The “How to Get a Girlfriend”
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Ever been talking with a
woman, the conversation is rolling along, you are both laughing,
enjoying yourselves and then out of nowhere, the conversation begins
sinking faster than the Titanic!?
It begins as a numb feeling in the pit of your stomach which works its
way up your head.
Everything you think to say seems “wrong” as self-doubt and panic has
now taken over.
You start to fluster and begin a series of rapid fire, meaningless
questions to see if you can turn around this ever increasingly bad
You: So where did you get that bag?
Her: Huh? Oh… Fendi (as her eyes dart around the room trying to locate
You: Ummm… so where did you say you were from again?
If you don’t stop this downward spiral quickly, it’s going to be over
soon. And inevitably, the conversation has taken a detour to the point
of no return.
This situation usually concludes with an awkward silence, and her
“Well, I guess I better get back to my friends.”
“What the hell just happened?!?”; you ask yourself.
Reality has now hit like an atomic bomb. You definitely blew it.
Truthfully, this disaster might not have been your fault. You might have
been saying and doing all the right things. It could be that she
suddenly: got tired, needed to go to the bathroom, remembered that she
left the stove on, or that final ill-fated beer made it to her head –
hard to say my friend.
What we like to focus on and teach in our programs and products is
HAVING A PLAN FOR ALL CONTINGENCIES.
When a guy has a plan, he has a road map for driving the conversation
towards the goal of getting a phone number, date, etc…
With a solid plan in place, chances are you can steer clear of any
predictable problems. But at no point can you risk allowing the
conversation to turn negative or boring. Be aware of when things start
to turn sour and then get the interaction back to your plan FAST.
The following is a plan of action that can get any hopeless conversation
back on track instantly.
The formula here is to stop the current thread of conversation and
quickly say or do something which lets you make the save and continue on
as if nothing happened.