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7 Lies The Pickup Artists Tell You

Having trouble using PUA tactics? ... maybe they just aren't YOU

Get A Great Girl by Michael MarksAllow me to share with you SEVEN LIES spread by those who call themselves “pick-up artists”- these lies will DESTROY your potential with any quality woman:

LIE NUMBER 1:

"IF A WOMAN SEES YOU AS RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIAGE MATERIAL, THEN YOU WILL BE CONSIDERED A PROVIDER, A BETA MALE, AN "INFERIOR TYPE OF MALE" THAT IS ONLY GOOD FOR PROVIDING MONEY FOR HER.

Much better to be seen as the male who would NEVER settle down, who is "hard to get", who is a slick and COCKY "player" type - THAT is what triggers ATTRACTION."

And this my friends is a TOTAL LIE. A lie that has DESTROYED the future that millions of men could have had with the women they have met so far.

The truth is that you will only be considered a "BETA" male if you SEE YOURSELF AS A "BETA" MALE.

If your self-concept is BETA, then I assure you that you will be taken as a BETA male even if you have a huge SIGN on your forehead that says "WILL NEVER MARRY" or says "WILL NEVER SETTLE DOWN".

If YOU think that you are SETTLING for someone, if YOU think that you are only in a relationship because you can't get better, if YOU think that you are marrying someone because YOU have to, etc etc, THEN you are a beta male.

But when you LOVE someone and they LOVE you back and you both WANT to take something to a HIGHER level, then if you DON'T do it because some moronic "dating guru" or "pick up artist" told you not to, and you listen to THAT advice, then and only THEN would you be a "beta" male.

Giving in to PRESSURE FROM AN EXTERNAL source is what makes one WEAK and BETA. And THAT is what makes a woman feel REPULSED from a man and feel ZERO attraction for him and not want to spend the NIGHT or even one MINUTE with him, never mind her LIFE.

The irony again is that it's the pick up artist advice that makes you weak and THAT is the kind of thing that attracts the very WORST kind of women, who will like to TAKE ADVANTAGE of that weakness and see what they can take out of you.

And then we wonder why the pick up artists tell you to WATCH OUT FOR GOLDDIGGERS!!!

And "Watch out for women - they are UNFAITHFUL!"

Their advice creates weakness, which attracts the vulture type women rather than the VIRTUOUS ones. A great woman will simply leave you alone and not be interested, but a horrific woman will GRAVITATE toward the weak men- and pick up artist advice actually makes you WEAK.

LIE NUMBER 2:

"TO GET RESPECT FROM A WOMAN, YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE TO LEARN X, Y, OR Z TACTIC"

This is another MASSIVE lie.

To get RESPECT from a woman, you must first respect YOURSELF.

Don't EVER do anything that you feel is beneath your dignity, and you will get RESPECT from a woman.

The IRONY is that the things the pick up artists tell you to do actually strip you of your dignity because THEY worship women simply for a woman's looks- the OBSESSION with having to get QUANTITY rather than quality, the obsession with having to FAKE YOUR IDENTITY with all kinds of absurd tactics actually makes you ASHAMED of who you are, rather than LEARNING HOW TO TAKE PRIDE IN WHO YOU ARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It's INSANE!
And I will STOP this insanity.

Women want a man who has DIGNITY and will not SELL his dignity for ANYTHING.

LIE NUMBER 3:

"IF YOU DON'T WANT TO GET INTO THE FRIENDS ZONE, YOU BETTER MAKE SURE TO GET HER INTO BED REALLY FAST!"

The reality is that this is NONSENSE.

A great woman is not NEEDY to get into bed with anyone, no matter WHO you are.

And if she DETECTS that you are trying to get her into bed QUICK, she will only feel LESS trust for you, and she will BACK OFF faster than you can blink.

Now, of course, if you are with a woman who sleeps around with tons of guys, it might be another issue.

I'm talking about a great girl, not the trash.

Oh by the way, I forgot to mention, the pick up artists NEVER give you a serious talk about things like STD's.

NO, of course not.
It's just like the movies, and it's NOT REAL LIFE.

But in REAL life, you need to KNOW about this stuff. The REAL WORLD is not the DISNEY world of NO STDs that the pick up artists and "get all the girls" like you to BELIEVE it is.

They are BANKING on your IGNORANCE.

Why would you want to RUSH sleeping with a woman?

There are BILLIONS of women on this earth. More than you could ever sleep with.

Chill out and get to KNOW IF SHE IS WORTH spending time with.

The IRONY again is that you can't lose this way, as even if you WERE the type of guy that didn't care about quality, you could always get to know a lot of women this way and not rush, and THEN have a HUNDRED women at your fingertips if you so wanted. AND those women would be FAR MORE interested in you BECAUSE you truly were relaxed and not feeling needy to get them into bed- it makes THEM feel more relaxed and thus sexual with you as well!!!!!!!!!

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