7 Lies The Pickup Artists Tell You

Having trouble using PUA tactics? ... maybe they just aren't YOU

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LIE NUMBER 4:

"BEING GOOD TO A WOMAN IS FOR LOSERS WHILE ALL WOMEN SECRETLY FANTASIZE ABOUT BEING WITH AN ARROGANT AND COCKY PLAYER"

This lie really gets me, it's so MASSIVELY UNTRUE, and yet it's everywhere in the subtleties of the entire dating guru and pick up CULTURE that I would need to devote an entire BOOK to explain how HORRIFIC THIS ADVICE IS, and how totally false it is.

It's not being GOOD to a woman that is not attractive, it's when you are being EXTRA NICE to a woman who has done NOTHING to earn that treatment from you.

Do you do good things for your friends?

Do your friends to good things for you?

OF COURSE YOU DO.
And there's nothing wrong with it, it's COOL actually.

Same thing with a woman- if she's good to you, then if you are NOT good to her, THEN you will be considered an INSECURE LOSER.

And guess what?
This is how quality women REALLY feel about players that are so scared to really be good to a woman and so scared to DROP the "masks" they wear in the form of fake memorized lines, and manipulative techniques to ATTEMPT to NEGATE her self-esteem. (notice the word ATTEMP in capitals, because it's doesn't work, A great woman will just ignore it or CHEW the guy up and spit him out for even trying)

LIE NUMBER 5:

"DON'T TALK ABOUT ANYTHING EMOTIONAL REGARDING HER OR YOU OR YOU WILL BE ABUSED OR SEEN AS A GIRLY-MAN"

The TRUTH is that if you NEVER talk to her about her things, stuff that she is going through, you will DUMPED fast and rightly so for not giving a rat's ass about her.

The TRUTH is that this is only a problem if a woman is always talking about her problems to you and is not BALANCING that with also having FUN with you and is not willing and happy to listen to YOUR stuff too.

The key is BALANCE, and as a MAN, you should not be a cry-baby but you DEFINITELY are not considered weak for having emotions and for expressing them- this kind of bullshit lie that is expressed by "pick up" and dating gurus probably gives more men heart attacks from stress than anything else. If you can't confide at all in the woman you are with, what the HELL is the point of being with her?

And if a woman feels she can't ever confide in you about emotional stuff, she will simply GET THAT CONNECTION from someone ELSE.

And again, THIS is why these "experts" are always talking about cheating and unfaithful women--they surround themselves with drunken party girls and they put Playboy and Hugh Hefner on a pedestal, and THEN they wonder why they are getting less than CREAM OF THE CROP qualities in the women they meet!!!!

INSANE.

The truth is that the stuff that these guys "teach" you will PUSH AWAY the BEST kind of women and will attract the very WORST type of woman.

LIE NUMBER 6:

"YOU CAN MEASURE YOUR REAL SKILL IF YOU CAN MEET AND PICK UP A WOMAN IN A CLUB"

ANOTHER LIE.

The reality is that meeting a woman in a club is EASIER. Women in clubs tend to be slightly tipsy, and are READY to be approached. I can get any guy results in a club in 1 HOUR of training.

The REAL test of "skill" is approaching a great woman with high standards who is not drunk and who is not looking to just play around, who is looking for something meaningful, and CONNECT with such a woman on a DEEP level, and then to KEEP THIS UP so that three weeks later she is just as into you and three months later as well, etc etc.

So take it from me, you can enjoy clubs if you want to, and if you want practice TALKING to women, you'll find a LOT of women in clubs, but if you are looking to meet a GREAT woman where you will have to also form a great connection, clubs are NOT THE PLACE to do it.

LIE NUMBER 7:

"ONLY TALK ABOUT POP CULTURE AND NOTHING ELSE DEEP. MAKE SURE TO NOT GET INTO ANYTHING DEEP WITH A WOMAN, ESPECIALLY IN A PICK-UP"

Another MASSIVE LIE.
The truth is, if you are looking to attract a SUPERFICIAL woman who is only interested in her nails and her own EGO, then YUP, make sure to NOT get into anything deep.

But if you want a GREAT woman, then it's CRUCIAL to connect on a greater level!

She is in fact going to be LOOKING to see if you can do this. So for all you guys out there who have a lot of GREAT INTERESTS and who are intelligent, this is GREAT NEWS.

The key is to LAYER IN the playful vibes AS WELL, so that a woman can see that you have a RANGE of emotions that you can engage in with her, and not just be about one channel!

To achieve the MASTERY LEVEL with being able to meet, attract, and keep a great woman, I am reminded of something YODA told Luke Skywalker: "Unlearn, young one, unlearn".

You see, the greatest masters have realized that the REAL key is not to learn HYPNOSIS or to learn LINES, or to learn TACTICS, but rather to UNLEARN. To get DE-hypnotized as opposed to hypnotized.

Underneath all the layers and layers of BAD PROGRAMMING you have received from all kinds of external sources, including the HORRIFIC advice from the supposed "experts" you have something PERFECTLY POWERFUL, something magnificently CHARISMATIC, something UNSTOPPABLE that will PULL IN A GREAT WOMAN with INFINITE EASE. There will be NO EFFORT required once you learn this.

Cheers,
Michael

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