What One Reason Did She Dump You For?
If you’re wondering, “Can I get my ex girlfriend back?” then the breakup probably wasn’t so devastating that you think the relationship can’t be repaired.
If any hurting words or actions was made during the split that you should apologize for, now is the time to say you’re sorry. Being sorry and sincerely showing that you are is a good first step.
Can I get my ex girlfriend back by showing my sensitive (feminine) side?
Well, there’s no guarantee you’ll get back together any time soon, but the odds tilt more and more in your favor when you do things right to fix the breakup right.
Show her how much you miss her by giving her time but also letting her know you miss her, and how sorry you are. Just pay attention to what she does without you. If your gestures of sorrow only make her angry—she throws away the roses or something dramatic like that, for example—change your tactics until you find that something she responds to nicely.
If flowers or cards frustrate her, for example, maybe that’s because it’s easy to pick up the phone and order flowers or buy a card someone else wrote. Try putting yourself in her place and figure out something more appealing to her. Buy a blank card and write your own verses in it (even a ,love story about how you both met is a great start!). It doesn’t have to rhyme, in fact it’s better if it doesn’t. Try to honestly express how you feel, in your own words. Or go out to your garden or a public park where people are allowed to pick flowers, real flowers, and present her with a bouquet you put together yourself.
A common complaint among women is that the guy they broke up with wasn't thoughtful. Were you thoughtful during the relationship? Now you might be wondering, can I get my ex girlfriend back by starting to be more thoughtful? Not necessarily, but it’s one more positive step toward your goal of getting her back. Every positive thing stacks up, making it easier and easier for her to return to a relationship with you. Don’t expect things to happen right away, though.
If you spent your relationship rarely doing thoughtful things, or you only did them in the beginning and let them taper off through being more comfortable with her, she’ll probably doubt the things you do now. Just be patient, and keep your efforts going. Don’t appear to her to be frustrated or angry. Do these thoughtful things because it feels good to make her happy, not because you’re working toward a goal that she might not right now appreciate.
Can I get my ex girlfriend back by dating other women?
If it’s been a long time since the breakup, and you’re still working on being thoughtful, a casual date seems harmless and may make her wish she was your date, but by going too far it could backfire on you.
Can I get my ex girlfriend back if she now has another boyfriend?
The odds are against getting her back, but if you can show her that she’ll be happier with you than her new boyfriend you’ll have a good chance. Being thoughtful will go a long way toward showing her that. Even if it seems hopeless, don’t give up.
If it appears she’s moved on, still send her a card you wrote just wishing her a great week or something innocent without bringing your hurt feelings into it. But don’t look as if you have any expectations. Your thoughtfulness might really impress her.
One other thing, my friend, about the points made above, are only just one step in the equation of getting your true love back. The important thing is to have a step by step plan that will lead you in your heartfelt pursuit.
When my cause was almost hopeless and I was dieing inside, it hauled me up by my bootstraps and helped me get my life's love back. It's called "The Magic of Making Up" and you can check it out here.