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The First Step To Finding & Keeping An Incredible Girlfriend

Share Your Passion to Attract Women

The number one thing that keeps a woman by your side and attracted to you is when you have a passion about something that you share with her and she gets what it’s all about and wants to participate in the joy you get from your goal of discovery.

Maybe you like to sail and you spend a lot of time on the water. If she’s not into it then after a while she will drift away while you enjoy being out on the lake or ocean.

Now, I’m not talking about something you like to do, a lot of guys like to watch football. But if you’re a diehard fan, complete with shirts, banners, going to games and maybe even face- and body painting, then she has to live that part of your life with you or she will find another way (and maybe another guy) to spend the time while you’re out doing your own thing.

How Guys Screw This Up

The woman you want wants to share things with you, it’s more than spending time with you she is able to take joy from the same place you do.

Amazingly a lot of guys screw up this potential to attract and impress women because they concentrate on either something that can’t possibly involve a woman and still expect her to understand why you find it so exciting or they don’t know what they really like, what being passionate about something really means, so they just drift from one thing to another, confusing the woman in their life because she doesn’t know what to expect next from her man.

Your Passion Discovery Will help You Find Her

If you’re not certain what your passion is yet don’t worry, you have it inside you waiting to come out and be fulfilled (unless you’re too lazy to take the next steps.)

Ask questions of those around you, family, friends and co-workers about when they see you most excited and talkative about something. These clues will help you to create a list of the things that others notice you doing with vigor that can translate into discovering what you are passionate about.

When you have your list completed decide on one or two things to pursue with greater intensity.

You’re going to find that the women you are seriously attracted to (and will be intrigued and attracted to you) also share your zest for these things. Having this common ground will move you forward in the world of dating and women like no other personal exercise can.

Sharing your passion is like drawing bees to honey, women just can’t resist a dedicated man that has goals that can be shared and enjoyed together.

The hardest part is always getting started on the road to self-discovery and self-improvement. Learning about yourself, your strengths and weaknesses, and getting help with your weaknesses so you can improve your strengths must be your new-found goal if you really want to have success with women.

I hope you found this article enlightening and that it puts you on the road of discovering your place in this world and how to attract women with the talents you didn’t know you have. To read more like this go here.


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