7 Basic Strategies You Need To Follow
you lost your boyfriend, and are now asking for help on "how to get
my ex back when he's moved on" with his life?
Don't bother moping around, because what
you are without right now does not mean you have lost it forever.
Here are some
quick and simple tips and strategies for learning how to get your ex-boyfriend back even if
he has moved on to another woman and no longer appears to be
interested in dealing with you.
- The first step to getting your dream guy back is finding
a way to convince him that he still wants you. Unless he really,
really does not want anything to do with you, then there are a
number of options that you can employ from this point on. And you
should behave as if you want him back but you're Ok with his
decision to split up. This is giving him time to understand his own
desires for you.
- One of the most advantageous things that you can do is simply to
be his friend. Make a really good friend to him, showing him that
you understand him and that you can be around him without creating
any drama from your past relationship and new friends. Show him that you can joke around with him and have a
healthy friendship with him. When the drama and stress of the
relationship and breakup have subsided, he may realize that he wants
you again. This often happens because he has wrapped up a lot of his
future dreams with you in them, but now just can't think of them
anymore. Being his friend, with all this inside info of how he wants
to live his life, is a great way to teach you how to behave around
him to get him back.
- When you communicate with your ex boyfriend, be sweet and kind
to him but don't be afraid to have a little bit of attitude.
Don't be a slave to the one goal of getting him back. You are
going to want him to want you, but you're also going to want to give
him the feeling that he cannot return to a relationship with you just yet. While playing
these standoffish games is not the best way to go, you do not want
to give an air of being hard
to get and then not making him more interested in the way you are
- You should be playing a little bit hard to get, but you also
want to make sure that he knows you are available. You shouldn't
completely rule out the concept of flirting and hanging out with
friends, because drumming up a little bit of jealousy never hurt
anyone. But it is important that you play this jealousy game safely because if he
doesn't think you are available, he probably will not find the
inner motivation to pursue you again.
- Avoid acting desperate around him and his
friends at all costs. If you act desperate, your
ex boyfriend will under estimate your value to him as a person that
he wants to b with. Don't be an easy catch with unresolved issues
surrounding the breakup. You are going to want to play
things cool, letting him know that you are okay with everything that
has happened, and that you are willing to move on, away from him, if
he is. If you act
desperate, needy and clingy, then things won't work out the way you are intending them to,
so don't behave like this at all costs.
- Any time that you know he is looking at you, or if you feel like
he is looking at you, look at him out of the corner of your eye,
This sidelong glance will let him know that you are paying attention
to him, but in a mysterious "you can't have me" kind of way.
This draws attention to the fact that you can be without him, and
still make him want you across a room. It's a great strategy to
getting him to want you back when you are at the same places at the
- If you find yourself in a conversation with him,
casually remind him of some of the best times that you have had
together. These fun memories will help him to remember how good the
two of you used to be together. Don't bring up any bad events,
because it will only hurt on his bad ("I want to stay broken up with
you") side, which will not help to get him back.
As you can tell these are simple and down to earth,
real life suggestions which
provide a few of the steps for learning "how to get my ex
back when he's moved on".
Once again, follow your heart but use your brain to
discover other steps which could be effective in your particular
The Magic of Making Up by T Dub will help you put into motion the plan to get them back!