The Secrets to Successful
Internet Dating
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Many guys nowadays are
going online to meet women. And why not? There are some great services
out there, and we have all heard too many success stories to downplay
the potential of meeting great women online.
For starters, the best online services are nerve.com, match.com and
lavalife.com. They are the best because they are the most popular. Being
the most popular, they give you the best choice.
If you are skeptical about online dating, join the club. But, before you
write it off completely, go to one of the above sites and do a free
search. That should convince you that there are many attractive women
who are looking for men online. So, why not try it out?
It is the social norm for men to approach women. So, if you are out at a
bar or club and you see an attractive woman, you will have to approach
her to meet her. Women typically don’t approach men in social settings.
They will signal their interest to you in many ways, but the actual
“move” will have to be made by you.
The beauty of internet dating is that it gives women a forum to indicate
what they want without it being embarrassing or socially “unacceptable”.
This helps to simplify things for men too – before you even send your
initial email, you know some things about her and what she is looking
for.
Let’s cover some of the basic musts to
successful internet dating:
1) The most important thing to have on your profile is good pictures.
This should be obvious. Initial attraction is so critical when beginning
a relationship. If it is not there, the two people will never come
together.
To give yourself a fighting chance, get some good pictures of yourself.
I am not talking about getting a pro photographer in tow, but rather
have a friend with a digital camera take 20-30 pictures of you. Pick out
three to four, and use them to launch your profile.
It’s a good idea to put up a variety of pictures, such as: one in a
suit, one dressed casually, one of you doing a hobby or conveying an
interest of yours. Also, make sure you are smiling. Don’t be one of
those guys that posts pics with his shirt off, or with Zoolander male
model face. Those are basically female-repellant. And please guys, don’t
make them pornographic – G-rated pictures only.
2) Next, you will have to send your initial email. This should be fairly
short, but needs to be both funny and insightful. In other words, be
sure to read her profile – let me repeat that – be sure to read her
profile! So many guys send out standard emails to women online, and it
is obvious to them that you have taken no time to read about her. If you
read the profile, can make a light joke out of something she reveals,
compliment her and share something in common, you have a strong chance
of hearing back from her.
3) A great place to be humorous is in the subject line. She is more
likely to open your email if it catches her attention. A great way to do
this is with a humorous remark about something in her profile. Be sure
to keep the humor lite, and never, NEVER, make fun of her picture.
4) As for the connection, be sure to quickly indicate that you have
things in common with her. This helps to alleviate her anxiety about
meeting you. If you have nothing in common, she will feel like there
will be nothing to talk about and the date will be awkward and
uncomfortable. For the purposes of the first contact, begin a
conversation with her by indicating that you share commonalities.
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