How do your looks and personality combine to attract women?
Have you ever wondered why some guys seem to have a "magic" ability with women, even though they don't seem to LOOK like they should?
They might not look like models or athletes. And they might not be rich either.
And have you ever seen guys that SHOULD be doing great with women, but aren't?
It happens all the time. That's because attraction does not work in the way you THINK it does.
In other words, having tons of looks and money DEFINITELY HELPS, but it's also NOT the KEY.
The KEY that REALLY counts is the ability to make women FEEEL intoxicated with awesome emotions.
This is where the real "magic" is.
Once you are in the land of emotion, everything else is completely IRRELEVANT. It's like a world of virtual reality. You can create whatever the heck you want once you're there.
And isn't this how a woman who is beautiful makes US feel? We are no longer in the world of logic, we are feeling things that are impossible to fully describe. Think about it- millions of forms of surreal art, fantasy sci-fi film, fantasy books, fantasy poetry, all created by men that were inspired by their passion for women or for a particular woman.
It just feeeels cool, right?
But what we forget is that it's not just the woman's PHYSICAL self that makes us feel all this. It's what we have allowed our emotions to ADD to this that makes us feel attraction to a woman on a way higher level.
Why do you think for example in the past you may have been crazy about a particular woman and thought that other women couldn't hold a candle to her? It wasn't because of reality, because in reality there were tons of other women, probably many of whom were even more beautiful.
It's because somehow she was able, IN YOUR MIND, to ADD EMOTIONS to the mix that OTHER women could not add. So you felt MORE passion for her than other women, even though this was not logical.
See? Even as guys, we are not totally logical. And there's nothing wrong with that. If we were all totally logical, we'd be bored, we'd be robots.
When a man is in love with a woman, or passionate about a woman, he leaps off from the world of reality and starts to turn her into something GREATER than real. It happens to all human beings.
Emotions are a verrrry powerful part of what INTENSIFIES attraction.
So, you see, this principle is at play with making WOMEN feel attraction as well.
And it's all actually a very good thing because it's based on making women feel GREAT.
A woman will feel ALL KINDS OF EMOTIONS OF ATTRACTION FOR YOU that you might in the past have thought are impossible, if you can just help her make that LEAP into the world of emotion.
BUT! The tragic irony is that in order to successfully DO this, you have to be able to unleash all these awesome emotions in YOURSELF, and of course you have to be able to do this while chatting to a woman, not just while you are alone. This is why I make it a point to make this a natural part of yourself, not just something you do on Saturday night when out looking for "chicks."
The other day on the internet there was a video of some guy who made about a thousand approaches to women in New York City, and his approach was ABSURD. All he did was go up to women with the exact same line each time. And he didn't have the pep to his demeanor, he didn't have ANY sense of style in dress, and he probably is thinking how terrible women are. When in reality he was giving off the vibes of "I AM SOOOOOO SAD, I AM SOOOO LONELY, I AM SOOOO NOTHING. I AM SUCHHHH A NOBODY".
Now, I understand that feeling, I'm just saying that it was THIS feeling and THIS vibe that clearly turned off the vast majority of women. (He actually did get some results, simply from MASS approaching so many women, which is proof that effort is still better than being lazy.)
He doesn't have to worry about changing women's emotions, he has to worry about changing his OWN. That way, he'll change women's as well.
Human beings are very influenced emotionally by other people's emotional states, and this is why people say things like "don't be a party pooper" because they know how easy it is for other people's negative emotions to bring them down as well.
Ever wonder why so much sex happens in places where there is tons of alcohol and music playing?
It's because those things help unleash emotions and get rid of emotional inhibitors.
Now, that stuff is for amateurs. Real masters know how to trigger all these emotions and much more in a woman, all on their OWN.
And by learning this, you have a choice of getting the highest quality women who often are NEVER found in clubs.
Let me state immediately the first ERROR that 99% of men make in trying to create emotion in a woman: LINEAR STYLE THINKING, especially when it's to the degree of shutting down the emotions inside of you.
When you first see a woman you want to approach, what happens?
You THINK. You think, "Now, what do I DO to ensure SUCCESS?"
And it gets even WORSE when we get DESTRUCTIVE ideas from supposed gurus and pick up artists that teach us how horrible all women are that they need to be lied to and manipulated otherwise we can have no chance.
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