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And here are a couple of
poems, which unfortunately I don’t know where they come from, yet I feel
are lovely….
Broken Dreams
As children bring their broken toys
With tears for us to mend
I brought my broken dreams to God
Because he was my friend.
But instead of leaving him
In peace to work alone
I hung around and tried to help
With ways that were my own.
At last I snatched them back and cried
“How can you be so slow?”
“My child,” he said, “What could I do?
You never let them go.”
~Author unknown~
What Have I Learned?
Am I where I wish to be?
What titles have I earned?
What truths do I now know to be?
What lessons have I learned?
Have I learned compassion
Yeah just like the prophets teach?
Or have I yet to walk the talk
And practice what I preach?
Have I learned forgiveness
At those times I feel attacked?
Have I learned to walk away
Or must I still fight back?
Have I learned that fairness
Means “it’s not always about me?”
Or do I only take from life
And give back grudgingly?
Have I learned that justice
And that vengeance aren’t the same?
Or do I think that victims’ hearts
Are soothed when they can blame?
Have I learned to share my gifts
And know that there’ll be more?
Or do I think what’s mine is mine
And vilify the poor?
Have I learned that ethics
Matter most when I’m alone?
Or am I seeking praise
When all my moral deeds are known?
Have I learned in life
That things will sometimes go awry?
Or confronted with life’s stresses
Do I throw a fit and cry?
So, am I who I say I am?
There’s just one way to know:
Put me to the test and
See what colours start to show.
Have you watched the movie
Sweet November, starring Keanu Reeves and Charlize Theron? If not, I
thoroughly recommend you go and watch it. It’s a wonderful movie. In it,
Keanu says to Charlize….
‘I live for one thing….
to love you.’
I would like to end this
section with an area that may not be directly related to Love as such,
although it is about having that feeling of connection with someone and
comes from the area of Psychoneuroimmunology. On Australia’s TV Good
News Week Comedy Debate, ‘Science Should Get Out Of Our Genes,’ Jean
Kittson mentions that an experiment was done with a man where they used
a small file and scraped a little of his saliva and put it 50 metres
away from him. The experiment revealed that cells are still connected to
us even if no longer inside us. They showed the man a scary video where
he was clenching his seat and the saliva showed signs of distress.
They then did this with the saliva 50 kilometers away and got the same
results.
What does this say? I have given so many things personally and via the
post to both Deb and Alla. Now knowing the above information, is it any
wonder why both Deb and Alla could pick up on my vibes constantly? How
this relates to me feeling Deb and Alla and having nothing from them and
also feeling Darlene, and also having nothing physical from her, I don’t
know. I thought it was an interesting and a fascinating thing to think
about, and mention anyway. I guess one thing I am saying is that if you
want someone to sense your vibes, give or send them something, and see
what happens.
OK. That's it for the first chapter.
Ernie Rohrbacher MASC (NLP)
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In Chapter 1, we talk in detail about love; what is love; the 4 main
levels of Consciousness; the 7 E’s of Love; the two driving forces of
all our behaviour; how emotion is passed on over the Internet; what
causes people to fall in love; what men and women look for and want from
each other; as well as the other 6 emotional needs we all have that need
to be fulfilled.
In Chapter 2, we define and talk about Neuro Linguistic Programming
(NLP) and give a brief history; how we filter and perceive our
experience; some basic presuppositions of NLP; and finally a short goal
setting workshop, for those who are wishing to attract their dream mate,
or improve their current relationship.
Chapter 3 explains how we use our 5 senses, called Modalities, to
experience our environment; what sub-modalities are and how they are the
bar-code to the meanings we take of the experiences we receive; the
connection between where we move our eyes to which of the five senses we
are accessing; and then how this is shown in our language, as well as
how it relates to Love.
In Chapter 4, we find the motivating forces behind someone’s behaviour,
known as our Values, and how obstacles may arise when these differ
between people. We discover in what direction they are going and if they
are moving towards or moving away from a situation; we define beliefs
and how they affect our lives, including the quality of our
relationships. Then we learn what Rules are, and how Rules are the
source of all our emotions, as well as how all conflicts between people
is a Rules conflict. And at the end of the chapter, we talk about the 5
Love Strategies. Once we know our mates love strategy, we can ignite
that emotion in them at any time we please, which is exciting.
Chapter 5 deals in great detail about different language patterns. We
learn how some words are more useful than others in creating a
connection with someone. We discover hypnotic language patterns and what
trance is. We learn about how we think and communicate in different
levels ranging from general to specific and how this relates to
communication in relationships. And much more.
In Chapter 6, we talk about Anchoring and Conditioning and how this is
useful in relationships in terms of positive emotions.
In Chapter 7, we deal with the frames we put around our experience and
how by altering the frame can widen our perception and understanding as
well as allow us to feel more positive. We talk about Content and
Context reframes and how to use them effectively.
Chapter 8 is probably one of the main topics of this book, which is
Rapport. We see what rapport is; how to establish it, and how to know
when we have achieved it. Then we briefly talk about time lines and how
it helps shape our personality and character. And then we finally share
about the Content filters we use, and how all this relates to gaining
rapport with someone.
Chapter 9 briefly explains about humour and other emotions and how it
relates to relationships.
And in Chapter 10, we find out what to do and how to begin with what we
have learnt. You will see what I did with Alla to feel connected with
me, and how you may do the same with your partner, using a step by step
procedure.
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