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My question is
how do I take things further when meeting women on line?
*** Question from a subscriber ***
Hey Dave!
I'm finally starting to "get it". It took a long time (lots of your
articles read, I read your e-book), but one night it just clicked, and
I'm now starting to get some e-mail/phone numbers. And I'm getting the
tea/coffee first meeting dates going.
I had one amazing realization today - whenever I DON'T get an initial
meeting after getting the e-mail, I don't do what I used to which is get
depressed, find fault in myself, and figure I'll never get anybody.
Now, since I'm
working on this next step of getting the initial meeting, I just see it
as a recipe.
Maybe with girl
"A" I was too C and not enough F. Maybe with girl "B" I'm not making her
feel comfortable enough of meeting at my place.
I realized that
with practice I'll get the mix right and be able to turn any e-mail into
an initial date. That new mindset has taken a LONG time to get to and
it's mostly due to your info. Thanks!!
Question: Tonight's first date went really well!
I was "almost too
comfortable" and was totally calm and cool. Poked fun at her, never
answered any questions directly, and I didn't sit around worrying about
whether or not she liked me. And I could almost tangibly feel the
attraction being amplified!!!
But I found out
during the date that she's a single mom. Now I personally don't like to
date single moms for various reasons - not even for a one-night stand (a
lot of guys disagree and that's cool - this is my own thing). Could you
suggest a way to ask this prior to the first date? Perhaps it's my own
limiting belief, but it seems that by asking this, I'm implying that I'm
looking at her as possible long-term material.
Thanks a lot and everybody reading this: BUY THE CD'S....THEY ROCK!!!
R.
DAVID Dangelo
Replies:
Well, thanks for the shameless advertising plug... I really appreciate
it. No, really.
OK, you've asked a VERY interesting question. It's interesting not
because of the content of the actual question... but more because of
what it SAYS about you and what you're thinking. When you say "Can you
tell me how to ask a woman if she has kids before a first date?" it
implies that you think that there's something wrong with just coming out
and asking it.
It's like you're saying "Well, I know that I can't just ASK her if she
has kids... so can you tell me some cool trick to get her to spill it
without me having to ask?". Well guess what?
THIS IS A PROBLEM.
It's not necessary to use trickery when you want to know something about
a woman. If you want to know if a woman has kids, then you need to ASK.
Say "Hey, do you have any kids?". If she says "Yes", then say "Great.
I'm really looking for a woman who doesn't have any kids, but we can be
friends".
Let's use a different example.
Let's say you've placed a personal ad online.
Let's say that a cute woman replies.
Let's say that she sends you a picture... but it only shows her face...
and you're only interested in women who are slim. Now, you probably
would write to me and ask me to give you some slick way to get her to
share how much she weighs with you without having to ask.
Wrong idea.
Just email her and say "Hey, how tall are you and how much do you weigh?
I really prefer women who are slim. Let me know...".
That's it.
Think about it.
If she IS slim, she'll tell you, and probably be glad that you were up
front with her and direct. If she ISN'T slim, she'll be glad you told
her now and didn't waste her time. I think that your problem is probably
rooted in insecurity, and caring too much what other people think of
you.
...by the way... it's NOT OK to say "Hey, I really HATE FAT CHICKS... so
tell me now, because if you're fat I'm going to bail...". That's not
cool.
If you act like an adult and expect others to act like adults, you'll do
well with women. If you pussy-foot around the issue (a perfect term for
you and this) you'll wind up trying to do things that waste everyone's
time. If you're up front, direct, and not caring what other people think
of you, then you're going to make women respond more powerfully.
Guaranteed.
Oh, and GREAT JOB getting your act together with women. You're doing
very well, keep it up. And feel free to promote my materials anytime you
want in the future.
To sum up:
Meeting young, “model-beautiful” women is often EASIER online
than in real life (when you know how, that is).
Here are "Step-by-step"
where
you'll learn to use the magic of online dating and the right
combinations of words that will make your profile POP!
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