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Simon Heong,
Author:
"How To Create Instant Attraction With ANY Woman"
"If you want to be
truly successful with women, you've got to learn ways to
create instant attraction
with women"
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The first step to becoming successful with women is this:
Learn to have basic conversational skills.
You MUST be able to talk to anyone at anytime, at anywhere.
As simple as it may sound, this should be the first step you MUST simply
master. And WHY must you do this?
Well, think about it: if you're able to literally talk to anyone AS and
WHEN you like, don't you think you'll subconsciously be improving your
social conversational skills with people in general?
The idea for you to do so is so that you become more COMFORTABLE talking
to people.
That's it.
Forget whether it's with a guy or a girl for the moment. Just make
'talking to people' second nature for you.
If you're shy with the girls, then a good place to start is with the
guys - especially the guys who are already great with the ladies.
Use them as practice. Seriously.
Think about it, common sense tells you if you can't even feel
comfortable talking to guys, what makes you think you'll be better off
with the girls?
You can learn A LOT from these so-called 'players' as well.
Remember, the fastest way for you to become great with women is to MODEL
after those who are ALREADY achieving the success that you want with
women at the moment.
I have explained this technique in great detail inside my book.
You see, once you're comfortable talking with the guys, then you can
start moving forward and try talking to the girls instead.
Remember: make GRADUAL improvements on a daily basis.
Think about it: If you can gradually improve your conversational skills
by a mere 1% each day CONSISTENTLY, by the very end of the month, your
conversational skills would have improved by a whopping 30%!
NEVER underestimate the power of gradual improvement!
The next key step is for you to TAKE ACTION.
Can you imagine how much more fun your life would be if you'll be able
to just walk up and talk to any girl that you like?
With this skill in hand, you'll be able to mess around with any girl you
choose, anywhere you like!
It could be just be the sales girl from your local shopping mall, to the
waitress who serves you coffee, to even the girl sitting next to you in
the bus stop!
Here's something you should also know when it comes to talking to women.
Most guys tend to try TOO HARD when they're talking to a woman -- a
beautiful one especially.
They'll tend to be way too accommodating, friendly & 'complimentary' to
the her which is exactly the OPPOSITE way that most 'alpha males' should
be doing.
This is also EXACTLY the way that 90% of guys would be when they're
talking to a woman which is wrong, wrong, WRONG!
What you SHOULD be doing in fact, is to NOT project that vibe that
you're trying TOO HARD to gain their attention.
Remember: Be DIFFERENT.
For examples on how to be indifferent, it's all discussed in great
detail in my book.
You see, most guys, especially the shy ones, they tend to be too afraid
in trying something funny or something cool especially if its with a
beautiful woman.
My question for you is this?
What's the worst that could happen to you if you did?
But before we go into that, let me tell you this, and this
really is a FACT. More often than not, the worst things that
you would normally think off, will most likely NOT happen at
all!
It's just your mind playing silly old tricks on you, that's it.
Now, worst case scenario is even if you DID fall flat on your face, at
least you did something DIFFERENT, unlike the 99 other losers that said
the same lame, over-accommodating lines that she's so accustomed to all
along.
You see, if you really want to be great with women, you must be a super
'ALPHA' bloke -- a guy who's NOT afraid to speak his mind AND do the
right thing in any given situation and be the leader of the pack.
Not be all wimpy and accommodating and stuff.
Get it? Think about it -- then go out and DO it. You'll SEE the
difference right away. And you can thank me later, ok?
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[About
the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the Dating & Seduction
Online Best Seller, the "Instant Attraction Program" -- the community's
MOST COMPREHENSIVE program revealing the most intimate secrets on female
attraction techniques and dating strategies.
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