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5 Reasons Why Men Get Rejected

"How To Create Instant Attraction With ANY Woman" Program by Simon Heong Simon Heong, Author: "How To Create Instant Attraction With ANY Woman"

"If you want to be truly successful with women, you've got to learn ways to create instant attraction with women"
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If you're tired of not getting the girl, you might want to take a look at how you're speaking to women and just what it is you're saying to them.

Your looks are only going to get you so far and since first impressions are everything, your conversational skills will be the determining factor in whether or not a woman agrees to go on a date with you.

If you've ever wondered why women keep telling you no, the following article will shed some light on the common flirting mistakes you have been making and how you can avoid them from now on.

Mistake #1: Talking 'serious' around women

Chances are you didn't catch her eye by being Mister Serious. You were probably laughing and joking around (in other words, being yourself) with your friends. But, when you walk up to her, you think she wants to see that you are composed, sophisticated, and you can carry a mature conversation.

Solution -- Be yourself. Don't be afraid to open with a crazy question that one of your friends just asked you. If she laughs, you're in. You don't need to walk up to her and pretend that you have it 'together.'

Don't try to be something you are not -- most women can see right through it.

Mistake #2: Asking boring questions

So, what do you do for work?


If you want to shoot down your chance of moving past the handshake, then keep firing off the 'Top 20 Small Talk Questions to Ask When Meeting Someone New.'

It works at Christmas parties and church picnics, but not when you are trying to get the phone number of the hottie in the coffee shop.

Solution -- Ask questions that demand more than a one-word or one sentence answer. Ask questions that might reveal something about that person. Ask questions that challenge (but certainly not insult) a person.

That is how REAL conversation is started.

Mistake #3: Communicating too directly

"I'll call you tomorrow around lunch time..."

STOP, what you are doing, and leave a little bit to the imagination.
Telling her every little thing takes the game out of it -- for both of you.

Men constantly give away too much when they talk to women, and it works to their disadvantage. Provide too much information, and it might just be more than she wants to hear.

Solution -- Listen more, talk less. Don't give away the details.

Women are naturally attracted to the chase, so you might as well give it to her. They cannot resist wondering... "When is he going to call... Is he going to call... ??"

Mistake #4: Letting the conversation drag


This is one of the most commonly committed errors by men -- talking too long and trying desperately to keep this hot chick in front of you for as long as possible.

Until, of course, the conversation starts to lag and you find yourself toeing the floor in front of you, repeating things that were funny at the beginning of the conversation, and then finally the dreaded 10 seconds of silence before saying... OK, well I'll give you a call.

You know what I am talking about.

Solution -- When you get to the peak of a conversation, leave. I don't mean just walk away in mid-sentence, but while both of you are talking and laughing, just casually look at your watch and say something like, "Oh, sorry... I've got to meet a friend in about 10 minutes..."

Note: Leave with phone number in hand (or at least make sure she has yours).

Mistake #5: Sucking up too much

You're so pretty. I love your smile.

Awwww... that's so nice, but she doesn't give a damn. Interestingly, most women (especially the super-attractive ones) react more favorably to teasing rather than sucking up.

Sucking up doesn't give you the backbone, and certainly doesn't exude the confidence you need to land the girl.

Solution -- Get a backbone and make this girl realize that she isn't going to bowl you over with looks alone.

Stick out your tongue, or comment on something in her teeth. You give the impression that your standards might just be a little higher than hers... she'll be intrigued to say the least... and she won't exactly know why.

If you haven't already noticed, the stuff you're learning here is directly the OPPOSITE of what you see, listen and learn anywhere else; be it in the media, the dating advice portals, what your moms, pops and your friends tell you.

Yes, I don't deny those 'advice' that you get outside works...
it DID work... 20 YEARS AGO.

It's now the new millenium and the dating scene has evolved DRAMATICALLY... people change... WOMEN change and what they look for in a man changes too.
"How To Create Instant Attraction With ANY Woman" Program by Simon Heong
Now, if you don't 'keep up' with the times, and if you still don't understand the process of how to make women feel tingly, magical feelings of 'attraction' for you, including the mistakes you must AVOID doing, then *surprise* *surprise* -- you're not going to be very successful at it.

On the other hand, if you're sick and tired of being blown off, rejected and passed off by women around you and want to TRANSFORM yourself to BE the type of man women dreamed of having ALL THEIR LIVES, download this:

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[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "Instant Attraction Program" -- the community's MOST COMPREHENSIVE program revealing the most intimate secrets on female attraction techniques and dating strategies.

Copyright (c) 2007 Simon Heong All rights reserved.



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