4 things to watch for in his behavior around you
Almost every woman has experienced a powerful relationship in their life, and then suddenly your relationship, which seems to be so perfect, is broken off because your boyfriend wants his space.
There are a number of different reasons for why a boyfriend may suddenly need some space, some time apart from you, including family problems, insecurities, or a fear of commitment just to name a few.
Here are some tips for answering the age old "how to get my ex back" question if your ex boyfriend needs more space but you are still in love with him.
The first thing is to play a little bit hard to get at first, in order to show him that yes, it was his loss and not your own.
- If you are feeling like your ex boyfriend still has feelings for you, then it may be ideal for you to strike up a conversation with him. Keep communication to a minimum in order to keep the level of drama to a minimum. Short text messages, brief phone calls and online conversations in passing are all a great way to remind him how much he wants to be a part of your life without overwhelming him with your presence when he may actually want and need space. Remember, short is the key here... don't start a soap opera of gossip just to keep talking with him.
- Eventually he will begin to show significant interest in you again if all goes well, and this will give you the chance to truly begin to reminisce with him of what you did have when you were together. Keep in mind that you should focus primarily on all of the good memories associated with your relationship in the past. While rekindling a relationship with your ex boyfriend, you are going to want to stay away from the bad experiences and negative experiences in case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.
- If your boyfriend is not responding to your slow and subtle advances, you need to take it for what it is. Either he just really is not interested in you right now, or he really does just need his space and you should give that to him. But if, on the other hand, he seems to be interested in you more than before, or is slowly warming up to you again, then you should continue gradually advancing on him to rekindle the relationship. No hard and fast pressure needed here. Slow and steady keep the communication and contact channels open.
- If your ex boyfriend is giving you the right "Let's get back together" signals, you can try to open your heart up to him. Let him know how you feel, but avoid looking desperate or needy or clingy in the process. If your ex is showing you that he is thinking about starting things up again, then it would be to your advantage to be open with him. But if his signals are pointing in the other direction, it may be wiser to step back and let things happen more slowly.
These are just the beginning steps in winning your Ex back.
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