What my friends and I realized later was
that women of great beauty are rarely approached by men. The women
hardest to meet are, in fact, those that are a bit below the supermodel
level, women who are averagely attractive – call them an “7” or a “8”
(rating scales are crude, so forgive me).
Here we are talking about the hot “girl next door.”
They are less intimidating, and therefore more approachable by men.
Because they approached so often, they NEED to be the best at rejecting
men.
They are the ones who will throw tests at you as fast as a Roger Clemens
fastball.
Why?
They have had to learn how to deal with men trying to pick them up a
lot, and have developed an arsenal to defend themselves from guys only
interested in their bodies.
However, the “10”s of the world are already so fearsome to men, that
they tend to get off slightly easier. Of course, they have challenges in
different ways, but for now I encourage you to go for it and approach
them.
When (and if) you do, be sure not to fawn over their beauty or even
remark that they are attractive. This will instantly blow it for you, as
you become one of the many who are not able to get past their looks.
Instead, ask her something like this:
“Excuse me – I need female input on a debate my friends and I are having
– maybe you can help. In a relationship, what is more important to women
– romance or adventure?”
Presto – ask her this and she won’t think you are talking to her because
she is so gorgeous, but because she is nearby and female. Plus, it is an
interesting topic – women love talking about relationships.
From there, just engage her in playful conversation, and then lead her
into a more personal conversation. If you need help with that – our
7-day “Natural Attraction” program covers it ALL in detail. We cover
that, and a helluva lot more, there.
If you asked an extremely attractive woman what is it that most upsets
her about her beauty, it would probably be that people see her as a hot
body, rather than as a person.
So, remember – relax - and go for it. And when you do, be sure to talk
to the person and not the body!
Ask her questions, chit chat with her, tell her funny stories, probe her
opinions on subjects. Be interested in what she is saying rather than
her amazing figure. And besides, after approaching a super hot woman,
you get more than a few high fives and bragging rights from your
buddies.
Good luck! And, if you do approach a “10” today, pat yourself on the
back my friend. You just joined the smallest group of men on earth…those
willing to go for what they really want and deserve out of life!