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Simon Heong,
Author:
"How To Create Instant Attraction With ANY Woman"
"If you want to be
truly successful with women, you've got to learn ways to
create instant attraction
with women"
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Here's the mindset you should have if you really want to be successful
when it comes to dating and meeting women.
Firstly, take all the things that your mom & dad ever taught you about
how to treat and date a woman and do the exact OPPOSITE!
It's not a secret anymore that even though a woman constantly says that
all she wants is a nice, sweet, and caring guy in their life, often
times they're actually lying to themselves without them even realizing
it!
It's true! Seriously.
In the movies, yes, the girl always falls for the nice guy, but in real
life, especially more so if you really want to be able be with as many
women as possible in your lifetime. The nice guy route will get you
nowhere and you'll end up getting nothing but rejections.
I'm not going to go into the details on the 'why' part of it because
most of you might have already know about it. Just in case you still
don't know why, you can read and listen all about it here in my newly
released "Instant Attraction Program"
But what I AM going to talk about today is why do women, especially
attractive ones can act rather 'bitchy' and rude sometimes and how you
can effectively pick up one with ease.
First of all, you have to understand that attractive women, they get
'hit on' one way or another at least 10 times a day everyday,
consistently.
Now at first it may all seem happy and nice with them receiving all the
attention from the guys, and sure they can be all cutesy and polite to
them whenever they're being approached but after a while, it all tends
to get rather irritating and annoying, merely because they're hearing
the same old lines, shouts and pervert stares over and over again.
Exact words from a woman's mouth - not mine.
So what they do about it?
Well in order for them to 'save time', they would then be 'forced' to be
more 'to the point' or as we like to call it 'bitchy' to the guys that
approach them.
Why must they be so mean?
Simply because they HAVE to.
You see, if they weren't mean enough, guys who are usually thick-skinned
will not get the point and they'll keep on pursuing UNTIL she says a
firm no.
Makes sense?
How do I know this? Well, to be honest with you, it was merely by
chance. I didn't get any of it at first until I started to really mix
with women.
Sometimes, it's really good to have close girl friends because you might
learn a LOT from them. I now begin to see it all from THEIR perspective
now.
How to approach a woman?
Now, I've noticed that most guys (the majority of them actually),
whenever they approach a woman, they always start off by saying
something like 'Hi there, you're gorgeous, oh by the way, my name's
John, what's yours? I'd like to get to know you, bla bla bla..."
Heard of such a line before?
Or probably something along these lines?
Now, think about it. If you're a girl and you get asked the same
question about 5-10 times a day, do you think that there's a high chance
that you'll get immune to it?
Of course you would!
And I'm not guessing here because I had a girl friend who once told me
the same thing that I'm telling you now! It's just too 'typical' for
them to receive such lame, everyday 'pick up' lines.
Best thing is, do you know instead what they would rather hear?
Try this:
Go up to her, and just give her a funny compliment on something she
LEAST expects to get a compliment on (NEVER compliment her looks, she's
immune to that, remember?), you can compliment on her funky hairstyle,
her heels, her big ears -- anything.
Just as long as its something she LEAST expects to hear from a guy.
Using humor is always good in picking up women. Humor added with a bit
of spunk, along with a spot-on sarcastic tone and body language will
definitely seal the deal for you and get her interested.
Surely. Think about it. This works.
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[About
the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the Dating & Seduction
Online Best Seller, the "Instant Attraction Program" -- the community's
MOST COMPREHENSIVE program revealing the most intimate secrets on female
attraction techniques and dating strategies.
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