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Falling In Love Over The Internet

by Ernie Rohrbacher, M.A.S.C. (NLP)

Similarly, a man looks for and wants certain things from a woman, and these are listed below in Tables 5 and 6.

TABLE 5: Why a man falls in love
(summarised version from Light His/Her Fire)

Why A Man Falls In Love

* He feels strong
* He feels that the woman is interested in him
* He feels he is worthy and capable
* He feels he is needed and special
* He feels more intelligent and knowledgeable
* He feels sexier
* He feels recognised for who he is, his intents, and needs
* He feels accepted
* He feels understood

TABLE 6: What a man wants from a woman
 (summarised version from Light His/Her Fire)

What A Man Wants From A Woman

* To be number 1 in your life
* To feel accepted for who he is
* To feel appreciated
* To feel admired
* To feel understood

Dr John Gray, in his book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, quite conveniently summarises the different emotional needs of men and woman. He states that we all have these love needs yet it’s the order in which they are received that is different.

For example, looking at the table below, as a general rule, a man needs trust first, whereas a woman needs caring. We all want these 12 emotions fulfilled, and it’s the order and sequence that varies.

Below in Table 7, is the summary, of Dr John Gray’s book, Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, the emotional needs differences between Men and Women.

TABLE 7: What women and men need to receive
(summarised version from Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus)

Women need to receive Men need to receive
  1. Caring
  2. Understanding
  3. Respect
  4. Devotion
  5. Validation
  6. Reassurance
  1. Trust
  2. Acceptance
  3. Appreciation
  4. Admiration
  5. Approval
  6. Encouragement

Men are usually more guarded in their communication with others than women and thus takes them longer to open up fully.

Continued in the next article.

Ernie Rohrbacher MASC (NLP)

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