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Simon Heong,
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Have you ever noticed this?
Whenever a guy is with an attractive woman, he would naturally want to
attract her attention. Nothing new, right?
You will then notice, if she's really a 'hot' one, the guy will not only
want to attract her attention, but he'll also want to try to impress her
in whatever way he can.
He might be thinking that he wants to be different from the other guys.
And what will he do? Well, even though his mindset is right, I would say
that most likely, without him realizing it, he won't he will do the
obvious.
He'll be nervous as hell. He will naturally tend to talk faster, more
abruptly, fidget & move about more, etc when he's with her.
Notice that some guys will even have their own little
interview/conversation preview thing going on in their head.
They'll have sort of like these pre-set questions that they'll be ever
so ready to pound the girl with; lame questions ie. "how old are you,"
"where are you from", "what do you like doing in your free time," "how's
is your mom doing," "how's your dad doing?"
Know what I'm talking about?
They'll just keep asking these questions non-stop thinking that this
will actually keep the conversation going but honestly, don't you think
an attractive woman gets asked the same 'ol questions all the time?
Same goes with the age old concept of being the nice guy who's there for
her all the time, who does all the sweet things for her, buying her
gifts and doing all those stuff that your parents normally teaches their
kids on dating.
Now, don't you think that 90% of guys do the exact same thing all the
time?
You see, when you do this, she can basically sense that you're being
needy and insecure. Why do I say needy?
'Needy' because it gives her the impression that you need to do certain
things; you need to practically 'work' your way to impress her.
It also projects a sign of weakness in your part. That you're just
insecure about yourself.
Trust me, doing so will seem way too 'normal' for them. They won't stick
around when they sense this. And women are extremely good in their
intuition. I can't really explain why. Nor can they. But it's just
something that they can just feel.
So, what's the best way to spark the attraction with women then?
Simple. Do the UNEXPECTED. Do the unpredictable that catches their
attention.
For example, in this case, what you can do is to project a lack of
interest in the girl whether or not she's there.
You see, I'm here telling you that it's perfectly OK to have relaxed
moments of silences when you're with the girl.
It's ok if you have nothing to say sometimes. Often times what you
should in fact do is to project a very laid back, relaxed, and confident
air about yourself when you're with her.
You must project to her that you're really comfortable with your own
self first and not just looking to pick up someone, and to impress
someone.
You have to show it to her that you don't need to impress her. She'll
have to be the one to do the impressing.
Think of it this way, if she's a real attractive woman, she probably
gets 'hit on' at least 3-5 times a day, EVERYDAY.
I know for a fact that these guys will most likely act the same pathetic
way and will try to impress like the rest of the pack.
She knows it and it eventually becomes HER reality. She has become used
to having guys hit on her.
Now, if you suddenly come along and act as if you're not intimidated by
her beauty, and you just act as if you're not one bit interested in
her...
... and you just might not even acknowledge of her existence at times.
Imagine how things have changed now?
When she most EXPECTS you to hit on her, you don't. Don't you think
she'll even take a little notice of then?
Think about this. It's some powerful stuff.
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