When you cut to the chase with most guys,
what they suffer from is a lack of power – in order to get power, you
MUST know what you want. This is the first step.
Let me be honest with you, when I first got involved in learning the
very valuable material which exists for meeting women, I really wanted
to just be able to go out on any given night, and get laid.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with this, and I got to be incredibly
good at it.
The problem is, it didn't fix the problem. I still felt a great deal of
emptiness, and secretly knew that I wasn't really meeting the potential
I knew I had.
It was a “game” for sure, but I was only barely playing it, and nowhere
close to the mastering it.
What became clear to me was that I really didn't know what I wanted.
I needed to understand both what kind of dating lifestyle I wanted, and
then, what kind of woman (or women) I saw participating in this
lifestyle with me.
So, right now, ask yourself… what dating lifestyle are you looking for?
What do you want out of your relationships with women?
Do I want to get laid tonight?
Do I want the power of choice in meeting women?
Do I want to meet really hot women whenever I want?
Do I want to find a girlfriend that I can settle down with, and fall in
love (gasp)?
Do I want to get married?
Do I want ALL OF THESE?
What is it guys? Any of these are viable choices. The one thing that is
indisputable, from which there is no escape, is that you have to start
with YOU first.
Now that you know what lifestyle you want to build, let’s see what kind
of woman will fit into this lifestyle. Again, power comes from knowing
what you want. So, let’s be specific about the kind of woman you see
yourself with.
As an exercise, take out a pen and paper and list the aspects that you
desire in a woman. Then, write down the aspects that you definitely do
NOT desire – a list of what turns you off.
If you want a woman with black hair and green eyes, put it on the list.
If you want a woman who likes dogs, not cats, put that down.
Be specific as possible. Leave nothing out and continue to add to this
list over time.
From this, you now have a much stronger sense of what lifestyle you
desire, and then, the kind of women you want to be a part of this
lifestyle.
As a man who knows what he wants, you will come off more discriminating
with women; a key quality that will make women like you.
You will give off the aura of being the prize, being the challenge.
Armed with this knowledge, you will subconsciously make women work to
meet your standards.
After all who is attracted to a man that takes only what he can get?
This exercise always yields incredible results, as you now have actual
information to drive you forward.
You have to know what you want before you can choose who you wish to be
with.
As a caveat, it is important that you first be honest with yourself
about what you are seeking. It is also important that you be honest with
the women you become involved with. Nothing leads to bad karma like
masquerading as husband material when all you are looking for is sex.
Be honest with yourself and with others, and you’ll get what you want.
You can count on that.
For more on what you want, and how to get it, read my book How to Get a
Girlfriend: The Seven Essential Skills for Attracting the Woman of Your
Dreams.
Discover the easiest, fastest and most comfortable method for getting
fun loving, great-looking women (with long slender legs, provocative
breasts, gorgeous eyes, etc.) TO CHASE AFTER YOU.
Still, as always, backed by the, “I put my money where my mouth is” 100%
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As always, I wish you the best.
Your friend,
Stephen Nash