pass the test? What is a
woman looking for in this type of situation?
Thanks,
T
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Well, it is true that women use things like this to test men... but it's
ALSO true that women do things like this because they want to AVOID
CONFRONTATION. In other words, a woman will sometimes make plans with a guy
just to avoid saying "no" in the moment. But later, she'll flake or cancel
because "something came up"... when she never intended to show up in the
first place. If women are flaking out on you a lot, it's probably something
that YOU'RE doing up front.
In any case, try this: Next time you're talking to a woman on the phone and
making plans to get together for tea, say "Let me ask you a quick question.
Do you ever flake out on things?" She'll say "Not usually" (or some other
non-committal thing, most likely).
Say "Good, because it's one of those things that I really can't deal with...
people that can't keep their word... and there are a lot of flakey people in
this world."
That might help. And if she DOES flake at the last minute, don't accept it.
If she calls and says "Oh, something came up..." just answer back "You know,
I was just starting to think you were DIFFERENT from all the flaky women
I've met"...
Make it clear to women that it is NOT OK to waste your time, and they'll
waste it less. But if you act nice and sweet and accommodating... and
you transmit the message that it's OK to flake because you're a nice guy and
won't care, then it will happen to you all the time.
***QUESTION***
hey dave,
i need an answer to a question that has confused the hell out of me. well, i
received a bunch of red roses for valentines day from my girlfriend of about
2 months now. i gave her 2 roses, a small teddy bear thing and a short card
with a bit of c+f talk. i figured that i had made a bit of a mistake by
buying her this much, but when i gave it all to her she looked so happy and
told me that SHE owed ME bigtime for what i had done. the rest of the day i
had no problems with kissing her or anything else. my question is, why
havent i been seen as a wuss to her? i know that in most other scenarios,
buying this much stuff would have got me nowhere.
by the way, your research and advice is all spot on. its helped me to
attract loads of girls, including my current girlfriend. thanks and keep up
the great work mate.
S, AUSTRALIA
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yea! The reason she said that she "owes you big time" is because of the WAY
you did it. When you incorporate the attitude into all of your communication
with women, it has a HUGE impact.
The fact that you:
1) Did something thoughtful (the card, two flowers, etc.)
2) AND you said Cocky & Funny things in the card
...clearly communicated that you were NOT doing this because you wanted to
kiss up to her and get her approval.
One of the greatest things you can do is EVERY time you do something nice
for a girl and she THANKS you for it, say "Yea, you owe me" in a sarcastic
tone. Then, later, get her to pay up. I like massages, personally. There's
something magical about always putting a high value on yourself, your time,
and your attention. If you put a high value on it, women will too.
...and a couple of final thoughts...
There are two KEY aspects of learning how to be successful with women and
dating:
1) The Inner Game
2) The Outer Game
The INNER GAME is all about learning how to THINK and how to manage your
thoughts and emotions. It's also about understanding how and why attractive
women feel that amazing emotion called ATTRACTION for some men, and not for
MOST men.
The OUTER GAME is all of the techniques, what to say, and such.
Which is more important? Well, they're BOTH important. But what I notice is
that most guys want to learn the OUTER GAME first. In other words, they want
pick up lines, fancy tricks, and other things. I can remember when I first
started learning this stuff. I had this idea in my mind that if I could
learn how to get women to give me their numbers that I'd be the MAN.
Well, I learned that. I can get just about any woman's phone number in a few
minutes. But guess what? Once I learned how to get women's phone numbers, I
ran into a much BIGGER issue... the women usually flaked out on me, didn't
show up, etc. And the ones that DID show up were difficult. Nothing
happened.
I realized that there had to be more. And, as it turns out, there is. A LOT
more, in fact. The REASON that the "Inner Game" is so important is that
attractive women don't judge you on your "pick up lines". And just because a
woman gives you her phone number or email address DOES NOT mean that she
FEELS anything inside (like ATTRACTION). Women don't DECIDE to feel
ATTRACTION for a man. ATTRACTION is something that happens on its own, for
its own reasons.
Attraction Isn't A Choice!
The way to cause women to feel ATTRACTION for you is to UNDERSTAND how and
why it works, and then communicate in a way that makes it happen.
And if you haven't had a chance to download my eBook "Double Your Dating:
What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women", then you
need to do that now. You can download it and be reading it within a few
minutes...
www.doubleyourdating.com
- just follow the 'ebook' link and download your copy.
...and read it, learn it, and use it.
Talk to you soon,
David D.
P.S. As you can probably imagine, I get a TON of email... So if you'd like
to send me a Success Story, Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines:
1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs max.
2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask your question. I appreciate
all of the "Your stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how well your
stuff works" comments, but the fact is that I DO need to hear all of the
specifics... because this helps other guys to see what's working in
different situations.
3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success Story" in the subject line of
the email. I read these first.
4) At the end of the email, give me your initials and tell me where you're
from.
5) Send it to me at:
SuccessStories@doubleyourdating.com
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