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Want to know why you are
unsuccessful with women? It might masquerade as shyness, nerves,
neediness, lack of style, bad breath, or body odor. Want to know the
It’s simple and it’s true…
Now, before you go and jump to conclusions, let’s accurately define
security. Then, let’s consider how this relates to being attractive.
Let’s also try to keep this simple, because this is a topic we cover at
length in our products and consultations which takes time to get
handled. Let me give you our definition of security:
“A willingness to accept myself as I am, strengths and weaknesses and
then the determination to work towards a healthy ideal for myself.”
A man who is secure realizes his weaknesses, and then addresses them.
Some weaknesses (better known as challenges) are tougher to handle than
others. A patient, deliberate effort may have to follow.
If a guy has bad breath, for example, is it because he just ate a dish
filled with garlic or does he suffer from gingivitis? If it’s the garlic
causing the problem, his problem is easily remedied by a bit of time and
some mouthwash. If he has gingivitis or halitosis, the challenge becomes
larger and will take more time to surmount. (Although, he should carry
some Cool Mint Listerine PocketPaks with him at all times)
A guy who is secure with himself likely never encounters a challenge
like bad breath, or if he does, he handles it right away.
An insecure guy will be too lazy to take the action, or will
unconsciously reject the reality that he has bad breath. His fragile
self-esteem will not accept the information, thus he continues to create
bad impressions on other people due to his own unwillingness.
This mini-example can translate to virtually any challenge which we
encounter through our lives. Most guys live lives that are so out of
balance, that a woman might initially like you, but when she eventually
sees the chaos that follows you around (whether it be bad breath,
flailing friendships, insecurity, lack of focus, endless hours surfing
the web, messy apartment, the list goes on…) she will never really see
you as a viable companion because she knows, intuitively, and
biologically, that you are not a man in the truest sense. You are not
someone who can provide security…thusly you are not attractive to her.
Here is where we separate the men from the
boys. The boys right now are thinking, “This is a load of BS. A bunch of
feel good jargon. This will never work for me.” They are right, it never
will until they decide to face their lives and live like a man.
A man sees this and realizes that it is time, now, to step up to the
plate and take responsibility. He sees that he can get what is
rightfully his. That time is now.